I know that oftentimes, before getting married or being involved in a relationship with someone where a child could be the outcome, you are supposed to discuss certain issues. My question is, if marriage is a possibility, do you advise discussing child rearing methods with your bf/gf, before having children together or getting married? Like methods of discipline, whether or not to breastfeed, etc? For those who already have children, if you knew then what you knew now, would you have discussed it more, and would you advise discussing it in depth before having a child with that person? Or, do you feel that these things can be discussed after entering married life? Isn't there some worry that if you discuss these issues with the person you're in a relationship with, it could possibly cause a breakup or the ending of the relationship if the views differ too much?
2006-09-25
04:01:56
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