I'm female, 25 years old, and scared of sex, but I don't know why. I've never been sexually abused in the past or had any horrible sexual experiences, but the thought of full sex makes me feel physically sick and very panicky.
The most I've ever done with guys is some above the waist stuff, which I'm fine with. But as soon as their hand goes below the waist I get really scared, push them away and usually end up in tears.
It's not that I have no sexual desire, I do, and I masturbate from time to time, I use a vibrator as well, although I don't particularly like the feeling of having anything inside me, it makes me feel a bit sick sometimes. But the thought of letting anyone else touch me scares me, and the thought of full penetrative sex terrifies me.
Any ideas what's causing my fear? How do I get over this? Because ultimately I want to get married and have kids, and I want to be able to enjoy sex.
2007-09-12
06:33:04
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