I’m shy & been with only 1 man sexually so I have to ask for opinions as I don‘t have lots of experience. I had a recent major surgery & am confused by the way the doctor acted toward me; he leered at me sexually with his eyes. My question is “WHAT WERE HIS INTENTIONS & WHY DID HE DO THAT?” He turned his head toward me with a sexual look in his eyes. I didn’t look away as I was trying to figure out in my mind if he was actually looking at me that way. Then he turned his head all the way in toward mine even closer & stared ever more intensely sexually. Neither of us spoke when all this was happening. He was so tall & beautiful with golden blond hair that I couldn’t get myself to look away at first & it got so intense that finally I had to look away. I was shocked & began talking about treatment plan. He then tried to do it again a 2nd time. Because of this I thought he was interested in getting to know me & I was contemplating calling him for a date; but was appalled when I found out on web he was married, so I changed my mind. Was he making fun of me because I’m shy, or was he making a pass at me, or did he feel sorry for me because I looked so ugly after my surgery (pale/weak), or does he just simply think he’s god’s gift to women, or is he just simply being a tease? The day before I was uninhibited due to the morphine & I hugged him because he brought me good news; the hug was slightly longer than what was appropriate, & he hugged me tightly, but I initiated it. I’m 9 years older than him. I’ve been troubled about the leering. I traveled all the way to Austin for my surgery since they had special facilities there dealing with my condition. If I ever need help again I won’t feel comfortable going to him because he leered. He also doesn’t like answering medical questions. However, the surgery went well (he has fellowship training) & haven’t had problems since.
2006-08-05
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