We just recently started having sex. I think that most people are aware that a lot of women do not climax through intercourse alone, but he expressed a desire to make me come this way, and I let him know that I wanted it to happen too. We tried manual stimulation, and oral sex for a while. I tried to communicate to him in detail what I liked, but I guess I just wasn't getting through. Then I tried to finish myself off, but I was kinda tired at that point and felt under pressure to perform. It doesn't bother me that I wasn't able to come, but he seemed to have taken it very personally. I don't have an orgasm every single time, and I don't think that most other women do either. I have never faked an orgasm, but I wonder if I should have just to have spared his feelings. I would not give him a difficult time if he wasn't able to get it up, so why was he a total baby about this -- or was it my fault; did I lead him on somehow by telling him I wanted to come.
2006-07-18
18:05:42
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