i m a medical student.6 months of college remaining.i had break up with my boyfriend.every one is supporting him but not ready 2 listen me.i've spent more than 4 years with these people but now they r changed.when i was with that guy every 1 was good to me. that means they were never interested in me.it was He who bound me and them unwillingly.
2006-07-18 17:36:17 · 14 answers · asked by soni 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
6 months left - and then what do you do?
I submit to you that you have an awesome opportunity waiting for you somewhere distant from where you are now. I think that this is a blessing for you. Concentrate on finishing school and see where life takes you.
I had a terrible falling out with the bulk of my family in Philadelphia and I was so angry and so hurt. I wound up having an opportunity to move across country and I thought "I have nothing left to stay here for" and I went. It wasn't until about 6 months later that I realized that I never would have taken the opportunity if it wasn't for the family fall-out. I would have felt guilty to leave people alone, etc. As it was I did come out here for a wonderful new life and I have after 1 year, been able to patch up those relationships even.
What I am trying to say, don't minimize the friendship that you have shared with these people. Remember that when there is a break up, someone often gets custody of the friends and that is just the way it is. Look forward to what is ahead for you - in fact, visualize and imagine the great new opportunity so the powers that be know what is important to you.
Congratulations on your accomplishment. Medical school is a long hard road and you are nearly through. Great job!
Peace!
2006-07-18 17:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what those people think of you? Do they pay your bills? Do they REALLY know who you are as a person? Does there opinion of you really make a difference in your life?
You've spent all that time in Medical school, with only six months left, and you want to throw all of that away, because someone doesn't like you?
Six more months and your out of there, they won't be involved in the new life that your creating, right?
2006-07-18 17:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by afanofnataliewood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's more important? How fickle people feel about you or how you feel about yourself? You've only got 6 months left, don't throw away all the hard work you've put in. I would give anything to go back knowing what I know now and finish college. Don't dwell on people that aren't worth it. Concentrate on your schoolwork. Graduate and get a bitchen job! Success is always the best way to get even!
2006-07-18 17:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by sparkletina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are under a lot of pressure with college and your personal situation. You should not try to handle this alone, but should get yourself scheduled to see a counselor. Someone you can talk to who is not biased. It is very helpful to have someone who is not emotionally involved help you to cope with your problems and feel like you have a plan and some control in your life. It's hard to problem-solve or even make simple decisions when one is overwhelmed with life's difficulties. I encourage you to just make a call to talk with someone. I know it will make a difference for you and you'll feel so much better!
2006-07-18 17:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by kellyfursure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break-ups are tough because they force people to choose sides. it doesn't necessarily mean that they never were friends with you; it only means that they were slightly better friends with him. It is a pain to have to meet new people, but it will help you move on with your life much better than if you were still friends with the same group of people then every time you got together you'd have these really awkward moments caused by having both you and your ex still in the same group.
So it's hard now but it might really be better in the long run.
2006-07-18 17:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by JoeSchmoe06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 09:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try not to worrie about it. I know it can be hard to feel like no-1 wants to talk to you, but if you give it time and try to talk to OTHER people in time you will have a whole slu of friends. Just try and look your best and tell them that there are no hard feelings. Even if there are you'll look like the good guy.
2006-07-18 17:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by F.Duke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then it is good you are away from him, and start a new life, including new friends. Some day your so called friends will realize what he is really like. Until then, you can't change their minds. A person can only rule their own minds. It's time to move on.
2006-07-18 17:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some friends and be a good friend. YOu need to work on your people skills. That's one thing they don't teach in college. People skills make a good doctor a GREAT doctor. And don't puss out. YOu're better than that. Keep your head up.
2006-07-18 17:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by andre Tannenberger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have 6 months remaining. Why does it matter what these people think and do? Sounds to me like they need to grow up and you need to see that you are better off without him. To thine own self be true. Find your inner strength and tell yourself you made the right decision.
If you aren't going to look out for number one (you)... who is?
2006-07-18 17:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by drinkupmehearties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋