Singles & Dating - 22 November 2007

it seems like ever since i moved in with him all he wants to do is go chill and go out with his boys and smoke weed and drink and go out to clubs. or when we are at home when
we are at home and some female comes knocking on the door him and his boys are quick to jump up and i can't tell if he's cheating can sombody please give me some advice to catch him if he is so that i can leave him alone.

2007-11-22 15:44:37 · 21 answers · asked by STARQUASHA H 1

My girlfriend just told me that her mom told her that she thinks i am very immature.She thinks that cause of how i act with her 5 year old little sister. I play with her sometimes. She also thinks that because my girlfriend is 2 years younger than i am. Her mom also said that i dont do my part in the relationship. When i think that i do. It made me think that i really am immature. My girlfriend doesnt think so, and i have never been seriously told im immature. I dont really have a lot of friends though. Could that be why? Cause im immature? If im going out with someone 2 years younger than me, because im immature... i dont see what is wrong with that. I think it's fine. She is an amazing person that can make anyone happy, not just me. I can act "silly" around people. But i do it to be friendly. How do i be more mature then? What is my part in the relationship then? I want to feel better, thinking about it is just putting me down.

2007-11-22 15:37:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 15:34:31 · 3 answers · asked by saveitok 6

b4 you read this search for the question: Love Troubles!!!?
If u dont read that question first then this will not make sense.

After all the things that I mentioned and everything and after everyone said that it sounded like we liked each other a lot. Would tht be affected if I were to say we were both the same sex? Would that be like me and them being really close friends or something else? Help! Idk why I feel this way but never have...its really weird for me to put this out. Especially over yahoo...so please someone give me some advice please! Thanks

2007-11-22 15:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous 1

2007-11-22 15:28:56 · 8 answers · asked by D C 1

ok well im 21 and he will soon be 18. but the thing is that he dated my niece.he just told me that he loved me and i really dont know what i feel 4 him but i like him a lot i talk 2 him all the time and we talk about everthing i mean everything.plz help. what can i do ?

2007-11-22 15:26:09 · 26 answers · asked by kay 2

Is it bad thinking about sex when your a virgin. I don't have a boyfriend yet and don't intend on losing it until I'm ready.... But I would have dreams or start daydreaming of myself having sexual encounters. What does that mean?

2007-11-22 15:25:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I truly loved him and he ditchd me coz i dont loook beautiful and i am not able to get over it . I need to do a entire make over of myself.Pls Help!!

2007-11-22 15:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by vennila 1

ok say your 13. wat would you think if a girl you good friends with, who is pretty, and cool, randomly walked up to you and kissed you on the lips?

i have never or dont plan to do this just wondering

2007-11-22 15:15:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

the guy i have a huge crush on found out becasue one of my mates told him. before all of this i was told by his friends that he likes me and now that he knows i like him he is ignoring me and he used to text me all the time and flirt with me and now he wont even look at me or text me. my best friend asked him if he still like me yesterday and he said he just wants to be friends. I dont understand 2 days ago he was flirting with me and yesterday he was ignoring me? Can anyone one tell me y he is doing this and what can i do. i really like this guy i i dont want to forget about him

2007-11-22 15:07:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm looking for new ways to meet and talk to girls at the mall. Like what would I say when I approach them? What would I say if they are a cashier? What could I have my wing man do to break the ice? I'm open for any suggestions. I'm not shy when it comes to talking with girls, it is just when I first talk to them I don't know what to say. If any girls can tell me what methods worked on them that would be great or if any guys find that a certain approach works the best, please pass it on to me.
--Thanks

2007-11-22 14:53:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi guys, I'm in high school at the moment and just curious why I don't have a boyfriend - it seems like everyone does! I'm 15, a senior (I'm young) and from New Zealand but go to School in the US. I moved from New Zealand to Canada when I was 13, then moved to the US and this is my second year here. I'm smart, interesting, honest - some might say a bit of a goody good - and have lots of friends. I go to a catholic school but it is coed. I don't go to parties cause all that happens there is drugs, drinking and sex and I really don't want to be apart of that. Any ideas on why? I guess maybe my ideals are too high - but we are humans with dignity aren't we?

2007-11-22 14:52:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

be honest please. i know this may be long but just bear with me i really need advice. i will appriciate it a lot. Did he lead me on? this guy i work with and we have been flirting for the past 3 months. he would always give me hugs all the time, and one time after work he asked me if i had a boyfriend and what do i look for in a guy. he also told me that he has been single for a year because in his past relationship his girl cheated on him. and i remember one time when he hugged me he slightly touched my *ss. but anyways i know for a fact that he was interested in me and i fell for him hard. so one day we were talking on msn and i asked him when he wants to chill cuz he would always say i should come over and visit him sometime and he said "i have to see when im available" i was like okay. also before i asked him if he was talking to anyone meaning if he is dating anyone and he said no. then 2 weeks later we have this conversation on msn:

2007-11-22 14:50:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is the beauty I've set my sights on:


http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AicGYZ0yCIhT6ti5RqGl41_sy6IX;_ylv=3?show=cwQXo3j3aa

2007-11-22 14:49:39 · 12 answers · asked by Jack B, goodbye, Yahoo! 6

I'm feeling really happy in a new relationship but I'm also terrified. Love is scary.

Recently I've been having these nightmares where something in my life goes out of control...I think this indicates a problem with letting go and just letting things happen. I feel that in order to make things work I have to be perfect and nice all of the time. In fact, my guy said that I'm "almost too nice" to people. I am always so afraid to say or do the wrong thing and that he'll stop liking me.

Another thing is that saying goodbye is really hard for me. I just have such a great time with him that parting is difficult.

I received very little love as a child. Therefore, I tend to cling just a little too much. I don't call all of the time, and I don't ask him where he is every second...but I just can't relax and accept that he LIKES me as much as I like him.

How do I balance being loving towards him without being needy and demanding? How does a cool girlfriend act?

2007-11-22 14:43:38 · 5 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

May I PLEASE have a star?

2007-11-22 14:36:32 · 22 answers · asked by SHOCKWAVE 3

I met this girl a while back around September at a party, we talked a little there and everything and she said she thought i was cute. After that i asked her for her screen name and i talked to her on AIM, but even when i talked to her on AIM she kinda sounded annoyed like if she didn't wanna talk to me, and i didnt even talk to her a lot. I tried talking to her in school, i would say "hey wuddup" and she would just say "hey" and then keep on walking and ignore me i guess. I thought maybe she was just shy or something, but then i IMed her one day and she wouldnt respond or anythin, so i kind of stopped talking to her. But in school in the halls i see that she looks at me when i pass by so i dont get it, and about 30 min. ago i IMed since like 2 months and all she did was respond with a "?", and i dont get it, why doesns she even want to talk to me as a friend or anything?

2007-11-22 14:13:31 · 12 answers · asked by Leo 3

ok, so lets say i have a girlfriend right? but for some reason when she is about to give me head, i lose my *****! im REALLY neverous, so im thinking thats why. i mean i KNOW im not gay, i def love girls hahaha...but its just soo strange i never thought that i wouldnt be able to bring it up, especially at this time. the only two things i could have thought of is i really am not that attracted to her, or i am just not ready. but the funny thing is when i think about it and when we get together i am SOO ready, and many other times i am. It makes no sense. help would be nice. thx in advance.

2007-11-22 14:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever gone to a social event, wedding, church and notice that the ugly chicks marry the charming, hottest, nicest, most family oriented guys? I have lived in different places with different environments (Cancun, NYC, Connecticut, Kentucky, Tennessee, California, Texas.) and I have noticed that all the hot chicks are always single currently dating the average looking assholes that treat them like garbage. I started thinking about it and I came out with a couple of the possible reasons about this Phenomenon:

Advantages of being with an ugly chick:

1. It is easier to be yourself because they do not have high expectations.
2. You do not have any competition.
3. You are the best she can do.
4. They do not have 1000 guys trying to get in their pants therefore they tend to trust you.
5. Less vain therefore an ugly chick will have more time to take care of you.
6 She does not think she is God's gift to earth and behaves like a real human been.
7. Will please you sexually because she wants to make sure her man doesn't try to find "it" outside the house.
8. They are more likely to forgive infidelity.
9. Most of the times make the best mothers cause there is nothing besides her family (model shots, clubs, bars, girls night outs).
10. Tend to fall in love easier.
11. They are humble.
12. This society has not taught them that they are sexual objects and they are not ****** up in their mind.

Disadvantages of being with a hot chick:

1. They always think they can do better.
2. They always think there is someone else waiting if you do not work out.
3. They judge you.
4. They feel every man look at them like a piece of ***.
5. They are more likely to cheat.
6. They like challenges and enjoy games/jerks and assholes. (Even though they say the opposite)
7. What they say is far apart from what they really mean.
9. They are mean towards unattractive people even though we are all equal.
10. They do not trust anybody.
11. They love having "special" friends.
12. Your bestfriends will aways want to **** her.

I am not saying that is the reason why but I guess that could be some of the reasons.
I guess if the hot chick wants to compete against the ugly girls they need to adopt some of the ugly chick behaviors and ideals, this could be a hard task for the hot chicks because I have noticed how they are treated, raised and educated different from the ugly chicks ( the ugly chick does not know what it is to have a guy open a door for them or having the ability to make a guy nervous by just looking at them straight in the eye) but I am sure it is not impossible. Being this said I believe the worse type of women out there are the ugly chicks that think they are hot because they have hot guys hitting on her... they do not realize they only want some booty and when she finally wakes up from her dream and realize what they really are they already have 6 kids no education and are too lazy to get a job.

I personally want an average looking girl that I can trust so I will probably end up with a goal oriented, open minded, clean, college educated ugly chick that will take care of me and our future kids and that I can trust in any situation after all looks fade away but inner beauty is forever.

2007-11-22 13:59:06 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 13:56:35 · 14 answers · asked by ames 3

My bf (7 months & adores me) & I had a big fight last night which was over a misunderstanding, we have the best relationship but the fights are becoming more frequent :(, I do tend to cause as im insecure
Anyways I msgd him this morning saying basically I love him, he means the world to me and I dont want to lose what we have and is he ok with us..
He replied with "Yeah ill get over it.. You mean everything to me & hopefully this makes us stronger..Love u."
I responded with I hope this hasnt ruined us and he replied with "I dont think this has ruined us..When we are fine and having fun I am having the time of my life with you."
The last msg I sent him was im really sad and dont think ill be fine until I hear from you
His reply was "Yeah I still feel **** 2..Im sure we will b fine..Time will hear all wounds... Speak later luv (which he never calls me :()

Do you think I havent lost his love and respect and that he still adores me, im stressing bad :(

2007-11-22 13:55:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this guy have been friends for about a while and have hung out and stuff. Yesterday at his house he said he liked hanging out with me, then he asked me out. I said yes. He says hes had a crush on me for a while now. As I was about to leave, he said "Its not that I'm ashamed of it or anything, but could you try not to spread it around that we're going out??" If hes not ashamed, then why would he care whether or not I tell anyone?? Why do you think he said that??

2007-11-22 13:52:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many times have you told a woman what she wants to hear and lie versus keeping it real even when she leaves an open invitations to keep on walking with no strings attached? I have wanted to hooked up with this one peticular cowboy that i have had my eye on and damn it man, i am wondering if he is going to pursue me or "this" or if he was just blowing smoke up my ****. He is defintley a ladies man and now i am wondering if i am going to end up just another name on his list? It would be o k, as i have just gotten out of a long relationship and i am not ready for serious things right now, but why lie if i said it would be o k in the first place.I was gonna save the horse regardless. I don't do this sort of thing regularly,hell he was the first "horse" i have "saved" cowboy wise.
I have to say the night was worth it. How long should i wait to see if he calls me before i forget about him?

2007-11-22 13:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay say this girl is totaly fit! 5'10 and has lond legs and toned! ANd shes tan and she has DD's but then she has a big nose and pimples and really ratty redish hair

2007-11-22 13:51:14 · 44 answers · asked by Rebecca J 2

We're teenagers, and I won't take him out on a date because neither of us can drive, and it's on a school day and I have plans afterschool. I really don't know what to get him. I was going to go to Build-A-Bear and make him a doll, but I kind of think he's doing that for me because he said something that sort of implied that.
I'm really lost. So far, I wrote him a love letter that he LOVES, and a dog tag with our names engraved on it. I can go all out if I have to.
But the last thing I want to do is get him cds, clothes, watches, etc. I want to get him something sweet, romantic, and cute. Any ideas? I'm DESPERATE for help.

2007-11-22 13:51:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in love with a man that is married with kids but we have an UNBELIEVABLE attraction " love at first sight" do you think if I have sex with him he would leave his wife? They are having problems from what I understand. I'm afraid to have sex with him because I already feel in love. I don't want to hurt again. But I know if he did we would be in Love, Lust forever.

2007-11-22 13:48:27 · 21 answers · asked by Kj 4

This girl says she is from Indiana. And she went to Nigeria .because her parents died and she went to the funeral . And now she is ready to come home . But she does not have enough money for her flight home which is almost 400 dollars . Should I report her

2007-11-22 13:46:08 · 4 answers · asked by llgii i 1

I just want to have several girlfriends at once, and they all know about it. Maybe like 7. How can I achieve this? I dont want to marry them. It's just always been something I've wanted to try out.

Anyone ever done this?

:D

2007-11-22 13:43:49 · 5 answers · asked by Mr.Riches 2

Okay there's this guy in one of my classes and he said he was like in love with me last year and flirted with me a lot this year. He emailed me and called me about going to a concert together. We went to the concert together and it went well. Nothing horrible happened and i did nothing wrong. Then the day we go back to school he ignores me and flirts with this other girl really obviously in front of me. I know he saw I had a lot of txt messages on my phone from other guys. Is it possible he got mad about that? I asked him if he was mad at me though and he said he wasn't. Maybe he doesn't want a relationship or is gay lol. I don't care anymore cause i moved on and dated another guy a week later, but it still bugs me to know why he's ignoring me. I know it's definately possible he doesn't like me anymore, but i want to know what everyone else thinks about the situation.

2007-11-22 13:41:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think she was bsing but she said that her and her mom have sex with the same guy( she take a turn, then the mom takes a turn) is that the grosses thing you could ever do? I really don't know all the details, but she said that her my and her never touch another, but they will direct the penis inside of another????????? she is a fat liar???? or just sick

2007-11-22 13:40:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous