it seems like ever since i moved in with him all he wants to do is go chill and go out with his boys and smoke weed and drink and go out to clubs. or when we are at home when
we are at home and some female comes knocking on the door him and his boys are quick to jump up and i can't tell if he's cheating can sombody please give me some advice to catch him if he is so that i can leave him alone.
2007-11-22 15:44:37 · 21 answers · asked by STARQUASHA H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, he sounds like quite a catch! I wouldn't even waste my energy or time trying to catch him at something. I'd just leave.
2007-11-22 15:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Seems like I have to agree with most of the other responses that you received on this question. He only wants you as a convenience (or so it seems), look at his phone log check his pants pockets and all that other stuff for any type of clue that may indicate where he is going who is calling etc. Best advice I along with everyone else in here is to leave him. It does seem very obvious that he does not want to put any effort into this relationship and you can do lots better Good Luck
2007-11-25 03:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by brian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he's cheating. Sounds more like he's bored.
Go out with he and the boys, especially if they're out with other girls.
Follow him some time, or get a friend to follow him.
Men like to pal around with the guys, that doesn't change whether a woman is in the picture or not. The frequency may change.
He may not be the right person for you, and vice-versa.
2007-11-22 23:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by E. F. Hutton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him, you should not be with him. Trust me, i wasted 5 years of my life, knowing this all along, and in the end, I was right. He cheated on me (and was probably doing it all along, and I was just stupid about it) and has a 4 month old now. We had been together for 4 years when I found out he cheated.
He kept telling me he was just going out with the boys too...
2007-11-22 23:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds shady. You may want to "hire" a few friends of yours as spies, just to keep him in check. Better safe then sorry right? If I may put my opinion about this guy in. I don't know him in the least bit. But he doesn't sound like a very nice guy if all he is doing is going drinking and smoking with his friends, and hardly spending time with you. Don't hurt your self by staying with a guy you can't trust
2007-11-22 23:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are you doing with him?! Why did you move in with him and his friends, that was dumb! If my husband had some girl knocking on the door and then went out with his buddies I would kick him in the balls, repeatedly!!! He probably is cheating on you, especially if he is out all night.
2007-11-22 23:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buy yall a box of condoms and share them. Keep track of the one's yall use together and if some go missing ther's your answer. If he says it's his boys don't believe him you'll have phisical evidence clues by the missing condoms.
P.S.
If he's smart it won't work
2007-11-22 23:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by candiecorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to go out with a boy that use to hang out with his homeboys and smoke and sell weed.....
and honestly i boke up with him bcus he cheated on me even after he told me he loved me and everything...
when they go to a club..high and become drunk.. he forgets what he has at home waiting for him and girls end up tempting him and pretty soon he doesnt realize that he is cheating.. next time... tell him you wanna go and kick it too. and go to the club.....
but all i got to say is be careful///
2007-11-22 23:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by kaycee says; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats suspicious.
Talk to him about it, ask why he never brings YOU to clubs.
Or just go out with your girls. You might just run into him, and then you can see for yourself.
Don't get too paranoid though.
But if it's excessive, dump him.
A guy who cares more about drinking and drugs than you isn't a good boyfriend.
2007-11-22 23:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by adilicious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP! He's a looser, why would you put up with been treated like that? Grab your girlfriends and hit the town. Do something for yourself and stop waisting your energy on such a dead beat.
2007-11-23 00:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋