I'm looking for new ways to approach girls and meet them?

Question

I'm looking for new ways to meet and talk to girls at the mall. Like what would I say when I approach them? What would I say if they are a cashier? What could I have my wing man do to break the ice? I'm open for any suggestions. I'm not shy when it comes to talking with girls, it is just when I first talk to them I don't know what to say. If any girls can tell me what methods worked on them that would be great or if any guys find that a certain approach works the best, please pass it on to me.
--Thanks

Answer 1

Dear fastpich19:

You SCORED BIG TIME with ME~
Dude! This will Blow Your Mind!

I sent the following to Dudes & Chicks!
Change/Edit this to meet your needs!
See below!
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Do this!
Get a notebook/steno pad & write down
some questions in it. Approach girls &
tell them you are conducting a "study"
in Social Dynamics for a College/School
Special Project! (Have the name of a school on it~ they will ask you)

Ask them:
What they "like" in a guy?
What are their effective dating skills?
How do they approach guys?
How does one start a conversation?
How they would ask someone out?
Where they like to go on dates?
Do they like Italian Foods?
etc. etc.~

And the last question?
*Would they date YOU?
BINGO! If they say YES?
YOU SCORE HIGH on your "study"!
But be genuine & sincere.
Don't act too much like a MORON!
Show Real interest! Look in their eyes!
Write down or check off your list/paper!
Be kinda professional & studious~
but flirt too! :-)

Get in the habit of meeting HOT girls
you wish to engage in a conversation
with! Whip out your notepad & interview
girls! What could be easier then this?

If you see a group of girls in a line to
a movie~ approach them! Ask if they
will help you with your "Class-Project"
on Social Dynamics & Dating!

Ask them their names & email #'s!
Write it down!

You will have MORE chicks then you will
know what to do with! Pick & choose!
You can "work" with your ASST~ a friend!

*You can even print us SEPARATE
Sheets of paper for EACH chick!
Arrange some interesting questions
for your Survey/Class Project on
"Human Social Dynamics"!
Be Creative with questions!

Good luck~ dude!
GO get um~ Tiger!
Does This Help?

PS: My "reward" for this kewl IDEA?
You GOTTA HELP OTHERS Do
What YOU Are Doing! OK? Deal?

Answer 2

1'st lose the wing-man. Fly solo. Little tougher huh "not so shy guy" :) It's not a line that works but being open to the moment when an opportunity arrises. A kind word or comment that's sincere without being crude is a good way to get a smile and maybe have her remember u + then if u see her again u can say hi + u both might have a conversation. How bout that. U'l get to know each other a little. U may even look forward to the little flirtation + who knows? Give up tryin to hustle the girls - the only one u'l get that way will prbly out hustle u!

Answer 3

Why are you looking for girls at the mall anyway? Is that the only place you try to get girls? If you hit on them at the mall, they'll think something's up, like you're out there every weekend hitting on women. You should try talking to girls ANYWHERE. All you need to do is start a conversation about absolutely anything and if she responds and you feel like there may be a connection, try to see if you can get some digits, but if you're not feeling it don't even bother. You have to have a personal connection with somebody before you let them know you're interested or before you ask for a number.

Answer 4

If a guy came up to me and said hi I would generally say hi back. Hi always starts a conversations but i could also say hi then walk away. Don't talk basic. Let it flow. Basics are like: hi and how are you. If she is a cashier then start off by saying, man, it's packed in here. If she responds then you can speak general but you have to make sure she isnt married once all that is done FLIRT. Honestly i think its cute when guys flirt and it makes ME feel good.

Answer 5

Balls. Just look at anything that could be an excuse to talk then go for it.

She's talking on the phone and you tell here it's an emergency and you need to borrow her phone then dial your number on it and hand it back to her and say thx and walk away. She'll call you then you ask her if this is an emergency if she laughs you are so in, if not hang up and move on.

Answer 6

ok, first of all, why would you pick up girls at the MALL? youre just gonna find a bunch of rich preppy b*tches who dress like theyre sluts but are actually prudes. (usually, depending what store youre in)
try amusement parks, movies, etc.
as for approaching them, just notice something about them and comment on it. for example, if youre both in line for a wild rollercoaster pretend youve never been on it before and ask her if its as exciting as it looks

Answer 7

that approach is soo tacky. when girls go to the mall, unless theyre smiling and flirting with you. Leave them alone, they don't want to be bothered. If they do smile and laugh at you compliment them and then ask them general questions starting with hi, hows your day going, whats your name. rather than hitting on them. then eventually give them ur email.

Answer 8

Well heres an idea not sure if it will help?

Walk by her, not to close but close enogh to trip on her shoe.
dont fall catch yourself say "sorry my bad" or somthing like that then comment on her shoes and if a conversation doesnt start walk away casually and look back and say bye.

Hope it helps

Answer 9

if you go to a person while they are working - thats sick. they cant get away and they are not there to be hit on but to make their money and do their job. also its rude . grow up ! thats stalking. and wing man?! are you nuts! these are human beings not objects . objectifying is next to rape. ask any psych. dude get help . your alone becouse you dont respect. and thats a bigger issue .

Answer 10

just go up to her (even if she is with her friends) maybe take your friends with too...this will help to break the ice.