be honest please. i know this may be long but just bear with me i really need advice. i will appriciate it a lot. Did he lead me on? this guy i work with and we have been flirting for the past 3 months. he would always give me hugs all the time, and one time after work he asked me if i had a boyfriend and what do i look for in a guy. he also told me that he has been single for a year because in his past relationship his girl cheated on him. and i remember one time when he hugged me he slightly touched my *ss. but anyways i know for a fact that he was interested in me and i fell for him hard. so one day we were talking on msn and i asked him when he wants to chill cuz he would always say i should come over and visit him sometime and he said "i have to see when im available" i was like okay. also before i asked him if he was talking to anyone meaning if he is dating anyone and he said no. then 2 weeks later we have this conversation on msn:
2007-11-22 14:50:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me-wat u doing friday
him- im going shopping in new york
me- thats too bad i was gonna tell u im free fri
him- lol so how are the boys treating u? have you found that special one yet
me- no have u?
him- ye im kind of talking to someone right now
me- really who
him- lol u wouldnot know her
me- I don’t understand u
him- I mean u don’t know her so if I tell u her name it is pointless
me- noo not that, nvm
him- what then tell me
me- lol u play games
him- I don’t play games. I didn’t lead u on, cuz if I did I would have kissed you up and stuff but I didn’t. we didn’t talk on the phone everyday, we didn’t even chill outside of work. I didn’t lead u on, sure we flirted here and there but it was all verbal, nothing physical.
Me- ok true but u did other things to make me think otherwise
Him- all I did was give u hugs and asked you questions to get to know u cuz i really dont…
then he goes offline.
2007-11-22 14:50:56 · update #1
so my question is was he never interested in me to begin with? or did he lead me on? and why did he push me away?
sorry this is long but it is tearing me up inside and idk what to do.
2007-11-22 14:51:42 · update #2
Maybe some of your fellow workers told him something about you that he didn`t particularly like. Have you ever had a relationship with any of them? There is not much use speculating why he got turned off because it sounds like from what you have told us that he is no longer interested in pursuing a relationship with you. Don`t degrade yourself by questioning him any more. Just pay him the courtesies necessary to satisfy your job requirements. It will be tough but in time I believe you will wonder what you ever saw in him in the first place. I believe he deliberately led you on just to build his ego and had no intention of starting a relationship with you. Hope I am wrong.
2007-11-22 16:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Un-couth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh...so not worth it. sometimes guys do that just for attention and bc they're dirt bags. forget him and find someone better
2007-11-22 22:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: forget him.
2007-11-22 22:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: forget him.
2007-11-22 22:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has had it wid u, why break your heart for it. enjoy and forget.
2007-11-22 23:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by seshan r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmm
make him tell you her name
then ask HER what is or isn't happening between them
2007-11-22 22:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long....
2007-11-22 22:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋