Singles & Dating - 22 November 2007

i've been with a bad boy and he has knocked up a bad girl, which is more up his alley since he's a bad boy. So its natural that bad boys click better with bad girls?

2007-11-22 08:01:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 08:00:01 · 10 answers · asked by pink_panta120 1

that makes your significant other want to ravish you!??

2007-11-22 07:59:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this guy for about a year now, we met at the local bar we both hangout at. I would see him every couple weeks up there and we would chat, I was never really interested in him but he always seemed into me, then he asked me to dinner. the first time we hungout alone, he drove me home.the second time we hungout i slet in the bed with him and only cuddled. the third time we both drank a little too much and ended up having good sex. was is to soon?he is 32 im 27. What position should we both be in now?

2007-11-22 07:45:37 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1

i need some seriously slushy heartbreaking poems and poetry, something to show my fella how much i love him and can't be without him,something so romantic it will make you cry.serious answers please

2007-11-22 07:39:22 · 13 answers · asked by SPONGEBOB 1

when im with him i believe everything he says, but then things like this....i don't know what to do. i am really confused.

2007-11-22 07:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by sweetnancy602 1

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 10 months, he’s my first sexual partner and he’s been with 2 other girls. I’m thinking it’ll be easier if we both get tested for STD’s incase in the throws of passion we don't have any condoms or we don’t have them on hand so have to skip and oral etc.

About 2 weeks ago, again didn’t have any condoms and ended up having sex without, that has been the only time we haven't used protection and we’ve had unprotected oral quite a few times (please save the lecture, I already know and i'll get tested anyway). He’s used protection in the past and doesn’t have symptoms but I still wanna get tested otherwise I’m gonna be paranoid even though it’s really unlikely. I'm more worried about HIV really.

How do go about asking him, I’m REALLY worried he’s gonna be offended and take it the wrong way?!

2007-11-22 07:11:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have strong mood swings with this guy. Sometimes I feel like I love him and other times I Hate him so bad, for no reason. I've been with him for a month. when I hate him, I want to hurt him and make him upset. What do I do? It's unfair to him. I don't want to talk about it with him because he'll think I'm a psycho. (I probably am a psycho...) what could be the reason ? what do I do???

2007-11-22 07:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by leave me alone 1

me and my ex bf of 2 years broke up last week (not for the 1st time) he has shown me he loves me this whole time, but when i broke up with him last friday, and told him i didnt love him, he apparenly got "hurt" by it. i do love him, and i want him back. he ahs been texting me alot, saying that he misses me and loves me, but im wondering if he really misses me why hasnt he tried calling me. we have only been talking by text, and since he hasnt called it seems to me like he doesnt miss me. i ask him this and he says its because i hurt him by saying that i didnt love him.

starting today, im planning in not texting him or answering his calls if he calls, for like a week to see if he starts to see that he is really losing me. any advice? why hasnt he called??

2007-11-22 07:03:26 · 5 answers · asked by Pretti iiN Piink 4

I have 2 question the first is obvious! I have been dating this girl for about a 1.5 years and about 4 months into the relationship she kissed another person and i found out through third parties that she did even though she denied it at first she admitted to it later. Although i still stayed with her it was hard to trust her. She is good looking girl "although she thinks she isn't" and has alot of guys that hit on her and although she doesn't tell them off when i am around she says she does when i am not there. Anyways about 8-9 months in she kissed another guy who was hit on her before and she told me about it and i thanked her for her honesty and asked why she did it and if she even wants to be with me! she answered she doesn;t know and she wants to be with me forever! It is not uncommon for her to spend a night over at guys house that i know likes her and has hit on her before in my presence and although she says nothing happens! Would u gal/guys still date someone if this happens?

2007-11-22 06:57:48 · 18 answers · asked by Shadow tear 2

Hes an atheist. I kinda am too but not really, its just sometimes I doubt my religion. My family is totally opposed to atheism and thererfore, is totally opposed to him. I like him- hes good looking and talented, but I really dont see a future with him besides friendship. Plus, I heard that hes a perv and a player which when I met him doesnt really seem true. I was trying to avoid him to keep the distance but then I felt badly and weve started to talk on myspace/ facebook again. what can I do without leading him on etc? help! aLSO, i dont know how he feels. maybe he just has a flirtacious nature but might still want to be friends. what are some signs to tell..?? please help!

2007-11-22 06:55:38 · 2 answers · asked by papi 5

There will be plenty of time in the future to live away from your family, why miss the best years of your life away from them? I mean, there are certainly exceptions to this but for the most part, the reasons are quite lame. Getting your own place so you can have irresponsible sex and do other irresponsible things is not a reason to move out. Sex shouldn't even come before marriage, but that's another issue altogether. Staying at home gives one the opportunity to spend time with their family since they won't be around forever. Plus, there isn't any rent or expenses, you get your laundry done and meals cooked. I don't see what the rush is! I am a 28 year old male and I don't plan to move out until I am at least 30-35. Life is good! But please, help me understand why people feel so rushed to move out and why women my age don't see the logic and beauty of this choice? Family values are not attractive? What a world we live in indeed!!

2007-11-22 06:52:11 · 4 answers · asked by Jack C 1

me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.
we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically
saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after
the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc
i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw
eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo
about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted
me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would
never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i
left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said
"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were
keeping in touch. the third time we were supposed to hang out , he messed up plans...and i was down near where he lived and
staying at a hotel. he called me and got a cab and told me he was coming to see me..and it doesnt matter how much it costs
he just wanted to see me..but i told him he messed up plans in the first place, and it was too late so there was no point in coming.
5 days later, he mustered up the confidence to call me and apologize for when he messed up plans. he told me to tell him the
next time i was coming down, and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..but we werent in an ldr. this past
august, i came to college near where he lives, a whole year since the cruise. we had kept in contact for one year..and now were 15
minutes away. weve hung out 6 times since ive been here. the first time he just stopped by with his friend and his friend said
that the guy i like wanted to see his girl..meaning me. we didnt have sex, we just talked. he texted me after the visit and said
it was nice seeing u tonight. i told him i was sorry he didnt stay longer and he said he would have loved to, but he didnt want
my suitemates to hate him for being there so late when we have classes the next day. and he said "just wanted to see you." the
second time he came to visit he came to lay with me. we layed together and talked the whole time, and then did stuff, but NO SEX.
i asked him why things happen sexually between us and he said because i like you and you like me. and i said as more than a friend?
and he was like..yeah i like you as more than a friend. and i said..so u didnt come here for sex..and he said..i didnt even bring a condom
so i didnt even have intentions..and we didnt have sex. he then left and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the lips, and he was a little
offended because he said "why do you have to make me out to be such an asshole."..but he wasnt mad at me, just a little upset.
the next time we hung out we just layed and talked with eachother..NO SEX. i went over there, and it took me awhile to get there
and he called me 4 TIMES..to make sure i wasnt lying to him..and was really coming. he even offered to pay for my cab, and drove me home the next day
and then the 4th time we layed together and talked again..NO SEX. the 5th time we hung out..we actually did have sex..and
he asked me if i was alright..and if it felt good, and we climaxed at the same time. it was really intimate. the 6th time we hung out
he got high, drank, and popped pills. he wasnt himself..he was still sweet to me but he was avoiding me. i asked him what was going
on and he said he wasnt mad at me. and i said..well why are you avoiding me..and he said i wasnt. i said..listen do you like me
and he said..of course i do..its obvious i do. and he said..i just dont want a gf right now..and i think you ask a lot of questions.
i was like..i know i do..except when youre acting weird..i have a reason to act. so i was like well do u like me as more than a friend
and he was confused. i said well why did we have sex the other night..and he was like idk. he was so confused and so out of it.
so he leaves and i get a text from his friend pretending to be the guy i like saying..i had to leave cause i think youre friend is hott.
i called..and the friend answered and was like..we just hooked up..i want your friend. and they came back and the guy i like was
like i didnt say any of that..that wasnt me. so the guy i like was like lets talk in the kitchen..and the friend follows us? and the friend
got involved and pulled me aside and was like..listen he told me the gist..youre friends..he likes hanging out with you..but he
doesnt want a relationship..u hooked up on the cruise what did u think it was ? and i said..how dare you..you dont even know
the story..we didnt just hook up on the cruise. and he was like well idk. so they leave again and the friend calls me saying..the guy
you like is ****** up..call him when hes sober so you can talk..so i was like whatever. then later i get a text from the guy i likes
phone and his friend is texting me saying..the guy you like is passed out..but he likes your friend..can she hang right now? im awake..
and hes telling me yes the guy u like likes ur friend..send the digits over but dont tell him i was on his phone. i was thinking..if the
guy i like wants my friends number..why would he be mad that you were on his phone...wouldnt you just be doing him a favor?

ps. the guy i like was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who cheated on him and got pregnant with another guys kid.
his friends influence him a lot..and when we were hanging out this last hang out he was talking about how he knows a lot of pocketbook
brands bc he would buy them for his ex gf..and he "knows how girls are"..and i think that triggered the way he was acting weird.

and his myspace song is look after you by the fray and his title says "any reason why you would want to date me"
and we havent spoken in 4 weeks..and now his song is i dont wanna be in love. and now his title says " this way is a waterslide away from you"
and now i think hes back with his ex girlfriend. but the other night i saw him and he had the biggest smile on his face. i saw him with
my friends..and we were sitting at a table..and it took him awhile to come over, but he came over and sat and talked to us. his hands
were shaking..and he was so sweet and friendly. but then his friend, the stupid one..came and he had nothing to say. he had this guilty face
on and he only waved to me. then the guy i like left with his stupid friend..and they were meeting up with another friend..and he said he
was gonna come back like 10 times, but he never did. i didnt expect him to cause i felt he was either scared, or easily influenced by
his friends, and they were prob like why would you go back. and now his default pic on myspace is of me and his brothers and he did
artwork on it as a joke. AND NOW I FOUND OUT..THE GUY I LIKE'S FRIEND..LIKES ME.


1. does he like me and have feelings for me?
2. is he using me?
3. was i just a hookup?
4. what does his myspace title and songs mean?
5. did i pressure him or push him away?
6. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?
7. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?
8. why hasnt he been contacting me?
9. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?
10. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?
11. would he honestly hold onto me for over a year to have sex once and thats it?
12. do you think he'll come back around and we'll eventually go out?
13. if he's back with his ex girlfriend what does this mean? does he not like me? why would he do this?
14. the night after we had sex, he put on the fray song "look after you"..do you think..after sex he realized that he has really strong
feelings for me and got scared?

2007-11-22 06:45:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 06:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by FRANsuFU 3

taken your pride and respect and dignity. you gave him everything then ended up calling you a sl ut fat ugly stupid who r e, amongst other bad things

2007-11-22 06:14:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How old are most people when they get/give their first kiss. I am asking because I am a good looking, single, straight, successful 28 year old male and I have not experienced my first kiss yet. I would say some people get it earlier than me, but most have to be in the same boat as myslef as I am a normal kind of guy in every respect. Your thoughts are appreciated.

2007-11-22 06:08:30 · 17 answers · asked by Jack C 1

I just want to know how to get a girl to stop and smile and say hi or start a conversation with me?

2007-11-22 05:35:51 · 4 answers · asked by mustang_350 2

I knew this girl since we're in skool in and got disconnected in 8th grade. we met again on facebook after 13 yrs and now we are chatting with each other since last two months and are very good friends. We share each and every moment of our life..we fight and we enjoy nice moments also. but the bad part is we never met each other in rescent time...we did all that on phone or on messenger. we can go on chatting for 6-7 hrs non-stop. we got so many memories and things to discuss..we both luv it.

Everything was going good at this moment. I didn't went to her city and proposed her coz i wanted to give some time to understand me and than only I wanted to tell my deep feeling to her. Suddenly, few days back her cousin and his friend came from another city and stayed at her place. I asked her on monday she said yeah i like him and she think dat guy also likes him too. guys what should i do to express my deep lov to her as now she has this guy in her mind. I LOVED HER SINCE I WAS IN SKOOL

2007-11-22 05:19:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Becuase hes not ready to say i love u yet, and he has his phone off becuase he went on a road trip with his best guy friend randy, and he all ways wants to see me, do u think he really cares about me?

2007-11-22 05:06:33 · 18 answers · asked by wildride07 3

a rumor

2007-11-22 04:47:35 · 26 answers · asked by toxic 2

Do you think a guy is lucky when his girlfriend is so understanding and caring, and always gives him space when he needs it?

This lady knows that he's not the richest person around, he has financial difficulties, yet still want to stick with him although she knows there are guys better than him and can dump him anytime?

She tolerates his family and always makes sure he place his family first before her?

Yet its sad to know that this confident lady is me?

2007-11-22 04:31:35 · 10 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3

One of my best friends and I often joke about the fact we'd make a perfect couple. He always laughs and says "but unfortunately you're only attracted tot he type of me that treat you like ****" (which is true).

Yeah he's also the only guy I know who has put up with my tantrums, spent hours on the phone to me crying my eyes out, builds my confidence, tells me how wonderful I am, chats complete bollocks with me, makes me laugh until I cry, dresses up with me, acts silly with me, talks whistlessly for hours about all kinds of things with me, always makes time for me, bales me out of trouble, never loses patience and would do anything for me without ever expecting anything in return.

But now my friends have started saying it too, and it's got me thinking - but I could never compromise my friendship with him. Say if we did start seeing each other, it'd only end in disaster and I could lose a really good friend.

Is it possible to turn from friends to lovers?

2007-11-22 04:28:48 · 13 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3

than you at life?

Why do women try to brag about things?

Insecurity?

2007-11-22 04:28:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm like 13 and i am dating is that good or bad and what age would u prefer to start dating

2007-11-22 04:28:36 · 26 answers · asked by Mercedes Jonas 1

Ok so I go out and I see these guys I know,They have a few single friends with them.Me and one of them hit it off.we talked for hours.He asked for my number but said didnt have phone on him.So I take his and dial his phone.Well guess what the number is not a real number, Its not a working number!! and I think back that I realized he was wearing his phone a couple hours later and he said he didnt realize he was which doesnt sound right.we had made a date and he was very complimentry.Obviously he wasnt into me that much.I thought maybe he had a girlfriend or was married.But hes definetly not.I emailed his friend today and said I dont appriciate being played.To bad,we hit it off and he was so cute.why do men do this?he wasnt drinking either so why act intrested in me if he isnt?

2007-11-22 04:21:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

.. Im 21 and cant stop thinking about older women especially yummy mummys and being a boy toy - anyone know where to find one?

2007-11-22 04:17:42 · 16 answers · asked by Music fan 4

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2007-11-22 02:56:23 · 21 answers · asked by Inessa K 1

Something nice to me...?

2007-11-22 02:47:28 · 18 answers · asked by skaska 5