Ok so I go out and I see these guys I know,They have a few single friends with them.Me and one of them hit it off.we talked for hours.He asked for my number but said didnt have phone on him.So I take his and dial his phone.Well guess what the number is not a real number, Its not a working number!! and I think back that I realized he was wearing his phone a couple hours later and he said he didnt realize he was which doesnt sound right.we had made a date and he was very complimentry.Obviously he wasnt into me that much.I thought maybe he had a girlfriend or was married.But hes definetly not.I emailed his friend today and said I dont appriciate being played.To bad,we hit it off and he was so cute.why do men do this?he wasnt drinking either so why act intrested in me if he isnt?
2007-11-22 04:21:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wanted to add that he asked for my number 20 minutes into meeting me and then continued to hang out with me for many hours and no he didnt get lucky(although he got some kisses) that was it!
2007-11-22 04:31:59 · update #1
Just also wanted to add,Im 36 and hes 38 so were mature adults here.Im divorced,he was never married.I guess I see why..I really dont think he was drinking plus he lied about that his phone was in the car when he had it on him the whole time.
2007-11-22 04:35:22 · update #2
I'm guessing he's probably one of those people who enjoys flirting with a lot of girls just to make himself feel sexy and interesting. Its also possible that he was only looking for a one night stand or somthing. Who knows? As a guy I think I'm qualified to say that most guys can be total jerks. But in our defense, women can be total jerks too. I've hit it off with women before, but then had them not call me back or email me back after I've left them a message. Even worse I've met women who will continue to lead me on but then always come up with excuses not to get together every time I call. Its like they enjoy just having a guy to talk to and toy with to give them a confidence booster. I hate having to interpret all the subtle little messages people give off. Its like some sort of childish game. I just wish people were less selfish and a bit more honest. I'd rather have a girl come out and tell me that she isn't interested then have her lead me on only to ignore me later. That doesn't show much respect for me as a person and it makes me feel very foolish when I finally realize that she doesn't like me.
2007-11-22 04:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Link 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, WHAT i GET FROM THE JEST OF THIS IS: YOU MANAGED TO GET YOUR PHONE NUMBER TO A GUY, HE DIDN'T FALL TO YOUR FEET AND YOU ARE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY. SO NOW YOU ARE TRYING TO FIGURE HOW TO MOTIVATE HIM TO SEE YOU FOR THE CATCH YOU REALLY ARE, AND YOU ARE MIXED RACE ( WHY THAT'S IMPORTANT , I DON'T KNOW). MAYBE HE PAYS 25 CENTS FOR EACH TEXT MESSAGE AND HE FIGURES YOU AREN'T WORTH BLOWING A QUARTER ON. OR IT'S BECOME TOO MUCH OF A HASSLE TO MEET YOU SINCE HE ALREADY MADE ONE EFFORT. HAVE YOU ASKED FOR HIS NUMBER? HAVE YOU SENT A PICTURE OF YOUR MIXED RACE FACE TO HIM. SO THIS PUTZ IS SUPPOSE TO MANAGE HIS LIFE AROUND MEETING YOU. WITH 6.6 BILLION PEOPLE ON THE PLANET AND ABOUT HALF OF THEM FEMALE. YOU MAY WANT TO CONSIDER A LITTLE EFFORT OF YOUR OWN.
2016-05-25 00:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you were going along well at the time but he had second thoughts...something else going on maybe. Nothing personal, just a guy thing.
2007-11-22 04:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz he prolly was, but only for the night. maybe he thought you could go back to his place or something and when you didnt, he didnt see the reason for anything more
2007-11-22 04:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably Because he just wanted to get in your pants.
This has happened to me before and I wonder the same thing.
2007-11-22 04:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Marlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a GUY thing--my guess is he was not interested and just did not want to tell you face to face.
2007-11-22 04:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men learned that 'trick' from the women!
2007-11-22 04:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by remoserjr107 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he's stupid and can't even remember
his own number, or he just didn't want to be
rude and not give you a number. either way,
you're better off without him.
2007-11-22 04:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have been drunk, or he may have forgot his phone# that happens to me alot becouse i never call myself,, u know what i mean, most of the time i have to look on my cell phone to see what my phone# is,,,,,
2007-11-22 04:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men loves to FLIRT, dear. he was just flirting with you, you should've known better.
2007-11-22 04:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by *~** gp **~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋