Why can a girl never understand what guy is thinking?

Question

the guy i have a huge crush on found out becasue one of my mates told him. before all of this i was told by his friends that he likes me and now that he knows i like him he is ignoring me and he used to text me all the time and flirt with me and now he wont even look at me or text me. my best friend asked him if he still like me yesterday and he said he just wants to be friends. I dont understand 2 days ago he was flirting with me and yesterday he was ignoring me? Can anyone one tell me y he is doing this and what can i do. i really like this guy i i dont want to forget about him

Answer 1

You do not understand the double persona

Whe he is with you, you get one persona; when he is in front of his friends, you see another persona, and neither persona likes the other. So you get confused "Does he like me or hate me?"

Answer 2

I think this guy is a little shy. He probably is thinking u will reject him or that his flirting will back fire. I think he is confused. Maybe he was just telling ur friend that. or maybe he was just being friendly in the begining and not flirty. Oh well he's a not only a guy but a person with their own mind. Only he can answer ur questions. Go talk to him and see whats up.

Answer 3

Because it is no longer just u + him. It's his friend's + ur friends. All u guy's "friend's' runnin messages + givin opinions. No privacy 2 feel it out. Why don't u lose the "messengers" + call him urself + tell him ur sorry it got so out of hand with everybody gettin involved. U might let him know that u liked it when the 2 of u could just b ur'slvs with each other. He might feel the same. Good luck!

Answer 4

This is funny because almost every guy will say that girls are more complex and, moreover, changeable so that guys can't figure out what girls are thinking. When it comes to guys, they may safely be considered to think more narrowly and simply.

HINT: at the age I suspect you are, they are not interested in marriage eventually, or children, or even a long-term relationship. They are not interested in romance and entanglements and are interested in girls for the ways in which girls are different from boys. Typically, guys would, IN OTHER RESPECTS, rather hang out with their chums for sports, banter and competitive status.

Answer 5

He has had time to think about things and even talk to friends (guy) about you. This makes him nervous. Put yourself in a situation where he cannot ignore you and force him to deal with you. The truth will come out quickly.

Answer 6

This is the 21st century. Guys are tired of being expected to make the first move. You probably waited too long and he met someone else who told him how she felt instead of using her friends as a go between.

Answer 7

You are mixing up flirting and having fun with a friend. Can't change him to like you more. Just be friends.

Answer 8

Flirting is just something you do for fun. Guys like the ego boost it gives them when they get a positive reaction. I mean, girls do too.

He's being straightforward; he just likes you as a friend. Tell him you liked him as a friend too, and not to date.

There's other guys out there who like you, and who are nice.

Answer 9

If he says he just wants to be friends, that's a clear indication he doesn't want anything more than just being "friends." As hard as it is, you're going to have to forget about being something more with him.

Answer 10

ohh man a guy did that to me .. in 6th grade
i really wish i could think of good advice for you.
the best thing i guess is to ask him to his face - what's up with you. don't have your friend do it. be like "i thought you liked me...did i do something wrong to make you change your mind so quickly?"
but if you think it through...guys are shallow. they move on faster than girls. sorry hunny but good luck trying