Singles & Dating - 17 November 2007

I have been dating this guy 3wks he has been a gentleman up until a few days ago he kissed my t!t i said i didnt wanna go there coz it can lead to sex. He says he was offended that i was offended,coz he had really felt like he was really trying put forth the effort to show me he liked me and not just get in my pants.He says i let you in my world, we spend time 2gether not just at night but all times of the day, he has let me come to his home on several occasions, and he says if you stay around you will meet my family. Now the only reason he has not come to my home is coz i have 2 kids at home and i am not quite ready for them to become a part of this yet.So it does work out a little better that we can go to his place. wat do you think

2007-11-17 17:41:22 · 4 answers · asked by latora_king 1

ok, so theres this guy and hes in my p.e. class. i like him, and i knowww he likes me too. the problem is, hes technically a complete stranger. he friend requested my best friend on myspace, and then was like, "don't you know kelsey?" so, my friend replied saying, "ya, why?" and he never answered her. he stares at me alllllll the time, but has never said a word to me. how do i get him to approach me, or how do i hint to him that i like him without directly saying it?
pleasssse dont tell me should talk to him first. that's the last thing i wanna do.
thankss
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2007-11-17 17:39:06 · 9 answers · asked by kelseyy. 1

So this girl next door to me has been friends wit me for many many years and i'm starting to get some feeling for her. but i don't know how to tell her because if i try i get nervous. And i really get nervous though because she is 14 and 6'4. and i'm 16 and 5'0 and she is even stronger then me too. But i don't focus on that though cause i just enjoy her company.

but just thinking of dating, to me it will be weird and i don't know what 2 do.

if i decide to tell her i love her then how should i tell her?

2007-11-17 17:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

he asked me out but my friend says he looks like a monkey be honest what do u think?

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewPicture&friendID=100511099&albumId=1323547

2007-11-17 17:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-17 17:29:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently founded my own rap music label known as Super King Reconds. To help with the promotion of my label, I legally changed my name to Super King since I needed a gangsta' sounding name for publicity purposes and my birth name, Ted Swanson, was too white-bread. My daughter's friend who is 17 found out about my new name and told me that that made me sound hot and that she now fantasizes about me! My wife got wind of this and is now insisting that I change my name back to Ted Swanson! I can't do this because I need my new name for my image! Also, my son who is going to be the star of my rap label legally changed his name to Cash-Money God and my wife is insisting that he change his name back. I need him to have a gangsta' sounding name also and his original name, Earl Swanson, is even more white bread than mine! I need him to have a gangsta' sounding name since he will be star of my record label. What should I do to convince my wife to see things my way?

2007-11-17 17:26:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if you really care about someone, and feel really attracted to them, but they're just all over you 24/7??? I'm talking about someone who never seems to take their eyes off you, wants to kiss and hold you constantly, and is always touching and stroking you in a sexual way? Sure, it sounds like there are a lot of worse problems to have, but too much of even a good thing can wreck it. And how do you talk to someone like this, who is extremely sensitive to criticism, about the problem without crushing them or making them feel inhibited?

2007-11-17 17:26:09 · 14 answers · asked by joe friday's grrl 2

What should I expect? What is the best way to deal with situations like these? I am so shocked! He wasn't suppose to leave until 2009, now he has to leave in 2 weeks! I am not prepared for this at all.

2007-11-17 17:23:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I picked up kung fu, tae kwon do, kick boxing, grappling, and streetfighting. I want to know that i can win against him. I want her to feel safe with me. Hes not a bad guy, but he has tried to talk to her to get back with her, and I will not tollerate that again. No means no. So like... what would you recommend? I really love her and I would go the distance for her. I know she would too (she already has in a way).

2007-11-17 17:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by something crazy 4

Im 15 and ive been told this guy at my saturday job likes me and wants to ask me out. Im a christian and i do not want to have sex with anyone until i am maried, but this boy isnt a christian. I dont care about him not being a christian, but if he did ever ask me out how do i tell him yes, but im not going to have sex or say something like that. How do i say this to him if he did ever ask me out? In the end he may never ask me out i dont really care but he is a really nice guy.

Also, if you do not like someone and they ask you out how do you decline polietly?

2007-11-17 17:15:56 · 39 answers · asked by Starfish 2

what do u do if u like a boy and see him practiacally everyday.. but you have a boyfriend that u like more but u barely ever get to hang out with him? :( ohh and the other guy also has a girlfriend that he doesnt see much either.. do u flirt with the other guy,break up with ur boyfriend?(even if u relli like him) orr stay sincere to your boyfriend and only your friend! (tht was long:P)

2007-11-17 17:13:02 · 22 answers · asked by Kayy Bee 1

I'm a single male, 27 years. Most of my life I have been single, and I really want a relationship. I know that most women are attracted to outgoing, confident men who take up space. When I feel confident, it is usually still not in this way. I feel like the "nice guy" that women confide in, but then go home to their boyfriends. I don't mind being supportive, and at the same time I want an actual relationship. I'm losing hope, even though people tell me that I don't have to worry and I'll find someone. I've also tried the "enjoy your life and then you'll find someone" route too, but on weekend evenings, I end up really wanting to be with someone. I think most women my age are attracted to the "bad boys," though for me I'm just not that way. I do my best to stay connected, but I'm a loner a lot of the time. Most people seem to have trouble staying single and find relationship after relationship. I want just one! But I want to be real in the relationship. What do I do?

2007-11-17 17:07:39 · 4 answers · asked by wonderboy 2

he wants to be with me but told my friends he wants it to go slow and we could possibly date.

2007-11-17 16:58:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is a player because he loves to go clubbing and go find girls.... when he is on a break with his gf.... but the question is why he always break up and go back to her again.... does he loves her?

2007-11-17 16:57:22 · 2 answers · asked by itsme 2

me and my girlfriend broke up we dated for over a year and were truely in love... i know we both still have feelings for each other i might even have a little more than her... but shes telling people we are over for good and not just on a break.. should i answer her calls/text at night when she is out with her friends or should i just call her after we both get home and let her wonder what im doing and miss me..

2007-11-17 16:48:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating the same guy for years now and I love him. I ran into an ex boyfriend a couple weeks ago,my boyfriend knows about it, and now I can't stop thinking about him. I don't have feelings for him anymore,but he's having problems and I want to help him out. I don't want to cross the 'friends' line though because I'm happy with Andrew. Would it be okay to help Chris out or should I let him work out his own problems? (btw his problem is he just had a daughter, he left his wife because she was doing drugs and he really doesn't know what to do with the baby, not like he's stupid but he could use a babysitter now and then. I have a son the same age so I don't really know)

2007-11-17 16:40:42 · 4 answers · asked by Bxbabifinest 2

So there's one guy who I'm sure that I'm in love with. I've never felt this way about a guy before. I'm crazy about him, but he's had feelings for a friend of mine for YEARS. She doesn't feel the same toward him, but he won't give up on her. It is really distressing since I'm not the most outgoing person in the world and I'm pretty sure he has no idea how I feel. But based on conversations we had over the summer, I think something is there. For now, we're just friends.
Then there's this new guy in my math class, and we talk a LOT. He's really cute, and I feel something toward him, definitely not love, but there's a connection. Anyway, he's single and I'm pretty sure he's not chasing any girls right now.
Should I just give up on the guy who's crazy about my friend and go for the new guy? Or should I keep trying, since I'm sure that my feelings are real?

2007-11-17 16:37:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is really one of the thing that bothers me,,,,, how can a girl agrees to have sexual relationship before marriage....... in my area,, girls avoid sexual relationship until marriage... atleast i can understand this,, because she doen't want to lose her virginity and she doesn't want any bastard to use her for period of time and then left her when she gets pregnant...???? i asked the question in polls and surveys, about when do girls need to have sex,, approx every woman said that they don't need that, but they want whenever they think the time is right....... so bottom line is how come girl agrees ?????

2007-11-17 16:34:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My new boyfriend and I (2 months) sometimes have sex two or three times in a day and he never waits for me to orgasm. I would understand if we only were having sex once...but two times or more and I get off none of them??? I feel like I have to rush to get off before he does. When I dont, I end up feeling upset or annoyed afterwards. Why does he act like its only about him? Im there too... Will he be offended if I tell him that it bothers me? Do guys understand that this is annoying...or is it just me that thinks this way GAH! what should I do?

2007-11-17 16:31:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently a friend for whom I have very deep feelings suggested that we try a long distance relationship. The problem is he's been separated from his wife for1 yr and wants a divorce but cant afford it right now. They live apart and share a child. I will go so far as to say I may love this man and sometimes think he maybe my soulmate but I'm conflicted. How do I know if his feelings are real or he's just on the rebound and lonely? We live 4 hours apart in two different states and I'm in grad school and cant move right now. He has financial constraints and is working on getting his career together. He says he doesnt love his wife and they are over. He says he'll wait for me until I finish school but wants us to try a long distance relationship in the mean time. I have 2.5 yrs left in school. Is it worth it to purse this relationship with the separation, the child, the "baby mama" the distance. All I know is I've wanted to be with him for 6 yrs and this is my chance but should I chance it

2007-11-17 16:22:48 · 8 answers · asked by rosemont66 1

2007-11-17 16:20:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been friends since 8th grade, and I think he liked me even back then, but I was too stupid to pay attention and act on it, although once in 9th grade, I did get him a calendar for Christmas. (Wow, I can't believe I did that, looking back.) I'm REALLY interested in him now, and we are going to the movies for my 17th b-day on Friday. He's kind of shy, and I want to know if he's interested in me as a friend, or something more. I may bring a girl friend to the movies too.
He usually has one or two things to say to me as I enter the classroom, then that's it, and he leaves without looking back. He babbled on about how he'd have to be really sick and puking and bleeding for his mom to let him stay home, the one day his best friend (a dude) was absent, although he did walk with me out of the classroom that day. This past Fri. we had a fire drill, and I saw him with his friends, his friends sort of pointed me out to him, but he looked up, then back away very quickly. (I was far away.) ..

2007-11-17 16:17:32 · 20 answers · asked by Jess 2

2007-11-17 16:16:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this guy for around a month. Tonight I was working and he went out with his friends. Around 3am I talked to him and they were headed to see if another bar was still open...he asked me to call back in an hour. When I did a girl answered and said "he was busy" and to call back in 2 hours...(she was super rude and made it sound like "they" were busy if you know what I mean) well I sent him a few nasty text messages, then got a call at 5:30 where he was all "confused". He said it must have been his friend's wife's sister who was out with them, cause he had left his phone on the table...and that she must have thought that would be funny. Am I am idiot to believe him? I had talked to him a couple times during the night and he was all "sweetie this" and "babe that" in front of everyone...so except for the one call where she answered nothing was out of the ordinary.

2007-11-17 16:11:54 · 12 answers · asked by Carolyn H 4

Is he into me or just being friendly? I work at a restaurant in the airport and he works in a coffee place not too far down from where I work in the airport as well. I get off work before him and I have to walk by where he works to get out of the airport. He will always see when I walk by and call me in to the coffee shop and make me a free drink. Or he'll come by my workplace and visit other co-workers but always makes sure that I acknowledge his presence while he's there.

2007-11-17 16:11:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl who told me the other day let's have a cup of coffee sometime. She doesn't know I really have a crush on her. I don't want her to know that I have a crush on her. This might scare her off. What should I do?

2007-11-17 16:06:50 · 25 answers · asked by Q. S. 1

...she seems to be in a pretty serious relationship. I've liked her for many years now, but just in the last couple months we've become really good friends. I've got a girlfriend but now that im good friends with this other girl i tend to think about the other girl more. Despite her being in a pretty serious relationship i cant stop thinking about her. Is there any hope in this other girl, or am i just kidding myself?

2007-11-17 16:04:39 · 1 answers · asked by Strife 1

There is a bartender I've been liking for awhile now, and we flirt and mirror each other, and do the other body language things. I went to his bar last night. The girl that works there saw me outside and hugged me and told me he was off last night. She acted like maybe I shouldn't go in. But I went in anyway, and two guys that work there were really teasing me saying things like Oh, where is he? hahaha...I felt really sad, so I just stayed for one drink and left. I went to the bathroom and the girl who works there went in after me and asked me if they were teasing me or something when I came out of the stall. I am so sad. When I left, one of the guys there said to me again Where is he...where is he...teasing me and bothering me. whatever...i am very sad. The guy I like is the manager of the place, too.

2007-11-17 16:03:38 · 9 answers · asked by So adorable 5

I have been dating a guy for 16 months. We are really serious and want to get married sometime. Right now I am living with a family and I don't like it. I am wanting to move out and get my own place, so I can have more privacy. I have have lived with these people for over year. They have two kids and they get really annoying. Anyway. I told my boyfriend 2 to 3 months ago, that if I didn't know for sure that I was getting married next year, and I gave him until Dec. 31st 2007 to decide if he wanted to get married or not then I was moving out and moving in my own place. He wants me to continue living where I am because it is rent free. I feel that he has been dating me long enough to decide if he wants to get married or not. There is no reason we can't. He says it will save us money so when he decides that we can get married we will have extra money saved up. He has been telling me he loved me since a month after we first started dating. Was I wrong to put a time limit on it?

2007-11-17 16:03:33 · 24 answers · asked by Laughing with you not at you 6

Some say the size of his feet, some say the size of his hands or fingers (long, thick, etc). Are these true/false? Any other indicators? Please share.

2007-11-17 16:03:13 · 5 answers · asked by 4Seasons 3