There is a bartender I've been liking for awhile now, and we flirt and mirror each other, and do the other body language things. I went to his bar last night. The girl that works there saw me outside and hugged me and told me he was off last night. She acted like maybe I shouldn't go in. But I went in anyway, and two guys that work there were really teasing me saying things like Oh, where is he? hahaha...I felt really sad, so I just stayed for one drink and left. I went to the bathroom and the girl who works there went in after me and asked me if they were teasing me or something when I came out of the stall. I am so sad. When I left, one of the guys there said to me again Where is he...where is he...teasing me and bothering me. whatever...i am very sad. The guy I like is the manager of the place, too.
2007-11-17 16:03:38 · 9 answers · asked by So adorable 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guys there were cold to me and acting like I shouldn't be there. But it's not like we have gone on a date yet, so I didn't know the guy I like was going to be off last night.
2007-11-17 16:04:38 · update #1
Don't let them other guys get to you. Cheer up. If the manager guy likes you he will ask you out eventually. Think of it this way, those other guys are probably jealous because they know that you like the manager and not them.
2007-11-17 16:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Laughing with you not at you 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's uncomfortable to go to the bar with those teasing guys,don't go.If he's interested and if you gave him information to get ahold of you then stay out of the bar.He'll contact you if he wants to.A guy really doesn't like it if you chase after him. You
already let him know you were interested so leave it at that.
2007-11-17 16:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by j.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really very simple. THEY WERE A*S HOLES!!! Something that I've learned to do would be good for you, and that's not to internalize other peoples sh*t. You shouldn't let them get to you. If you like the guy it's really none of their business. They need to get a life so they can leave yours alone.
2007-11-17 16:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to the guy you like he may not even know your feelings as far as the employees are concerned tell the to back off . but talk to the guy you like and find out if he thinks the same
2007-11-17 16:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Gordon D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't let them upset you. They know you like him, and if it's obvious to them, I'm sure your guy knows too. As long as he doesn't say anything bad to you, who cares what those other jerks say. I'd be nice to the girl though, she sounds really nice.
2007-11-17 16:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you found a great guy in a great place!
2007-11-17 16:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because they know you like him and you're always in there looking for him and you've become his "stalker bar chic". He's not interested in you, or he would have already asked you out. Find a new bar to go to.
2007-11-17 16:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
All it means is they are insensitive.
2007-11-17 16:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are gay. don't let them get to you. tell there boss!
2007-11-17 16:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mark W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋