Singles & Dating - 27 October 2007

I am 22 years old and recently started seeing an old flame from when I was 17. I believe he came back ino my life for a reason and I think he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend any day now. Back when I was 17, he and I fooled around (never had sex but came very close).
I don't want him to think of me as the same "slutty" girl I once was, because I'm really not anymore. I will wait to sleep with him until he asks me out officially, but how long should I wait? I want this guy to have complete respect for me... I'm so used to being disrespected because I jump into the sexual aspects of relationships early.
Please help! How long should I wait?

2007-10-27 13:41:07 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that women tend to look at the outer appearence of a guy,instead of what's inside. Can looks pay bills or will looks keep a relationship together?? Ladies let me know something.

2007-10-27 13:39:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this girl in my class but don't know if she likes me.She laughs at my jokes and when I stare at her,she just smiles.There is no touching yet but she hugs people when she gets"angry".When I call her names she always says"how cute" sarcastically.I usually have to start a conversation then she adds on.I don't really know if she is trying to get closer to me.There is 4 other guys that like her and I don't want her falling for anyone else.Pleadse help a guy here.Gladly appreciate it! =)

2007-10-27 13:36:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

the practice in America, so maybe American women admire that type of woman. It is clearly not a sanitary necessity, since men don't shave(and women wash there even if they shave).
Isn't it weird that only in the U.S. do women shave off their sexiest feature?

2007-10-27 13:34:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy has scars on his stomach from like surgery, and kinda screws up the stomach then is that a huge turn off? I have heard the saying allot "chicks dig scars" but im not talking about stab wounds from fighting in afghanistan lmao

2007-10-27 13:33:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I remember someone saying to me "you love them for their flaws", i think thats so true, just thought Id share that with you all.

2007-10-27 13:32:28 · 25 answers · asked by Whole 4

well we've been together for like a week and we made out a couple of days ago....is it too early?
im 14 btw

2007-10-27 13:29:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-27 13:26:24 · 74 answers · asked by principalg15 1

2007-10-27 13:24:41 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3

My best mate has been seeing a guy on and off for over 6 years now. The thing is they have never been a proper item because of restrictions on their relationship due to the fact that he is sikh. They started off as really good mates and quickly they became closer, but once they became close he became abusive and violent. The strange thing is, is that he is lovely to her when they are together on their own, they have been separated now for a year, but have still remained friends. He phones her frequently and both parties have admitted that they cannot have a relationship together, yet he is jealous if he see' s her with anyone else and tries to kiss her when he does see her, yet just last night my mate walked into a pub where he was drinking with his mates, and when he saw her he began to shout in her face and told her to leave!! But after all this she will still talk to him! and he just carries on making her feel like she has done something wrong, like he is too good for her!

2007-10-27 13:14:32 · 1 answers · asked by roseann s 1

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2007-10-27 13:06:50 · 25 answers · asked by db 2

i was courting this girl for three weeks and then suddenly she told that she and her x boyfriend were getting back together . What will i do..............?

2007-10-27 13:04:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a girl i really like, lets call her Emma. Me and some mates (both male and female) went to see one of our friends in a play. Emma went along too and at the end we were all saying goodbye and I got a hug off of Emma - she approached me for it. This probably doesn't mean anything, but still. I can talk to Emma really easily as well and I just really like her - alot. Can someone please advice me on what to do next? Thanks.

2007-10-27 13:03:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like him, and he likes me.
He's very mature for his age, and we have the same beliefs.
We arent doing anything, and because of our religion we wouldnt do anything either. We are just talking...and yeah maybe kissing... but thats it?
However, my parents think its weird and people think its weird? But I dont feel unconfortable, and we are both happy.
I just dont know what to do, because we are both willing to wait till he gets older so that we can REALLY just tell everyone about it because we dont want problems.
PLEASE give me advice, and be honest, even if you think its gonna offend me.
I just need to know what people would think.
I mean, hes mature, kind, caring, and yeah, at times he might act imature about some things, but besides the fact that hes young, hes also a guy, and guys mature slower than girls....soo i dont know. Help me out!

2007-10-27 13:03:05 · 12 answers · asked by oldergirl123 3

And a whole lot nicer also.

2007-10-27 12:57:19 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Jan of this year, I started dating this guy. He makes me laugh, he's there if I really need him, we always have the best time. My grandma died in April, but when I came back, he was a total mess. His ex-gf tried to get him back at that time so I put my feelings off & helped his situation. I stripped him bare & saw his weakness & it hasn't been the same since. He kept comparing me to his dumb blonde ex. I'm philipino/greek/german/spanish<- Exotic. But he took all of his anger out on me that she did to him. He'd accuse me of sleeping with his friends & I would get mad. She was a nurse who left him for a doctor who left her fairly quickly afterwards. Now, he won't commit but then when I try to leave, he wins me back. When I'm back, he tells me to date others. When I do, he gets jealous & wins me back again. He won't commit, selfish, & a flirt. He can't have his cake too, & I've told him this. He's my best friend & I don't want to lose that but I'm too hot to be a yoyo. Does he not care?

2007-10-27 12:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been dateing for a couple of months now but alot of times I feel like he doesn't take me serious. Could a guy that age be genuinly interested in me??

2007-10-27 12:56:16 · 9 answers · asked by sexyalex20 1

I have been seeing this girl for over a month now... i have told her how i feel about her, and i would like a relationship with her...

She told me, how she has come out of 2 bad relationships...

she told me she is not ready to jump back in to a relationship quite yet.. but she did tell me she likes me, and she asked me to have patients with her.

i have a great time with her, so i told her i dont mind waiting till she is ready, and she needs to find her self before she is ready to commit.. she has a little bit of baggage, like a bit of debt, and she keeps saying she needs to get back on her feet first.. but all that doesnt bother me...

Well we still hang out daily (well mostly) she brings me dinner at work... and all that stuff that shows me she likes me...

I am just curious... How long does it normally take? I treat her like gold, and i continue to do so, and she knows how i feel, and im not rushing her... i am just confused... does she meen like a month... a year..

2007-10-27 12:51:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i have been going todether 4 three months. We trust eachother but ive had people come to me tell me stuff that he does behind my back. We love each other very much annnnd stuff but i dont know what to do.

2007-10-27 12:49:05 · 2 answers · asked by Jai 1

2007-10-27 12:46:00 · 11 answers · asked by brown eyed girl 1

2007-10-27 12:39:36 · 14 answers · asked by Paul C 1

2007-10-27 12:32:33 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-10-27 12:25:15 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just do not understand why men find it necessary to lie about everything, but stupid stuff in particular. If you do not want me to know something, then just do not bring it up. If you do not want to be with me, tell me, do not drag me and my children through the mud again.
Advice and insight from a real man (if that even exists) would be nice.

2007-10-27 12:23:43 · 16 answers · asked by butterflyangel 3

We are really much in love.
But he suppose to leave on a misson in April.
He doesnt want too..
well he dont know if he wants to or not.
He says he just doesnt know.
I said babe ill love you no matter what do what makes you happy!
But now he sad im sad.. two years without him is going to be hard...
he says he doesnt know what to do...
Missons are not for everyone..
so does it make me a bad person if i agree that he doesnt want to go???
I dont know i just love him so much..

2007-10-27 12:20:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We kissed. I told my best friend. She yelled it outside the door of our entire class. Game over.
He's awkward about it, but I'm not. Any way to start the game up again? Get him to....loosen up without making me look sorry?

2007-10-27 12:08:45 · 2 answers · asked by iambic_chatterbox 4

met this guy after I had broken up with my boyfriend and we dated and he was a great guy, he really was very caring and gentle...we never was very intimate but on a few occasions and I stopped him because I was not over my boyfriend and did not know if we were going to get back together, well...I went back to my BF and dumped this guy hard and he was hurt pretty badly and I knew he really cared for me...Well, things went bad again with my BF and I think I made a mistake in retrospect, When I think about things now, Its pretty easy to see how this guy really cared for me and was willing to go as slow as need be to win my heart, Its been 3 months now and I was rude to him the last time we spoke and even hung up on him dispite he did nothing to warrant or deserve that treatment espically since he was so hurt and even nice to me at that point and time. I want to call me but I am afraid to..should I ? what can I say to him to get hm to 4give me ?

2007-10-27 12:07:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... Here's the situation... I am 22 live in Texas and yes I am a virgin. I am a MALE, not gay, very attractive, nice job, own home and car, but it seems as though I cannot find HER. Her being the right girl. I feel as though I am missing out on my youthful years, or my young adult years. Every time I think she's the one something happens. I carry myself like a gentleman, but I am also a manly man. Now, there are some girls out there that I know I can have sex with, today if I wanted, but I am not attracted to them... I want a wife, but I want to see what's out there for me before I get to my wife. Am I feeling right? Should I be having sex? Should I continue to wait? Or WHAT? Yes I have a desire to have sex, BUT not just with any woman.

2007-10-27 12:06:44 · 65 answers · asked by Lance D 1

If you've been hurt by someone you've cared very much for and your trust was badly betrayed how do you trust again???.......Do you???............Can you???..........How do you trust someone with you again???............CAT

2007-10-27 12:06:24 · 15 answers · asked by Sandi 4

I had my first kiss in July. It was really bad and nothing what i excpected it would be. It was a dare and just a peck, but when we leaned in we kind of missed our lips and kind of made it half on our lips. He wanted to like make out and like slobered on me. It was really nasty. Was i really the bad kisser? Will it ever get better? Is making out even worse and more nasty?? Pleaseeee help meee!!!!

2007-10-27 12:04:11 · 33 answers · asked by = ] 1