2007-10-27 12:32:33 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-10-27 12:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by susan9 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I worked at a strip club.He is far more likely to cheat on you at a regular club or for that matter the local supermarket.
The dancers are after one thing,MONEY.
Unless you pull into the parking lot in a 911 Porsche wearing a Rolex watch,you are just another couple of bucks at the end of the night. These girls get all kinds of offers every day,most are declined.
2007-10-27 12:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by hotdogseeksbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him a strip that'll make him never want to go to a half rate screw hole again. Ive been. Nothing to see really. If he's dedicated to you then he won't see anything worth it anyway. If not, then you have other problems. He will leave you.
If you want a man that doesn't go to clubs or look at nudee mags or what not, then you need to be up front with him right off the bat. Lots of guys think thats ok and if you don't then you need to say so. Plain and simple. I personally believe that any guy that goes to those smut houses is gonna cheat on his girl at some point anyway and they are worthless wastes of male bravado...
2007-10-27 12:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by shreditspot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make the decision of whether you want to be with a man that would want to go to a strip club or a man that thinks they're disgusting. It's really not worth your energy to try to keep a man on a leash, to make RULES about what he is and is not permitted to do. Most strip club loving men will always find a way around the rules. Do want to spend your life as a private detective or do you want to be in a trusting, respectful relationship?
2007-10-27 12:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to one yourself with some friends (where there are guy strippers) and have a really great time. Make sure they take lots of pics of you stuffing g-strings and that you show them to him and you talk about how hot the dancer was. Make some little suggestions about how he could do some crunches, or wax his chest, or whatever. Maybe he won't like the feeling of having the tables turned on him, and he'll stop being such an immature idiot. If not, you should dump him, and be glad you found out before you got married. Don't believe people who tell you it is no big deal. It can become an addiction like anything else.
2007-10-27 12:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by desperatehw 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, since i tend to be the psycho overprotective jealous person that I am.. I would go off on him. First of all, if he's happy with you, why does he need to go see a bunch of wh*res jumping around naked? secondly, he could have ASKED you if anything rather than not telling you. that would piiss me off even more than at least asking. I would have still said hell no, but that'd be better than going behind your back. Tell him to quit hiding stuff from you and make him feel guilty by saying you must not be hot enough to look at if he needs to go to a strip club--he's probably more liable to be a cheater too btw...i'd be careful if i were you. Find a guy that thinks strip clubs are stupid! ;) that's what i have!
2007-10-27 12:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to pay a woman to strip it should be YOU! What an insult! He gets you for free and then goes to a strip club and throws money at some trash. I never understood. I'd feel pretty sorry for myself if I had to PAY to see someone naked! hah! I'd bring it up to him, especially since he hid it from you, that is just unacceptable. What else is he hiding? And if he starts asking what the big deal is, ask him why he couldn't tell you if he didn't consider it a big deal! You just don't sneak around behind your boy/girlfriend's back. You're partners. It just infuriates me that men can be so disrespectful to their women and we're supposed to say "oh, that's just how men are."
2007-10-27 12:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by rockinrisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The actual act of him going to a strip club is nothing you need to act upon or worry about, but if it bothers you, then it'd be worth re-evaluating what kind of man you are with. If you don't want to be with a man who enjoys perving over other women behind your back then maybe it's time to move on.
2007-10-27 12:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by PhilGibson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
If he was planning on going as part of a stag do (the grooms party before getting married) and told you, that'd be fair, but going for whatever reason and not letting you know, that's bang out of order.
2007-10-27 12:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck finding a boyfriend who's never been to a strip club. He doesn't need to be in a strip club to cheat on you, hon. You either trust him or you don't.
In the meantime, tell him you have a bigger with the problem that he is hiding it from you and you expect complete honesty from now on.
2007-10-27 12:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by P&Rsmommy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well girl friend its always a shock to find out your man is entertaining joints like that but at the end of the day he will be coming home to you and them whores will still be left swinging from there polls receiving friction burns to the **** hole so don't worry about it to much cause if you act up you and your man will only fight.
2007-10-27 12:43:17 · answer #11 · answered by bumpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋