Jan of this year, I started dating this guy. He makes me laugh, he's there if I really need him, we always have the best time. My grandma died in April, but when I came back, he was a total mess. His ex-gf tried to get him back at that time so I put my feelings off & helped his situation. I stripped him bare & saw his weakness & it hasn't been the same since. He kept comparing me to his dumb blonde ex. I'm philipino/greek/german/spanish<- Exotic. But he took all of his anger out on me that she did to him. He'd accuse me of sleeping with his friends & I would get mad. She was a nurse who left him for a doctor who left her fairly quickly afterwards. Now, he won't commit but then when I try to leave, he wins me back. When I'm back, he tells me to date others. When I do, he gets jealous & wins me back again. He won't commit, selfish, & a flirt. He can't have his cake too, & I've told him this. He's my best friend & I don't want to lose that but I'm too hot to be a yoyo. Does he not care?
2007-10-27 12:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is your best friend who are your enemies. Leave him too. You are there as a convienence and if he carries on like that over her he still loves her. Toss him to the wind so that when he gets her back he can wine about you. you sound so sweet let him go.
2007-10-27 13:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by elliepenelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he accuses you of doing these things, what do you do, argue and fight that its not true? Well, DON'T when you come back and he accuses you of anything, Look him straight in the eye, and agree with everything he has to say. Don't argue, and fight, when he is done, ask him why he thinks he has the right, because he hasn't commited himself to you, and you are free to do as you please. Tell him you value his friendship, but it is not worth your self esteem, to be put down all the time, so either stop accusing and comparing to all his other bimbos, or don't come around. He might leave, but he will be back and with new found respect.
2007-10-27 20:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 1st shes gonna come on strong ...like she;ll love you all night long.....one day you'll pass her on the street .. with ..some other boy you'll see.......... Then she'll leave you with a smile ... till the day you will meet!!!.
2007-10-27 20:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋