well, long story sort.
I am confused. Dated someone very seriously for years, but were friends and co-workers beforehand. The relationship has ended, and run its course. It has been 18 months, her choice. She said she would like to try to become friends. Problem is every time I approach, she shuts down, gets defensive etc. I have left things be for 6 months, but am hesitant to try gain, as she stated last time, she wants no contact.
What's up? I never had troubles with at least saying hi to an ex. And she is unwilling to even say why she is so anti-communacative...guilt, anger????
Should I just leave it? I would like to be friends, she is a great person, and our differences didn't help the relationship, but intrigue me and interest me....we could always talk, laugh and communicate.
Any advice. And before people say, i am just trying to get back...I am not, I am happy, but good friends are not easily found.
2007-10-26
02:15:25
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someguy_in_halifax
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