We get along famously. We never fight about anything and I'm so sick of always getting along. All of our couple friends are always complaining about these screaming matches they have at least once a week, and I'm so jealous. I don't have the least thing to whine about. They all tell us we're lucky, but I don't think I can hide the disappointment any longer.
Maybe I could tell him that I slept with some other guy, but he would probably leave me and take the furniture and I really love napping on the loveseat. Then I thought I could constantly complain about his mother, but his mom is dead and I don't want him to think I'm crazy. Or do I?
I think it's high time we get into a huge fight to put the passion back into our relationship. All of this agreeing on everything is really starting to get boring. It's either this or I'll be forced to have an affair with the guy down the block, who I saw raise a real ruckus on Jerry Springer. He seems like he's got a real short fuse.
2007-10-26 02:02:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you finally come clean and tell him you're a shemale lesbian who wants to have relations with ugly sheep? I think that'll get him going. Of course, if he hasn't noticed you're a shemale by now he may be pretty obtuse. That's it! Insult his intelligence. You're welcome.
2007-10-26 02:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny's Sick of This 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you come up with more creative ways of getting spark back into your relatioship besides wanting to have a screaming match. That just might back fire and blow up in your face. How about trying new and different things. Leave little love notes for one another. Run bath water for one another and put rose petals in the water. Trust me if you tell your boyfriend that you're cheating or you've cheated on him be prepared to be by yourself. Don't be jealous that your friends have fights and you don't. Having a fight with your boyfriend isn't something to be proud of. Honestly if you really love one another you wouldn't want to fight. I bet if you asked your friends if they wish they had a relationship like yours they'd say yes. Having a fight free relationship is rare and something that should be cheerished. Don't give that up just because you want to be like others who more than likely aren't happy in the relationship they have.
2007-10-26 02:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to fight with him? I had a girlfriend with whom I was really ok, never fighted, never got any problem. Then I decided to leave her...probably passion had left our relation and I needed something else...this something else was my other ex girlfriend. With her it was only screaming, jalousy, etc.. Of course I got completely mad, but I also fell in love... and the xxx left me 2 weeks ago...
well, I think you need to find the right balance between agreement and disagreement...but for sure saying him you had a flirt with someone else, or complaining about his dead mom wouldn't be the right solution...
I'm sure you speak about things...and when you do, try to scream and provocate him..that may be a better solution...but I'm not sure that fighting would be the best solution to solve your passion problems...try other things (more passion for instance..)
bests! :)
ps I think there's a yahoo answer in english, that would may be a better place to pose your questions... :)
2007-10-26 02:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by LeeVice FC ஐ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, for interesting times try talking to your boyfriend about harder things that you may not share the same values on. stop giving in so much and let him know what you really want and need. ask him what would make his life more wonderful-what you could do. listen to him tell you what he needs.
you don't need to fight to have interesting times.
make the stakes higher - like survival or who takes care of the baby. take on a difficult task together like organizing a conference. you will have conflicts and disagreements. try having shared money.
try sharing a car with each other. try spending lots of time with the other person's family.
2007-10-26 02:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, go right ahead if you want to be less one boyfriend. There are much healthier ways to put the life back in your relationship.
But then, something tells me this question is a bunch of BS anyway.
2007-10-26 02:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe you feel this way. YOU ARE lucky, my best friend got married to the man she'd been dating for 10 years. they've never fought. I envy them.. save yourself all the heartache and pain.
seriously
2007-10-26 03:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky! My relationship is the opposite.
2007-10-26 03:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whell start arguing with him over the littelest things and when he argues back then start a fight not a violent one but a screaming match and then kiss and make up.
2007-10-26 02:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by golda 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I find that nothing infuriates my Dirty Hippie more than me walking around sans bra, 24/7.
2007-10-26 02:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by dingelbury 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him he's hung like a common housefly and you can't even tell when it's in, it might do the job.
2007-10-26 02:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋