Singles & Dating - 26 October 2007

my doughter is 12 is that to young to have a boyfriend

2007-10-26 19:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing a man for 1 1/2 yrs. He does everything for me. Provides my home, pays all the bills and gets me anything I need. We talk of our future together and building a home someday.
He's 48 and I'm 43. Problem is he still lives with his mother. He's been married twice and divorced.
Both marriages were fairly short. His Mom hated his first wife. The second wife he had two sons with so I think she tolerated that. As for me she's jealous. They take vacations together, and she say's he's her companion. It makes me purely sick to hear him refer to things they've done or seen as
"we" or "us", and "our". I almost feel like I'm dating a married man. He's been living at "home" for 13 years now. Mom is far from helpless, she gets in her car and goes wherever she wants to. But when he has a day off from work she's ready to go and has plans for them. Sometimes I'll get a call and be asked if I'd like to join them. Anymore I just wait my turn. I'm lonely waiting for him.

2007-10-26 19:10:40 · 1 answers · asked by Jusme 2

This guy I l like, he has never had a gf or kissed a girl before. One night we flirted while we were a little bit drunk. My pals there knew I still liked him so they encouraged us and kept trying to make us touch each other, and they said “I think he likes you”. I randomly left, He left me 2 voicemails later one saying "I hope you got back 2 your room ok Ill see you or IM you" He imed me the next morning and he kept asking me questions. He also wrote on my Facebook wall. Hes never done any of these things before, I thought they were good signs. My awesome friends didn’t mind their own business and kept egging him on about me for awhile and my pal told me he said he doesn’t like me (my pal is NOT lying) the day I found out this, my crush knew about it, he stood near me at a concert and ignored me, I ignored him, he walked by and just said “hey” and later that night when we hung out he entered the room and said “hey everyone” and then “hey” to me. This doesn’t mean anything right?

2007-10-26 18:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not sure what to say, how to say it, or when to say it. I would be most grateful if you could help. :)

2007-10-26 18:40:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 18:37:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 18:21:38 · 8 answers · asked by donielle 7

2007-10-26 18:20:34 · 5 answers · asked by donielle 7

OK, I was at summer camp and At one of the dances I danced with this kid named sam, Sam was ok, but he was only my camp boyfriend and I didnt like hi that much. He lives in my town and is a grade above me, he went to my school dance and danced with me. We started slow dancing at a far distance apart cuz I dont like him and I already have a bf, but I talked to him about it and he said it was ok with him as long as I tell the guy I dont like him, any ways by the end of the song he pulled me so clos eit was really uncomfortable for me! He tried t kiss me but I luckly had a friend walking over twards me so I pretended to look at her then start talking with her and he ended up only kissing my cheek, this guy keeps AIMing me, I want to tell him I'm not interester without hurting his feelings badly.

2007-10-26 18:10:03 · 20 answers · asked by Jess L 1

i met this guy about 2 months ago and we mostly talk online and outside of school. he told my friend that he wasnt going to ask me to homecoming cause he didnt know me that well. so after that i really started to make an effort to get to know him before i told him i liked him. well he found out i liked him and then a few days after he was saying "sad that i didnt get to dance with u at homecoming" and asking me when turnabout is. he always says hi and smiles at me in the halls and he supposedly told someone he kinda likes me. but he isnt doing anything! i really dont think he likes me cause he hasnt been trying to talk to me or anything. i need ur help please, do u think he likes me?

2007-10-26 18:05:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 18:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by donielle 7

2007-10-26 17:58:24 · 1 answers · asked by ~I Love Allen~ 2

guys-
if you found out for sure a girl liked you for awhile, and weren't particularly interested, and if after you found out she started ignoring you and not really showing interest would it catch your attention? Also, would it make you more interested?
I know this sounds silly, I was just wondering because the other day my friend was telling me how she had a mad crush on this geekier guy who never had pretty girls like him like she was, and he pretty much rejected her. But once she started ignoring him his attention was caught.

2007-10-26 17:49:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

the cool freshman


We went out twice last year (around November, and then in February)

Both times she broke up with me saying that she "couldn't deal with the school difference" (she was a 8th grader then, she's a freshman now)


Ok, so I then asked her if we would ever go out again (after the second break up) and she said that she wanted to wait till she got to the high school


So a week before school starts I say this:

"Okay I was wondering our relationship status was? Are we just friends or are we friends with potential of being more? I really like you and I don't want to say anything or do anything more that will make our relationship awkward. I really like you, and you are the most funny, beautiful, nice, smart girl I know, and I would never do anything to hurt you."

She said that we were definitely friends with potential of more she just "wants to get through the first week of school first"


A week after school starts, I find out that she has

2007-10-26 17:31:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Which are not plagued by scamsters?
eg. Using stolen photos of beautiful women, etc - with details you know are false (inconsistent information) - who say, Oh I am in Africa at the moment - but I live in the USA. Oh sure - now pull the other leg, will you?

2007-10-26 17:21:21 · 1 answers · asked by TruthBox 5

Well me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year or more. We just begun having sex, its are third time. I have not come close to giving her a orgasm? She swears it feels good but the reason for her not coming is due to pain. It feels better every time we have sex (says her). It is making me worry though because she has not had a orgasm in more then 5 months? That was by fingering her ( it was her first orgasm by any one), I can't even give her one by fingering her? I feel like i am failing her and it makes me not want to do any thing sexual because i love her and i am not doing a good enough job. She wants one i know she does, she tell me all the time its not the importent thing to her but it really is for me!
What can i do, what are some good ideas to make her have the "time of her life"?

Also should i get jealous if she likes to masturbate, she does not but she did once in front of me and i got really turned off because i thought she was doing a better job then me or some ..?

2007-10-26 17:15:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

still drink out of someones drink if you really like the person?

2007-10-26 17:13:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 17:09:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So many guys say they love them but once they can't satisfy them, they cheat! If you really loved them, why would you cheat? You would brake your heart just so you can get pleasure? You would kill your own mother so you can get pleasure that lasts probably 5 minutes! So tell me what's up!

2007-10-26 17:04:34 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5

2007-10-26 17:04:33 · 5 answers · asked by SweetBrunette 5

how bad do you think it is

2007-10-26 16:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

tonight was me and my boyfriend 1st year togetehr and we had a whole night planend out..well he ditched me to smoke weed with his friends..

should i forgive him?
should i stay with him?
is this even worth gettin mad over?
does he pick weed and his friends over me?

2007-10-26 16:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by SiMPly ME. 2

Ive been with my bf for 7 months and we have great sex its long and he does it really rough( I dont mind) hes really big down there but sometimes hes to rough and I end up being sore how do I tell him to be more gentle? How do you tell your guy that you wanna try new things in the bedroom?

2007-10-26 16:50:16 · 3 answers · asked by septemberbaby 1

I am barely a teen, but I have a deep passion for romance, but have no one to share it with... I'm constantly getting whistled at, or called 'hot' but that's just shallow guys looking to get an attractive girl to ay attention to them...
How do i find a guy who's respectful, kind, and caring?
My perfect guy has to be out there somewhere, but how do I find him?
Please don't reply telling me that I'm young, that I have my whole life to look..
I need advice, not telling me what i know already...
Help is appreciated...
thankyou so much!

2007-10-26 16:50:03 · 21 answers · asked by asdfjkl 2

OKAY ITS THE LOVE OF MY LOVE BUT HE KEEP DOING ME WRONG THERS THIS OTHER GIRL AND WHENEVER WE BRAKE UP THEY ALWAYS GET BACK TOGETHER AND WHENEVER THEY BRAKE UP WE GET BACK TOGETHER AND NOW HE AINT WITH NIETHER OF US BUT HE WANT ME BACK AND I DNT KNO WAT TO DO I NEED ADVICE????????????????????????????????

2007-10-26 16:49:30 · 7 answers · asked by khrisyatta_c 1

my bf gave his dad his old fone cuz he got a new one. it still has all of the pics of me on the old fone but his dad wont delete them. my pics still the freaking background to the fone it freaks me out. wat shuld i do w.o rasing to much alarm?

2007-10-26 16:48:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do you guys wear g-strings and thongs that can clearly be seen and then when you see a guy looking at it you call him a pervert. What is the point of wearing something hot like that if you dont want guys staring?

2007-10-26 16:47:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 16:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by donielle 7

I'm a boy, and I live with this girl who is one year older than me, we are from the same country originally, but I came here for 7 years, and am a canadian citizen, but she is not.
That's not the problem though, just some back ground info for you readers and helpers out there.

I feel so nervous in her presence for some reason, (for ppl with roommate experience to answer this)
I am a nice guy: I am also too sensitive, overthink alot.
In the beginning, things were alright, we share things, cook meals for each other every weekend, but we don't talk, and I mean literally no conversation. I used to be kind to her by washing her dishes for her, taking out the garbage, watch her back, but she just takes advantage of that! Which makes me mad!
Here is my problem though: I like to impose rules on her, like lock the door after you leave (we live in an apartment), close the window before you go: in case of rain, put the dishes back to where they belong, just to make life more organized.

2007-10-26 16:39:51 · 4 answers · asked by bio c 2

If you are with a girlfriend and you like someone else, tell her you don't like her and like someone else, then go after the other person, is it cheating?

2007-10-26 16:35:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

At first when him and I first met, I was with my ex and I left my ex for him. He was and is everything I have ever wanted in a guy. He is respectful, into classic rock, star wars, old muscle cars, and sooo many fun stuff. However, lately I feel like everything I have been doing or saying is wrong or boring. I feel like he is losing interest and yet he cares though about no other guy looking at my legs if I am wearing a short and stuff and calls me at night and stuff. He does care, I know he does...very much. However, I just dont want to feel boring and stuff. I am kinda scared to talk to him on the phone or hang out with him cause maybe he has gotten bored. Am I creating all of this in my mind? Should I ignore his calls and stuff for a couple of days and say I just never got them? What's up with me? Thanks in advance for the advice.

2007-10-26 16:34:23 · 11 answers · asked by Tina x 1