guys only...why is sex so important????????????/?

Answer 1

Do you want the water down simple version? Or the complex truth? Never-mind you get them both COMBINED!. Sex is really the only all around "culturally" approved way within our society to bond in a romantic relationship, its the way we "Seal The Deal" so to speck that our mate loves us, I know, I know I'm on here ever day trying to help people with this just hold on, I know stupid, but it's a social ordeal so hard to fix. Because of this ALOT of pride, self-worth, how a man know's he is a man comes from sex. Also to compound things we obsess about this aspect of the relationship, well ever were we look were reminded, TV, school, jobs, well lol everywhere. So its a big deal, especially because deep down we believe that people will be attached to us just because of it, DESPITE all our perceived short-comings, yep true stuff.....