This guy I l like, he has never had a gf or kissed a girl before. One night we flirted while we were a little bit drunk. My pals there knew I still liked him so they encouraged us and kept trying to make us touch each other, and they said “I think he likes you”. I randomly left, He left me 2 voicemails later one saying "I hope you got back 2 your room ok Ill see you or IM you" He imed me the next morning and he kept asking me questions. He also wrote on my Facebook wall. Hes never done any of these things before, I thought they were good signs. My awesome friends didn’t mind their own business and kept egging him on about me for awhile and my pal told me he said he doesn’t like me (my pal is NOT lying) the day I found out this, my crush knew about it, he stood near me at a concert and ignored me, I ignored him, he walked by and just said “hey” and later that night when we hung out he entered the room and said “hey everyone” and then “hey” to me. This doesn’t mean anything right?
2007-10-26 18:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he feels bad for me maybe, hes a nice guy, wants no hard feelings? Why did he leave me those messages then? (By the way, he never told his friends about them)
2007-10-26 18:58:27 · update #1
Maybe he changed his mind? Don't know why...
2007-10-26 19:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Farty McFly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting hung up on one guy is a sure fire way to miss out on other great opportunities with other guys, if the feeling is not in any way mutual then your wasting time, if he doesn't care for you the way you do then its over, dead as can be, a crush can only turn into something serious if its mutual, if its not then it is just a passing thing and most likely he is just being nice so he doesn't hurt your feelings(trust me I know plenty of guys who could've taken advantage of the situation).
2007-10-26 19:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lost interest. Sorry, but the good news is: You lost an idiot and the good news is: There are more Fish in the Sea. All good, so Go Fish. BTW don't drink to much - it's a turn off for the good guys out there anyway.
2007-10-26 19:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by teajohnsf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might mean something but then again it might not it depends on what kind of guy ur dealing with with some guys it could just mean that he is a flirt or he wants to be ur friend maybe u should get to know him more and he might start to like if he doesnt already
2007-10-26 19:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cares enough that he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. You should remember what he said he doesnt like you in a romantic way. You should find another guy.
2007-10-26 19:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminds me of me when I was a kid. If he likes you it sounds like he might be too shy to say.
Just tell him you like him. If he doesn't feel the same, then he doesn't sound like the sort of person who'll tell everybody and embarrass you - so you've nothing to lose.
2007-10-26 19:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by joncummins1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is a very private person and did not want to be involved n a situation where others were trying to make something happen.
2007-10-26 19:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you'll know for sure is to talk with him. No one else can tell you what's on his mind.
2007-10-26 19:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by John Silver 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably thinking he liked you and then he might have realized he didn't. maybe you want to spend some more time with him and look for more clues
2007-10-26 19:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
situation is unfortunately too complex for anyone here to give a sufficient answer.
from what you've told, its over rova.
2007-10-26 19:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by roll ova rova 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋