At first when him and I first met, I was with my ex and I left my ex for him. He was and is everything I have ever wanted in a guy. He is respectful, into classic rock, star wars, old muscle cars, and sooo many fun stuff. However, lately I feel like everything I have been doing or saying is wrong or boring. I feel like he is losing interest and yet he cares though about no other guy looking at my legs if I am wearing a short and stuff and calls me at night and stuff. He does care, I know he does...very much. However, I just dont want to feel boring and stuff. I am kinda scared to talk to him on the phone or hang out with him cause maybe he has gotten bored. Am I creating all of this in my mind? Should I ignore his calls and stuff for a couple of days and say I just never got them? What's up with me? Thanks in advance for the advice.
2007-10-26 16:34:23 · 11 answers · asked by Tina x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S: I am not bored at allwith him like some people here have said. I love him to death and I havent gotten bored...I am scared he has. I really want to be with him forever.
2007-10-26 16:48:09 · update #1
Sounds to me like you are only trying to dream up a reason to cheat and dump him. You said you were in a relationship when you met him and you found a reason to drop all of the reasons you had been with your ex to move on to this guy. Now you are just trying to figure out a way to justify the fact that you are bored with the guy and want some strange.
2007-10-26 16:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just all the "omg new boyfriend" excitement is wearing down, He still calls you and everything sounds like he cares about you!
Don't ignore his calls, everything in a relationship isn't exciting and sometimes you end up doing the same stuff going to the same places all the time, and sure the whole doing new things discovering new things about your boyfriend might tone down a lot but that doesn't mean he got bored with you.
If ou find it boring then why not find somethng exciting and romantic to do with him and then do it!
2007-10-26 16:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nifty_250 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore him but start doing some things for you - take some classes, read some books, take up a new hobby - anything to keep yourself from feeling bland and boring. I doubt he even notices - he is a guy after all - but if the perception is in your head you'll start to see it. You'll start to act differently AND ultimately you'll end up sabotaging the relationship. Maybe you just got too much into his stuff and not enough into your own.
2007-10-26 16:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by RLW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not love what you feel for him. Because if you really love him , you won't get bored with him...It's not love all along, girl-- It was that you just got too excited because he has everything you want in a guy and you think that you're compatible in many ways...But love is not all about compatibility. Love is about accepting the person for what he is....Tell it straight to him....Don't give him false hopes....It will do no good to both of you...(",)
2007-10-26 16:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is still crazy about you.If you don't take his calls don't you think he will think something is wrong,You need to discuss this with him and see what he has to say.As honesty is the best thing in a relationship.You don't need to play games with th guys head.Be more confident in yourself.If you really care for him then you need to show it.If you two have a good interest in things together then get more involved in it and have fun doing it.
2007-10-26 16:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by mamaw2305 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're bored with your relationship? Uhm. Why not cool off first? Some break-ups are caused by BOREDOM. Couples are losing interest already.
2007-10-26 16:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like u r too hung up on him. u lack confidence in urself. do you find urself boring? u know what's a real turn-off? a person with no confidence. Re-evaluate urself. What's ur best traits? Learn to love urself first. Chin up, girl!!
2007-10-26 16:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A break up is inevitable. You're wrong for eachother. If you don't believe me now, you'll see in a few months.
2007-10-26 16:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him.
The quality I love most in my lover is her simple honesty.
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2007-10-26 17:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by AlmondJoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell us tell him --- i suspect he will disagree and avoiding him will not make it any better ---- if you care and he cares then why not try to make the relationship work rather than just walking away ----- best wishes
2007-10-26 16:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋