Singles & Dating - 19 September 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 5 years now, and I'm not happy anymore. It's nothing in particular that he's doing, I'm just not happy. I'd love to do the whole "break" thing, but right now that is not an option, unless I move back into my parents house, as we live together.

I guess what I'm asking is, I'm planning on telling him how I feel, and why, and I'm sure he's not real happy either, so I'm sure I'll get a rebuttal, and I'm going to ask him if he thinks the relationship is worth salvaging, and taking like a 6-7 month break, or if he thinks it would be best for both of us to chalk it up to experience, break the tie now, and go our separate ways. HOW IN THE HELL DO I BRING THIS UP????!!!!

I'm not pissed, we're not fighting, when I get home from work, do I just say, "Hey honey, I'm home, and I'm not happy, blah, blah, blah"? Honestly, I've never broken up with someone I've lived with before. And why do I feel so guilty???

2007-09-19 18:03:35 · 4 answers · asked by batmantis1999 4

i met my boyfriend when he was working, travelling interstate for a month at a time to do what he has to do to pay the mortgage..
we now live together and his company is sending him away more than they ever have in the 4 years he's had this career.
i moved from Canberra to South Queensland to ensure this one wouldnt be another fish to get away, and things are harder than ever before.
Does anyone have advice for me, anyone in the same situation?
Moving here was the best yet hardest thing ive ever done, having him return for 4 days before he leaves for a month again.
Do i work myself harder to make the time go faster?
What exactly can be done to make this situation easier when the bank is screaming for more money due to interest but its putting a relationship on the line?
I cant be here when i know no one, no license, and dont know how to get around?
Dont get me wrong, i wouldnt change a thing ive done during my whole relationship, but, how do i make this easier before i break...

2007-09-19 17:56:32 · 10 answers · asked by Malibu 2

I want to know if you had plan adate with your BF/GF and they did not show up until 2-3 hrs. after would you still go out ? ,tell that person off? or end it right there? even if they had a good explanation like an emergency. wouldn't it still count that they still showed up and did not stood you up?

2007-09-19 17:52:19 · 19 answers · asked by Kerry Kay 1

Ok, so I use to date this girl for over 3 years, and now we don't talk anymore. She lives (no BS) directly across the street from me. We used to be great friends, but since we broke up we haven't really talked and kind of had a falling out. Most of it was of my doing because I had started drinking again when I promised her I wouldn't. But now I am leaving for Marine Corps. Bootcamp, and I am going to be in the infantry which means I could get sent to Iraq. I want to see her before I go, and try to make ammends. But the last time I tried, she gave me the "i don't ever want to talk to you" look. Should I at least try to fix our friendship, or should I just let her slip completely out of my life in general?

2007-09-19 17:37:21 · 4 answers · asked by Indian Boy 2

2007-09-19 17:01:09 · 31 answers · asked by shanell s 1

2007-09-19 16:38:27 · 4 answers · asked by bertha w 1

okay so i was in a 3 year relationship with a girl i thought i was going to marry. it didnt work out...about 7 months later i met a girl through a mutual friend and decided to call her and we met up..well fortunate but unfortunate for me she was my perfect match.. we definately clicked and i love talking to her and spending time with her. we have been dating for 2 months then my fears kicked in and i felt myself starting to back off.. i couldnt take it anymore and after about a week of continplating things i decided to be blunt and tell her i wasnt ready for a relationship.. i felt horrible to say it but it was true. i tried convincing her that it wasnt her and what a wonderful person she is but that it was me and i didnt know why i feeling this way.. she went silent...i knew i hurt her.. i could tell by the things she was saying and then i went on the defensive.. we hung up and have talked since/ 1 wk.. i dont know what i should do now? did i blow it?? help!!!

2007-09-19 16:38:26 · 2 answers · asked by zxcv 2

there is this girl i like, when we are at work together we never run out of things to say. but when i got her email and started talking to her at home it is like she doesn't want to walk to me at all, i ask all the questions and i get one word responses any ideas of what i should do?

2007-09-19 16:31:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend and I would like to find one. I have thought about those dating sites but I'm afraid to go on those because they might not be safe and whatnot so I was hoping someone can give me good advice on how to find a guy. Thx in advance.

2007-09-19 16:26:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to get married soon so I am wondering how to satisfy ma gurl on bed? I want to giver her kinda extrem pleasure but how and what actions should I take? do touching womens back (bt) makes them feel good? do they liked to be rubed or what? please advise and let me know any particular places where i can touch? i know every women is different but some how i want to know a general idea of spcecific places where all womens liked to b tchd.Thanks

2007-09-19 16:20:55 · 9 answers · asked by Gabrail 1

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and we live together, and i have very strong feelings for him. Matter o fact i love him. I'm afraid to tell him, because i dont know how he feels, and he's so weird about those three little words.

He def. shows he loves me, he just has never said it.

2007-09-19 16:18:19 · 1 answers · asked by Taylor Joe 2

i am not sure if this is in the right category, but whatever.

i'm a male, 15 years old, and in 9th grade. Well, two years back i was a popular kid with a lot of friends by my side.

now, all those people dont hang with me anymore and just leave me alone. i have no friends now and i am feeling lonely. then, i also have this big crush on a girl, but she rarely talks to me. and dont think she ignores me, cuz shes really nice. i see her every day with all her friends, and it makes me feel so bad.

also, i have said that nobody talks to me. they actually do, but behind my back. They spread rumours about me. i only hear about them from my only 2-3 friends.

i feel like this lonely kid with no life, a crush on a girl who barely knows me, and everyone else thinks i am this mean and nasty guy(from the rumours)

what do i do?
i am feeling terrible. it is only been about 3 weeks in school and i think that it sucks

thanks

2007-09-19 16:17:28 · 13 answers · asked by Edgehead (Colts 2-1) 4

This boy and I have been good friends for three months. He got really close to asking me out today. I think he is going to ask me out soon. He is really nice and all, but I don't know how to judge whether an Asian boy is cute. He is about 5'9.
Please let me know if he is cute if you can judge east Asian boys. Here is a picture of him:
http://www.geocities.com/gfubs/05AE2.jpg

And please let me know if I should date him. I'm 17. This is the first time that I feel that I'm moving towards a serious relationship. Thx.

2007-09-19 16:15:46 · 23 answers · asked by MinneFlwrGirl 1

2007-09-19 16:04:07 · 2 answers · asked by jae 2

I just like you as a friend"...(when they ask you out)...still keep trying...because when i say NO, and most people i know when they say No, we mean it......do they GET IT when you STOP RETURNING THEIR CALLS????..your parents had told you to do it nicely and he will "get it"...(but some just don't)

2007-09-19 15:58:31 · 8 answers · asked by sweet 4

I wondering if you can love someone that you have never met before. I'm feeling little werid about this. I have feelings for someone I have never met. He has sent me beautiful letters. Now I'm wondering if I'm wrong for feeling this way. I know how I feel right now. I just wondering if anyone wants to tell me their opinion. I believe that you can have feelings you can not explain.

2007-09-19 15:34:05 · 1 answers · asked by Bird Lady 2

Me and this girl have a mutual liking towards eachother, but she told me that she had her first kiss with her ex-boyfrend. And they kissed several times, frequently. I really like this girl, but i feel akward kissing the lips of a girl who's lips have met another guy...am i being over-critical/picky or do you think i should just wait for a girl who hasnt had a first kiss yet too! Please help

Confused Teen,

2007-09-19 15:33:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like a guy, the guy likes me. It's not love. We aren't in a "relationship". Neither of us have any time to commit to anything more than midnight fun with each other. So is it wrong for two single consenting adults to get together just for some of the most amazing sex either of us has ever had? People are calling me naive and saying that this guy is just using me. BUT I KNOW IT. I'm not seeing anyone else and it's fun. Why can't it just be accepted that sometimes all you need for a particular moment in life is just awesome sex without any strings?

2007-09-19 15:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know what I want out of life. I know exactly what career Im going into. Is 18 too young to settle into a career and a family? All Ive ever really wanted is the job Im going into and a family. Any Input??

2007-09-19 15:22:40 · 40 answers · asked by redneckcowgirl1472 2

He's a senior, I'm a sophmore. I have known him since the middle of last year. He flirts a little, but that's just how he is... I don't want to just stop being friends with him, but seriously, it's like a punch in the stomach every time I see him ( unless I talk to him, then it's fine)... We just have a lot in common, except he's 2 years older than me, which wouldn't be a problem really, it's just that I dont think he likes me like that;(
How do you get over someone like that?
thanx

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I have guys my age I'm interested in, but I can't help but compare to him (which they can't do), and it's not a wanting what I can't have thing, b/c I'm not usually that way.

2007-09-19 15:21:24 · 2 answers · asked by savywoods 3

what would be your perfect sex spot?what does it mean to you?what way would you perfer? and more

2007-09-19 15:04:11 · 1 answers · asked by G-izzle 2

its quite annoying....

2007-09-19 15:03:47 · 40 answers · asked by AMP 1

Im 15 and he just turned 19 and i think that he is to old for me but i really like him so i need to know what exactly should i do because im honestly confused about it.

2007-09-19 15:03:38 · 17 answers · asked by Deshawnna 1

ok so this boy i know is in the 12th grade and im in the 9th... about two weeks ago he got switched out my class which was the only 9th grade class he took, and so now i wanna be with him and he says he been liking me for the longest and i been knowing him for a while... no every since he got switched out hes been acting funny and said i HAVE 2 GET GOOD KNOW HIM BETTER! which i already do... i think its bcuz he found some1 else and is just trying to reject me on the slick side dats wat my sis says.... help wat should i do?

2007-09-19 14:55:03 · 1 answers · asked by M 1

2007-09-19 14:50:28 · 17 answers · asked by Marino 3

Is it alright to ask some one you don't really know to homecoming?I have one class w/ this kid, and we have bearly even talked but i am a senior and i really want a date to my last homecoming dance u know? here's how i think i'll ask him, ( sitting down at the desk in front of him) hey i know we don't really know each other but, but i was wondering would you go to homecoming w/ me? what do u think?

2007-09-19 14:47:19 · 9 answers · asked by ruby_7 5

so... My gal thinks it's MY job as a dude to take out the trash. I say... Make the Kids (hers) 12 -n- 16 take it out. but when it's full and she takes it out I get crap for not doing it even though I wasn't even there cuz I am working late. Do you think it's a "mans job" to take out the trash exclusively?

2007-09-19 14:38:27 · 23 answers · asked by Christopher N 2

I always hear this stuff about how girls go for a guy with personality and that's funny, but we all know that's not true. So out of 100% I would like for you to put in a percentage on how much each of these things matter to you, the total has to end up at 100. Although, you don't really have to, just kinda guidelines. But out of these things.

weight, height, age, muscularity, personality, humor.

If you want to add more categories or something, that's ok. And also, please explain what kind of each of those things you prefer, do you want a guy to be kind of funny, really funny, serious, muscular, athletic, lean, chunky, well built, extremely muscular. Short, tall. You don't really have to do this, but you know that, just kinda curious.

2007-09-19 14:37:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-19 14:33:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin have the nastiest friend ever. He like to burn insects on the stove and wathch as the helpless thing suffercate and dies. He dyed his hair green?/Blue?/purple? whatever that colour is! He's got piercings on his eyebrows, nose, tongue....OR MORE! He does his drugs and get into fights. He LAUGH when others are miserable!!. Hes just...this HUGE SCREW UP as he is!! but I just love him like I never liked any other guys before. Why is this happening? I never thought of any other [really hot] guys as much as him and I lay awake just to think about him. Help me I have to stop he's nothing but trouble I really hate pretty much EVERYTHING about him... I 'm so confused ugh!

2007-09-19 14:31:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous