okay so i was in a 3 year relationship with a girl i thought i was going to marry. it didnt work out...about 7 months later i met a girl through a mutual friend and decided to call her and we met up..well fortunate but unfortunate for me she was my perfect match.. we definately clicked and i love talking to her and spending time with her. we have been dating for 2 months then my fears kicked in and i felt myself starting to back off.. i couldnt take it anymore and after about a week of continplating things i decided to be blunt and tell her i wasnt ready for a relationship.. i felt horrible to say it but it was true. i tried convincing her that it wasnt her and what a wonderful person she is but that it was me and i didnt know why i feeling this way.. she went silent...i knew i hurt her.. i could tell by the things she was saying and then i went on the defensive.. we hung up and have talked since/ 1 wk.. i dont know what i should do now? did i blow it?? help!!!
2007-09-19 16:38:26 · 2 answers · asked by zxcv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating