Singles & Dating - 19 September 2007

http://www.flickr.com/photos/10002474@N06/1389402847/ lets keep it real and leave the psychology to the psychologist because all women who see my brothers face turn their head quick

2007-09-19 05:21:59 · 17 answers · asked by mrellis08 1

I am a guy that is sub-par in looks--according to my friends that are girls (not hideous) but like a 3-4/10. Im not dynamic in personality--bit boring (until you get to know me). I am a caring person tho---i am the one person that'll stay up for hours just listening to a friend and trying to help them. And yet guys around me, who are better looking get all the attention. I feel like i live in their shadow. A lot of them act insensitive and sometimes like jerks (according to many girls) and yet girls still run after them. Girls wont even look at me or give me a simple chance to get to kno them (yes i take initative to meet sometimes) The ones that are my friends, i talk with them, care for them, listen to them (according to some thats my biggest skill) give them all attention they need--yet they dont appreciate it. What should i do? I want to be appreciated/noticed/give a chance by girls! Im not desperate, but frusterated of not being noticed and never being given a chance.

2007-09-19 05:15:19 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous

whisper seductively to her "I want you"?

2007-09-19 05:11:52 · 25 answers · asked by Jimmy Sarno 1

So my b/f and I have lived together for 5 months. I cought him looking at porn 1 day &I got really upset, we didn't talk for a few hours, then eventually discussed it and he said he wouldn't do it anymore. our anniversary is comming up and he is planning a day thing that is going 2 be a surprise. I was curious & looked through the cookies on our PC to try & figure out the surprise, when I came accross a porn site that has profiles of girls who live in the cities surrounding us. I became instantly offended and insulted by this. I do not want to start a fight as I know that most men consider porn a "necessity". I have treid to shrug it off but it is still eating me up inside. He knows I am upset about something & has asked me about it but I won't tell him. I don't know how 2 confront him about how this is making me feel. He dosn't know that I found his website. I don't want to jepordize what we have because it is incredible but I need to deal with my insecurity & why he must have porn.

2007-09-19 05:10:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here goes. there is this guy who i find attractive and he also finds me very attractive. He is not my boyfriend and we have never dated. He keeps giving me advances and i think he wants to have sex with me. I am a virgin. I am also very busy and i dont think i have time to maintain a man. Would i get emotionally hurt if we have sex continually if he isnt in a relationship with me? Or would it be fun to just have sex without commitment?. Also is this a good way for me to loose my virginity?

2007-09-19 05:07:40 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recently got back with a guy I date back when I was in high school (7 years ago) I am absolutely loving it and he says he is too. It takes alot for me to be with someone, and now that I'm with him I just worry that I will lose him even though he says he wants to be with me and that he really likes me. I kind of worry if I don't hear from him even when he says he'll call. Sometimes it may be that he's busy, but sometimes I wonder. I know he really likes me but I can't get these thoughts to stop.

What is your advice?

2007-09-19 04:58:46 · 39 answers · asked by redblippygirl23 1

I'm so rediculously bored at work today I have no idea how I'm gonna make it... anyone else feel like this today? How do you usually combat your boredom at work? I feel like exchanging a few friendly emails could be a possible remedy!

2007-09-19 04:55:54 · 14 answers · asked by Jack B 4

Cut-to-the-chase. I get good grades, I have a job,I'm a decently good person so don't judge cause I'm Underage and You probably think I'm stupid, but this wont last forever

I'm underage he's not, he said he wants to be with me but the underage thing bugs him alot. [we're 5 years apart]. But we still occasionally "get together". Well it's weird cause we didn't talk for like a month and he called me and was asking about my friend if she had his camera and then we ended up talking and hanging out.
See the reason I say that is because when we hang out you can totally tell he adores me but there's still that weird little feeling about being used. Sometimes I kinda hint towards it and he kinda gets mad as if I was completely accusing him of something like that. Sometimes we can go forever without talking. [like either one of us] but when we get together we're like thee happiest people to live it seems like.
So is this kinda like those "We'll hook-up till we date" kinda things? or what

2007-09-19 04:54:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think i might have fallen for Dr Shepherd in Grey's Anatomy. Or is it just Infatuation?

And i don't mean Patrick Dempsey, the guy that plays Dr Shepherd...i mean Dr shepherd the Character. I want him bad.

Why do i always want the impossible?

2007-09-19 04:35:43 · 24 answers · asked by cookie_recipe 4

Ever feel like you'll never meet someone you can stay with and will just end up old and alone?

2007-09-19 04:34:20 · 3 answers · asked by heart0of0stone 2

what's your preference?

2007-09-19 04:32:17 · 17 answers · asked by Not of This World Returns 3

hi, about a month ago i found out that my friend louise was cheating on my friend john, to make it worse it had bin going on for months WITH HIS BEST FRIEND,also she gave his other friend a handjob in the back of a bus. all his friends knew, and every1 was always talking about it and laughing, lousise was told from me and my friend if she didnt tell john what was goin on we would tell him..a wk after we gav er the option john found out about his friend on the back of the bus and i told him about her and his best friend and that it had been goin on 4 a few months...for a week after john kept asking me to meet up with him 2 talk and i did because he was my friend and he was heartbroken ova her doing this as they wer together 2yrs,he had cheated on her b4 but it was 1nite stands and not with her friends..after meeting up with him 4 a week i started 2 get to know him more and grew to really lik him but roumers started that we were going out n ppl started to gosp so i backed off

2007-09-19 04:29:51 · 2 answers · asked by sarah b 1

ok, me and my best bud wanted to kindnap a rock star, trust me we can really do it, but i wanted to know can we go to jail for this, my big bro said yes, i want another opinion...........becuase where jus little girls, it shouldn't count......

2007-09-19 04:16:48 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-19 04:16:42 · 33 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4

R each the stars and fly me across the moon
Abeautiful melody pass through this destiny
J ust for pretending the sadness smile
E nclose the dreams for all memories
N ear me a fairies sleep like an angel
D isappear all despairs, like a dusk till down
R eflects me like a dream maker
Aglory blaze me a light like a silver clouds

S catter the words by the still of the night
I magine you in the deep of my heart
N eed u here to string a melody of the air,,
G lance over you, I try to hold your dreams
H ere I hail your heart and I wish upon the star to sees
you smile

S erenity will shown like a glory blaze
O ver the seven seas I draw a sunset
L ike an angel that always sees me on a glance
A bove the silver line I color the wisdom
N o matter what the world says, I see you beyond the wisdom
K iss the wind and blow the pray for a wish
I n the moment of life, I wish I could reach the stars by the
melody of your heart.

2007-09-19 04:11:51 · 8 answers · asked by raj the secret 2

Do you typically choose one type of woman.... hair color, build, etc. or do you like variety ?
Tell me your type!

2007-09-19 04:05:08 · 9 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4

So my girlfriend of 2 years took an internship in Florida (we are in the New York area so obviously long distance which it has been off and on but nothing like this) for 5 months. Mainly to figure herself out and school. Anyways she's very affectionate and loving but literally soon as she got down there I began to feel shut out (pretty much no affection at all). Thus we went on a break whiles she's down there (mainly her idea). Now we've had a few discussions where i could tell she really misses me deep down but she doesn't know why she's pushed me away and not been affectionate. Now she says she's met a guy down there she thinks she sorta likes but I shouldn't worry because everything down there is temporary and doesn't matter and that I'm the one she really wants to be with and loves. She says he doesn't compare to me.
Anyways I can't help but feel like a safety up here. I'm not even remotely interested in looking for anything temporary. But how could she? How do I deal with this?

2007-09-19 03:52:08 · 8 answers · asked by M 1

This has been my most recent exper. One of my guy friends, who is kinda sweet on me, recently asked me why I would even need a man. Wow. I told him I need a soft place to land at the end of my day. And trust me it would be reciprocated. I want a partner. Of course even a strong woman needs love. My female friends even tell me most men will be afraid of me. Why? Do most men only want women they can control or bend? I am sad about this today. Maybe I just need to accept that it's just not my time or season. Maybe God has other plans for me. Today, this sucks. Feedback?

2007-09-19 03:42:57 · 17 answers · asked by Indi 4

2007-09-19 03:40:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been dating for a short period of time, and I want to take something sweet to her when I see her tonight. I was thinking some flowers and/or a pint of her favorite ice cream. What are some other ideas?

2007-09-19 03:21:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

you feels like something missing in your relation, but you love her and she loves you.....

2007-09-19 03:21:49 · 6 answers · asked by diegue32 1

2007-09-19 03:12:41 · 14 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4

I mean its like they will use sex for sex and use sex for love and if it is not replied with the same affection then the guy is blamed to be a player or worse a jerk.... i mean the guy is allways the jerk.... there is no way around it, i understand that its nature.

But my question is, if a women is sexually liberated and is interested in sex then shouldnt it be that the emotions that is attached to sex is her responsibilty instead of pinning it on the guy ?

This is my experiance
I find out that women who wants sex still tend to do that `emotional act` i mean women dont go asking for sex so thats the way they do it, i got hurt thinking it was love. whose the player here ?

and at times they use sex as a tool for love when it doesnt work out yet again the guy is a jerk again. Now i kinda understand why guys shouldnt attach themselves to sex, it all depends on how the women feels, no point attaching yourself to something that you are not sure about, its nature isnt it ?

2007-09-19 03:06:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he gives me all the signs he likes me, always round me, hugs me, sends his friends away to spend more time with me, arm around me and etc. but then we are talkin and the ? if he likes anyone comes up and he says no so i dont know what to think is he just scared to admit it or does he not???

i really like him how do i bring that i like him if he told me he doesnt like anyone???

2007-09-19 03:04:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-19 03:01:53 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't have a low self esteem I am a very confident person just don't think I am all that.

2007-09-19 02:54:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think the difference is?

2007-09-19 02:54:23 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 1

MY bf [whose lovely i must say] and me were having a convo...and he made a joke about me breaking stuff like the bed im not sure if he was calling me fat...so i accused him of calling me fat..now most people quickly backtrack and say no ur not fat etc etc even if it is a lie...but he just said...``i didnt call u fat but if you are fat then i like you fat``...

i wasnt sure whether to be offended or not..but i decided i am....cos if he didnt think i was fat he wouldve said so...im really slef conscious now...[uk size 14] i know i need to lose weight already....

2007-09-19 02:46:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have known each other for 1 month .
when we are together we have such a good time .
We can share anything she is all i can ask for best friend and lover .

2007-09-19 02:45:20 · 23 answers · asked by john v 2

LOL

2007-09-19 02:41:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous