I mean its like they will use sex for sex and use sex for love and if it is not replied with the same affection then the guy is blamed to be a player or worse a jerk.... i mean the guy is allways the jerk.... there is no way around it, i understand that its nature.
But my question is, if a women is sexually liberated and is interested in sex then shouldnt it be that the emotions that is attached to sex is her responsibilty instead of pinning it on the guy ?
This is my experiance
I find out that women who wants sex still tend to do that `emotional act` i mean women dont go asking for sex so thats the way they do it, i got hurt thinking it was love. whose the player here ?
and at times they use sex as a tool for love when it doesnt work out yet again the guy is a jerk again. Now i kinda understand why guys shouldnt attach themselves to sex, it all depends on how the women feels, no point attaching yourself to something that you are not sure about, its nature isnt it ?
2007-09-19 03:06:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yup supergirl,, i got it now, men should never ever get attached to emotions during sex, sex is sex, sorry but this is what the female species thought me
2007-09-19 03:15:34 · update #1
lol, well you make some valid points. I have been through this. Its like no matter what I say, dont fall for me, this is as far as it goes, everything changes after we do it. So no i dont get attached through sex. Two have even told me they thought they would get me to fall in love through sex. Are you kidding?! Its not that simple. And because of all that im a hoe, jerk, ******, and several others.
2007-09-19 03:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what you got hurt. Do you think that you are the only person in the world who has had a broken heart? What kind of women are you dating anyway? Why don't you try dating someone who is a couple of years older than you if you want a mature stable relationship or try a dating website where you can be very specific about the kind of woman you want to meet. (once you get over your heartbreak) I'm sorry that you got hurt by a woman that you loved. Maybe you don't want to hear it right now, but life does go on, and you will find love again. Maybe not right away, but you have to be in the game of love to win at it. Good luck Honey.
I'm not trying to rude
2007-09-19 10:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by JillardG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, somebody did a number on you.
In any relationship, with any luck, you've got a good emotional connection that makes you want to have sex with that person. I'm guessing you're still pretty young -- at least it sounds like the women you're having sex with are selfish and immature.
Don't assume everyone is like this. Not everyone (of either gender) uses sex, nor do they blame their partner for their emotional shortcomings.
2007-09-19 10:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't want bullshit men. Good sex when everything else is messed up means nothing. Men have done that for centuries. How many men do you know who have married a whore? because good sex alone means nothing. Why are you surprised, dear?????
2007-09-19 10:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by supergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure what your asking but sex is something 2 people share , it shouldn't be a burden on either person.
2007-09-19 10:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is un controled pareting and life
2007-09-19 10:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋