We have known each other for 1 month .
when we are together we have such a good time .
We can share anything she is all i can ask for best friend and lover .
2007-09-19 02:45:20 · 23 answers · asked by john v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My parents knew each other for one month, my Father asked my Mother to marry him, then he had to go on a six month cruise because he was in the Navy. They wrote a letter to each other every day and called when they could, and she waited for him.
One month is all you need, they have been happily married for 24 years.
2007-09-19 02:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jarrod T 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no one really knows the answer to that except you. you know how you feel and you can tell how your girlfriend also feel about you. though, 1 month isn't enough for a person to know someone that well. you can never tell what might happen after a month .. you may feel like you are really at ease with her and all.... and that you think you can almost tell her everything.. and that you may think that she's really all that you want in a girl... just give it time. you know, situations that happened this month isn't or won;t be the same as the coming months. there are a lot of situations that will make you even more happier wiht her as the months turn into years. on the other hand, since all you're feeling right now is happiness and everything is going well, it might turn the other way around. no one can ever tell. no one really knows as to what might happen along the way considering that there a lot of situations that can happen... and you have to see if you are really compatible with each other if she is really there for you, through the good times and bad times.
bottom line is.,,, just make sure she also feels the same way about you. you will both know when the right time has come. just try to see if you can bring out the worst and the best in you. that way, you can really tell that she really does love you all the way. good luck and i hope you can find what you are looking for. hope your good times together will last longer. and since you said that she i all that you can ask for in a best friend and a lover, then maybe she really is the one for you. i just hope you will be happier as you take your relationship into the next level which is marriage coz there are a lot of possibilities and trials during this part of life. finding someone like that is really hard to find,.. she is like your better half with the way you describe your girlfriend. so, try to test the waters first. you will know when the right time is... you will just feel it when you least expect it. again, good luck. =)
2007-09-19 10:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why rush in to anything? Everything is always great in the beginning. Give the relationship time to develop and mature before thinking about such a commitment. You'll be doing you, your girlfriend, and your relationship a favor. Rushing into something too fast can ruin what could turn out to be a very mature, fulfilling relationship. I think it takes at least a year for you to know a person, for the magic of the new relationship to wear off so you can see how you two truly deal with life and its bumps.
2007-09-19 09:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by jen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait, I agree!! You are now at the beginning af your relationship which is always as sweet as honey, you need to know each other a lot better before you take such a step. Read up about the subject, Good luck
2007-09-19 10:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by piano19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still in the honeymoon faze. I have known dozens of friends who, after a month in a new relationship, were sure they would be with their girlfriend forever, only to break up a couple of months later.
I am not saying this will happen to you. After I met my wife, I knew there was something special between us. But, the key question is not, "Do I have a good time with this woman?" The key questions are:
"Am I ready to commit myself to a relationship with this person for the rest of my life?"
"Have I seen the weakness in my girlfriend's character. Given that, is her inner beauty what I continue to celebrate?"
"If something crazy happened in your life (sick child, death of a parent, etc.), could she support you fully? Could you support her?"
My wife knows my faults and still celebrates me (which is quite a miracle). I see her faults yet continue to be blinded by her gifts. Our marriage survived even when my daughter had to spend three months in the hospital. I can only hope that your girlfriend is as wonderful as my wife.
Just give it some more time; everything will sort itself out. All the best.
2007-09-19 10:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Colin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long enough to know that 1 month is nothing in life. I had great times with my ex the first YEAR, and was considering marrying her at one very breif point. After the second year, she was gone and I was moving on.
I waited almost 3 years before proposing to my current fiancee, and we lived together for most of it.
2007-09-19 09:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One month is a bit too soon. You still need to get to know each other, you never know if you are still going to feel the same way in 3 months. Give it time and I am thinking something like a year.
2007-09-19 09:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 5 more years, I'd say...after 1 month, you still don't know what she smells like not showering for 2 days while camping; it's rarely enough time to know how she reacts to most situations. Marrying someone you don't know intimately is a HUGE, permanent mistake!
2007-09-19 09:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
one month is not nearly enough time to "know" someone... maybe you could ask her to marry you after you've decided if you can tolerate her habits.... after you two have discussed finances, children and the way you are going to live.
do you both want kids? is she going to work and help support the household, or are you going to take full responsibility? is she a slob? do you care about the neatness of your home? how does she deal with problems? is she going to communicate or just argue and stop speaking to you over some trivial thing?
lots to observe and discuss before getting married to anyone.
i think it might be a good idea to take your time... marriage is forever.
2007-09-19 09:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mininum 6 months.
Better is to wait a year.
There is just no way to know if you two are compatible in one months time.
No need to rush things now and be blind sided later.
2007-09-19 10:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋