Singles & Dating - 18 September 2007

yesterday a guy wrote me a note and told me i was hot. im not that confident of a person so i was really excited. now, today he told one of my friends that he likes another friend. im really confused. help!

2007-09-18 10:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had his voicemail password throughout our entire 8month relationship. So we argued a lot because I constantly saw that he was involved with no good females. but he never knew how i would find out about them. It was females that he's been involved with sexually in the past. and if we would break up for a few days, he would go have sex with them again. So, we were broke up for about 2 months, and i finally told him my secret and got it off my chest that i've had access to his call records all along. Now we're trying to work things out. he tells me he's no longer involved w/ those girls, but he still is! I know this because I still have ACCESS! Do I tell him I invaded his privacy AGAIN? or just leave him alone? I know I'm wrong here, but I love him and I want things to work out. why is it so hard for him to leave this females alone? I do so much more for him than those girls. and he tells me he loves me, but...He just lied today and said he doesnt talk to them, But he called them 2day

2007-09-18 09:57:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy has been flirting with me the last couple of days.Today he came to ask my friend a q but was looking at me the whole time..........a lot of the time when he talks to people around me he looks at me not them.
If he likes me why doesn't he just say it???

2007-09-18 09:56:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had his voicemail password throughout our entire 8month relationship. So we argued a lot because I constantly saw that he was involved with no good females. but he never knew how i would find out about them. It was females that he's been involved with sexually in the past. and if we would break up for a few days, he would go have sex with them again. So, we were broke up for about 2 months, and i finally told him my secret and got it off my chest that i've had access to his call records all along. Now we're trying to work things out. he tells me he's no longer involved w/ those girls, but he still is! I know this because I still have ACCESS! Do I tell him I invaded his privacy AGAIN? or just leave him alone? I know I'm wrong here, but I love him and I want things to work out. why is it so hard for him to leave this females alone? I do so much more for him than those girls. and he tells me he loves me, but...He just lied today and said he doesnt talk to them, But he called them 2day

2007-09-18 09:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have two guy friends that always every day go to the bathroom at the same. Their names are Charlie and Harrison, but that doesn't matter. Every day, if Charlie says he's going to the bathroom, Harrison decides he has to go to he bathroom and vice versa. Why do they go to the bathroom at the same time and what do you think they're doing in the bathroom?

2007-09-18 09:47:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

In order to be with you, what do you prefer? There's a lot of single men in the world. Majority of these men are nice guys. However, every woman should have a man in her life. Now, with this said, obviously majority of women prefer bad boys. What does your heart tell you honestly? It tells you to look for a bad boy or a nice guy? Should nice guys be by themselves or should they develop into bad boy types just so that they don't end up alone for the rest of their life? The reality is there, but how it's perceived is another thing. Gay men are nice guys, There are nice guys that are not gay however, do women see being a nice guy as a sign of being weak? Nice guys will never get what they want if they don't change. Change is good. However, change can be bad. If it's not really in you, I think you shouldn't change, but only if you want something in life. If it's that girl you always wanted, then so be it. I guess it's nature of the beasts, same with humans. Mark your territory male guys!

2007-09-18 09:41:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a crush on this guy and he asked me to draw him a cow but i said no but now i regret it so i am going to draw the cow and put aheart beside it with my enitials and put it in hi locker is this weird or okay to do he also shows signs of liking me (look in my previous questions ?????)

2007-09-18 09:39:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

if anyone does a long distance relationship, and the girl has to finish school there, cuz her family says so. but she can do visits here. and once she is done with her school ( college ). then she is all his. is that alright. is it worth the wait, or should he just find someone closer? the boy and girl are madly inlove. and are engaged. what should the boy and girl do?

2007-09-18 09:38:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If ur guy friend broke up with his gf and it lasted about 3 or 4 months when can another guy (who friends with this guy) ask this girl out or take her somewhere like a dance?

2007-09-18 09:36:16 · 29 answers · asked by Scarlette 3

I went out with someone for 3 years, from when I was 17 till when i was 20. Now im 22, and i saw him again for the first time in 1 and a half years. he wants to give things aother go but im not sure.

See, it was him who dumped me, and I was a total mess for a year, and i never really got over him. But maybe thats because it really was true love.

I never really understood the reasons he dumped me, we had been arguing a lot, and we were both going through our own problems, I was mildly depressed for reasons unrelated to him, and he was messed up, stressed and had money problems. We dont have those problems anymore, but my friends keep saying that really we should have been able to lean on each other during our hard times.

2007-09-18 09:34:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

When a women tells a guy to call her, but does'nt usually make the effort to give him a call, does it mean she does'nt care enough to keep in touch with him. I'm the one who always calls to keep in touch and she barely returns my calls or e-mails. A lot of times when I do call, she tells me she'll call, but never does. Should I leave her alone or not? Only respectful answers pleas.

2007-09-18 09:31:21 · 13 answers · asked by Go Broncos! 1

when it comes to girls and you're actually looking for a relationship, do you notice the one whose throwing ur cleavage at u(EASY) or the one who passes by and gives u asexy smile nd says hi nd pretends she has no time 4 u (HARD-TO-GET)

2007-09-18 09:27:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is always staying home we dont live together saying he is sick and stuff sometimes not working for weeks and when it comes to looking for a job he just does not find one ever !!!
he is always broke and never really has any money and i hate this because we cant do fun things he is always driveing his car with out gas or asking me if i have twenty bucks when we go out and he never pays me back i love him i am making an effort to getting used to his ugly car and the fact that he cant take me out but this sucks am suffering!!!!!!
we been together for 1 1/2 years

2007-09-18 09:22:45 · 53 answers · asked by *********** 4

Is it because of comfort or are they just sluts. aren't they afraid of people noticing they are not wearing underwear? have you ever gone any where without wearing any. I understand why girls dont wear panties with pants because of pantylines but why short skirts?

2007-09-18 09:22:30 · 48 answers · asked by Yahoo! User 4

Is it unattractive or a turn off if a girl cusses (a good bit)?

2007-09-18 09:18:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does a women look for in a guy in bed doing you know what? I don't know!

2007-09-18 09:14:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-18 09:07:35 · 17 answers · asked by Gomer 1

I recently broke up with my boyfriend and have never really "dated" and I was wondering where people meet potential dates. Bar is not an option, town is too small and I'm not interested in a one night stand.
Suggestions?

2007-09-18 09:07:34 · 22 answers · asked by Samantha M 1

I have been seeing this guy in the hallway for a year now. All last year, and he would always stare at me, I guess he told his friends about me cause they would stand outside the classroom and stare at me. I'm not being paranoid.....they were staring. lol

Now this year he comes down a stair case just because he knows I go up them. I'm almost positive. He stares at me again... but hello we are in 11th grade.

I want to say something to him sooooo bad. but i dont know what to say. i make eye contact, i should try smilling.

but what other signs are there really?? he stares constantly...but that could mean nothing.

any ideas of what i could say?? ha

2007-09-18 09:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work as a Truck Driver and there's a girl of about 25 who works in the admin dept giving out routes, collection and delivery notes etc, Who every time I go in the office and were alone she's grabbing hold of me and making suggestions like "I'm cold give me a cuddle to get me warm" or "Would you like to see all my piercings?" even when were not within talking distance and she sees me she makes suggestive mouth "actions"

I know all the men on here are going to say I'm daft but how do I let her down gently she recently divorced and I don't want to hurt her feelings. She's a nice girl but I'm not atractted to her sexually, I'm married to a woman I work with and fear if I turn her down and upset her she's going to make things difficult for me and the wife (I haven't told the wife what she's been doing yet)

Anyone help? Thanks,

Andy

2007-09-18 09:04:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I say certain because I realize not all are like this.

You get angry at men that judge women based on looks rather than conduct of your character, you get angry at men for thinking about and wanting sex from you, you refer too men as stupid because not all of our decisions result in success.

So here are my questions. When was the last time you were out some were and saw an unattractive or fat man and said "He seems like a nice guy,he must love his mother and respect women, I must be with him?"
Out of all the choices you had too make this past year.(that you can recall) How many were the perfect choice with no mistakes therefore making everyone happy?
How many of you really hate sex? ( Women think of sex just as often as guys)
Why do you treat men just as bad as you say we treat you then claim were unfair in our treatment of women?

For the record,I also believe this behavior in men is wrong and have acted this way myself on occasion. Can you admit the same?

2007-09-18 09:04:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay well I'm a 13 year old girl. i think some guys are cute but i just can't bring myself to actually ''like'' them. When i see a cute guy i'm really not as interested in him as i am into checking out his gf or a girl that he's with. what does this mean? i mean ive had these feelings before but i ignored them and went on but now i'm older and i'm starting to get verry confused!!!!! someone please help me! i think i might like girls but i am not totally shure! are these feelings weird or normal? does this make me a freak? should i talk to someone about them? what should i doooo?????

2007-09-18 08:54:07 · 62 answers · asked by swimmer_chick32 1

2007-09-18 08:53:59 · 41 answers · asked by LIZ G 2

2007-09-18 08:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so theres this kid(my neighbors cousin)who lives about a town or 2 away from me. he comes over my neighbors house alot especially when it was during the summer.and i met him and then he found my myspace,and was like lets hangout and stuff and used to leave me like 20 billion messages on myspace. He then asked me later online when he got my sn(b/c i wrote it in my about me section on my page) that if i ask u out later what would u say and i said i know u like me but i like someother kid named matt(and i do) and i just wanna be friends. and to him it was like oh well i can talk and talk to u online and we can hang out and basically he always wanted me to call him and i kinda hesitated it. till one day my sisters bfmade a sn and said hey this is matt im dating sara please stop bothering her so much and he believed it. The thing is he still LOVES talking to me so much and says im pretty and i even constantly keep talking about matt to make him go away but he wont leave me alone. HELP!

2007-09-18 08:45:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi everyone, I'm in a dilemma with one of my friends. He was a love interest at one point but recently, not anymore. We attend the same college and he is 2 years older than me. We are also in the same class. Whenever we have that class, we meet an hour earlier before the class starts at the cafe since we both are free at that time. For the past two times, he's been coming 15-27 minutes late. The first time this happened, I called him up and asked him where he was. He was being vague about his location and told me "I might go to the cafe later." Because I didn't like the uncertainty of the word "might", I went to the library. When he went to the cafe (15 minutes later), he called me up when he didnt see me and we met up. Yesterday, he wasn't at the cafe and I didn't bother to call him. Afterall, if he wanted to show up, he would show up, right? He didn't show up for 27 minutes and I didn't receive a phone call. Later on, he called me "impatient" and bitched about life. Any thoughts?

2007-09-18 08:44:25 · 17 answers · asked by cellie_mania 3

#1. A blond with blue eyes, skinny, averege boobs, averange butt, pretty smile and teeth,smart,keeps up with trends,has alot of friends and nice to people who are nice to her,but if someone gets on her last nerve she gets mad but forgives them, or says sorry,plays basket ball, soccer and volleyball and kinda rich.

#2. Brunett with green eyes very smart, average skinny, above average boobs, below average butt, some freckles and pretty smile and braces and lots of friends, but gets mad at people easliy and is very rich. Plays NO sports.

#3. Red hair with freckles( but not two many) really skinny below average boobs,above Average butt, perfect hair, lots of friends, plays soccer and basketball, she can be a b**ch but is only nice to the boys she likes and herr friends and she's middle class.

2007-09-18 08:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does that mean she doesn't like ME or is attracted to me? Cuz I know I don't talk about other good looking girls if there's one right in front of me..

2007-09-18 08:32:06 · 2 answers · asked by Alex S 1

hi, im nearly 15 and i fancy this boy at school, but i dont think he feels the same way about me, also theres this boy that fancies me, and when ever i talk to another boy he walks off with the ump, especialy when i talk to the one i have a crush on, but i dont want to hurt the boys feelings if i do go out with this boy i fancy, and also how do i make sure that the one i have a crush on knows that i have a crush on him?????

2007-09-18 08:29:20 · 6 answers · asked by Monkey 4

ok...so i ahev a guy who i think of as a FRIEND! the problem is...he likes me. but i dont like him!! what should i do??

here is another problem..he goes to my church and his mom works at the church!

what if he asks me to a dance?? i dont like him but i dont wanna say no!! plz help!! =[]

2007-09-18 08:27:26 · 28 answers · asked by fencerluver16 1