In order to be with you, what do you prefer? There's a lot of single men in the world. Majority of these men are nice guys. However, every woman should have a man in her life. Now, with this said, obviously majority of women prefer bad boys. What does your heart tell you honestly? It tells you to look for a bad boy or a nice guy? Should nice guys be by themselves or should they develop into bad boy types just so that they don't end up alone for the rest of their life? The reality is there, but how it's perceived is another thing. Gay men are nice guys, There are nice guys that are not gay however, do women see being a nice guy as a sign of being weak? Nice guys will never get what they want if they don't change. Change is good. However, change can be bad. If it's not really in you, I think you shouldn't change, but only if you want something in life. If it's that girl you always wanted, then so be it. I guess it's nature of the beasts, same with humans. Mark your territory male guys!
2007-09-18 09:41:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women seem to prefer a guy who is assertive, doesn't mind taking the lead, and doesn't care what other people think of him -- he does his own thing even if others might dissaprove.
Nice guys are often too nice; they never make a plan with asking the girl first, never stand up to her or anyone else, never voice an opinion, and never take a risk.
Women seem to want a guy to act like a MAN.
Not a jerk, just a man with a backbone.
2007-09-18 11:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Grandpa S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can develope into a bad boy. You either are or you aren't. I married a bad boy and it got old really quick. I like a nice combo of the two. I like an nice guy with an edge. More importantly he has to be funny and smart. I am older now so my taste has changed a bit. There was a time when I would only be with a bad boy and he had to be physically perfect as well. Now I don't care about all of that stuff. I look deeper.
2007-09-18 09:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YAWN. When are guys going to get over this thing about nice guys and bad boys, thinking a guy is only one or the other, and that a girl is immediately able to tell which he is?
Keep in mind that bad boys look like nice guys at first - unfortunately, they don't come with a neat label printed on their foreheads. All the girl sees is an intriguing guy who flatters her with attention - she can't know the real quality of his inner person until she gets to know him, and she'll continue giving him the benefit of the doubt until he proves himself a jerk.
So quit whining. Remember that although these guys may win the sprint, you're in this for the marathon and will win the race that counts. And be warned, you won't be a "nice guy" for long if you don't develop a little more respect for women's choices.
2007-09-18 09:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like men ---- all women are different so you can't really just go by answers here.
I will say this........just be yourself and the RIGHT person will come along to be in your life for the rest of your life and it will be the right person.
I also believe that nice guys can be bad *** too. This is going to sound silly but my SON (he's 18) has very high working standards and will stick up for himself (yet work his butt off) to get what he wants -- before he left for the military he was offered a management position. He's a very nice guy and yet he can be a bad boy when he needs to and he used to lecture ME for being TOOOO nice and trusting of other people.
If you end up changing for someone, be prepared to never be yourself again -- ever.
2007-09-18 09:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's actually depend on the girl.. some girls are into bad boys and some are into guys who are nice... if you ask me, well i'd want a guy who is nice and bad.. ;)
i like the guy to be nice to me when i'm not in a good mood.. and also to be bad in some situations.. so it;s all actually depend on the girl.
you know you are right on one thing.. lol.. most nice guys are gay, but their are some guy who arn't gay. but it's pritty hard to find one. and every women should have a man in their life llike you said.
my heart says a guy should be both nice and bad at times.. alittle bit of both. i dont see nice guys as weak at all. they are sensitive in a way but it's good sometimes.. and it's not true that nice guys dont get girls.. you said "Nice guys will never get what they want if they don't change" i dont think it's true.. mostly they'll end up with some one at one point in their life.. change is good but not always good.. i might probably confusing you.. i donno.
so i hope i answered your question.. good luck
2007-09-18 09:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by ifaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol good guys never tell girls what they want, if you think your good, boy you got it all wrong. What you don't have the will to say what you feel inside. Alright some guys are bad for abusing the ladies heart, but theres some good guys that know how to go about a womens heart. Lol good or bad, just speak your heart
2007-09-18 09:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls want bad boys for a sense of danger in their lives. i prefer nice guys, not the kind that wait on you hand and foot and spend all their free time complimenting on how "good" i look that day. but like i said, thats just what i prefer. some girls do like that bad boy because they are gonna get more adventure and will have a wider array of people to meet and places to go. you should never change to be with someone, they are to like, love, and live with you the way you are, because that is WHO you are... it all comes down to variety really...
2007-09-18 09:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Gizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a nice guy, I get attracted by their personality but... I always end up with bad boys, something about them playing hard to get... just throwing my 2 cents in.
2007-09-18 09:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by SSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like some bad boys and some nice guys but mostly nice guys! they are so sweet and kind. bad boys get into to much trouble and arent good to be a boyfriend. so i like nice guys better.
2007-09-18 09:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, a guy has to be 100% a nice guy and 100% innocent or I drop him. I'm just very picky. There are a lot of "bad boys" that I think are extremely hot, but I wouldn't date them.
2007-09-19 07:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by †StrongAsDeath† 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋