When a women tells a guy to call her, but does'nt usually make the effort to give him a call, does it mean she does'nt care enough to keep in touch with him. I'm the one who always calls to keep in touch and she barely returns my calls or e-mails. A lot of times when I do call, she tells me she'll call, but never does. Should I leave her alone or not? Only respectful answers pleas.
2007-09-18 09:31:21 · 13 answers · asked by Go Broncos! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have answered you own question the fact is you already know, leave her alone and move on (it sometimes makes them more keen but can not guarantee this) if she liked you she'd call you!
2007-09-25 22:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is trying to tell you to stop contacting her in a round about away.
Accept her decision and move on.
When calling's being done one-sided, it usually means that the person doesn't want to be bothered. And since she doesn't keep her word about calling you and she doesn't return your e-mails, then take the hint.
You can do a whole lot better.
2007-09-26 04:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if she says she will call and doesnt, then I wouldnt call her and wait until she gets in touch with you. She is interested if she returns phone calls and makes the effort, but if too much time flys by and you havent heard from her, she probably is not interested.
2007-09-18 09:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by ~just.me~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could take your cue from her lack of response and consider it to be lack of interest. It all depends on you. If you feel that she is sincere but busy, then I'd say keep calling. If you feel that she is uninterested and stringing you along, I'd say forget her. Try not calling her for a while to see if she does actually call you back. If she's interested, she'll call.
2007-09-26 08:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, I have done this tons of times. Basically, she doesn't want to hurt your feelings because she thinks you are a nice guy, but really is just not interested enough to call you. Stop calling her. If she wants your companionship she will call.
2007-09-26 05:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by s_best08 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mean we are to busy or don't care most of the time we are dying waiting for ur calls we just don't want to seem desperate thats all. she prolly just wants to see if you care enough ... talk to her about it tell her you feel like you are constantly contacting her when it seems like she doesn't make an effort...hope that helps...
2007-09-25 12:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by BluEyes<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never met a woman yet who couldnt speak loud and clear when she really wanted something so I would not invest to much emotion or time on this one until you see a change.
2007-09-26 09:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts a tuff one cause my ex says he loves me and all tht but he does the same thing so she may be is playing hard to get...try nt talking to her for a few weeks or days or w.e and see wat happens if she likes u then she will ask u wats up but rite now she treating u like a friend so after sum time if she doesnt respond to ur calls and stuff then just try and b friends instead of bf/gf wit her
2007-09-18 10:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by breeReal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is not that interest in you because she does not make an effort to get to know you
2007-09-26 06:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kristal W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is there just phone calls? Don't you see her, in person?
I don't want to just talk on the phone with someone. I want to be with them. See her. Ask your questions, then.
C. :)!!
2007-09-26 05:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋