Questions for certain women???

Question

I say certain because I realize not all are like this.

You get angry at men that judge women based on looks rather than conduct of your character, you get angry at men for thinking about and wanting sex from you, you refer too men as stupid because not all of our decisions result in success.

So here are my questions. When was the last time you were out some were and saw an unattractive or fat man and said "He seems like a nice guy,he must love his mother and respect women, I must be with him?"
Out of all the choices you had too make this past year.(that you can recall) How many were the perfect choice with no mistakes therefore making everyone happy?
How many of you really hate sex? ( Women think of sex just as often as guys)
Why do you treat men just as bad as you say we treat you then claim were unfair in our treatment of women?

For the record,I also believe this behavior in men is wrong and have acted this way myself on occasion. Can you admit the same?

PYT: Please set the crack pipe down before answering questions. I said I agree men do this and I think its wrong. We admit it though. A lot of women wont admit it.

Answer 1

I think most of us want the guy to like the way we look but you want something past that point (and not just sex). There are a bunch of stupid men but is goes the same for women.

Your Questions:

Looks aren't everything. I'm divorced and trust me I've been drug through the mud. The current guy I'm dating is not a knock of looker but he has a heart of gold, he makes me laugh and I feel a happiness I didn't realize I needed. I'll be honest guys can love there mom's but a guy can't be looking for a woman to be just like her. Perhaps there are certain things you like but overall you don't want your mom.

I made a bunch of mistakes. Some were perfect and a hell of a lot were not. I used to live to make everyone else happy. It doesn't work that way. Of course I want those I love to be happy but I want to make sure I am too. I am NOT selfish for feeling that. Anyone who thinks I am is full of it, and in denial.

Sex is not on the top for me. My ex-husband left me because of it. When a man puts so much pressure on something like that they obviously don't realize how much they are pushing you away. Be with me damnit because you want to not because your horny and need to release. Yes women think about it too but trust me it can all change. Snap just like that.

Men are some of my closest companions, sometimes more than women so I can't honestly say anything about that question. I truly think we need to be all treated equal, but I don't know how easy that is in our society.

I'm sure I've done something stupid and definitely have been drug along too. We all make errors. Be a man, admit it, learn from it and don't do it again. If you do then you deserve the crap that comes your way.

Answer 2

For the record, I admit that a guy has to be attractive enough to appeal to me, but it's what inside that makes me want to stay with him. As for the sex part, I agree, women may think of sex just as much as men do, but I think the main difference is that men tend to act out their thoughts of sex. I do not believe that I treat men bad, I treat people as I would like to be treated regardless of their gender. Like anything else, there is good and bad in everyone, you just have to be patient enough to find the one you think is right for you instead of concentrating on the faults of those that are not. Good Luck!

Answer 3

why is this directed toward just women, men do the same thing, it's human nature. I mean, most men are attracted to the beautiful woman walking down the street rather than the overweight woman, most women don't complain about hating sex, on the contrary, most women talk about how good it was, and just like there are women who are jerks, so are there men who are jerks.

Answer 4

I learned a long time ago about judging a book by it's cover! I don't choose people by the way they look, I don't want someone who's HOT if he's not going to treat me right!! I want to be with someone who accepts me as I am and I want them to do the same! I want someone who is honest and that has a sense of humor and is FAITHFUL!!! I have had the Hot ones, now I want a REAL one!!

Answer 5

Maybe if fat guys were attractive to me i would have dated him, but i have to have something that is pleasing to my eye in order to approach him.

I cant get enough sex and yes...yes id do think of it just as often if not more than any guy i know.

I treat my man with the respect he deserves and the respect i wish to receive in return.