I'm a warm, caring, professional woman who can take care of herself, hold her own, be assertive as needed and be unselfish, sympathetic and empathetic too. I have a great sense of humor, am sincere, attractive, have a good physical appearance -- yet, when I meet a guy (man), they focus on the physical (I dress normal or even conservative and never show cleavage and wear skirts that fall right below the knee), and never get past that. I never get asked out and the guys (men) who seem interested in that I'm interested in are in some way involved with someone else!
Is there something wrong with me? I act like me no matter who I'm with -- women or men. But, if I'm attracted to a guy, I may flirt mildly or ask questions that show my interest in him than I would do normally. It's normal!
I feel like guys (men) don't like the nice girls (ladies, women) out there. Why not??
2007-08-17
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