Singles & Dating - 17 August 2007

This guy has been asking me out for 2 months. I haven't given him a definite answer, not because I don't want to, but because its a little complicated(the reason isn't important right now) Anyway, I really want to go out with him, but he wants a definite answer. He wants to go on a date this weekend. I haven't spoken to him since he asked me.
He's been asking me for 2 months. He tells me how beautiful I am, and he tells me he can't stop thinking about me. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to call him, because he'll want an answer. I've tried telling him why its complicated, but he doesn't think its that big of a deal, even though it is. I mean, he's waited 2 months, there must be something there, right? Please help me. I need advice. I don't want to lose him.

2007-08-17 11:38:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many have you had

2007-08-17 11:36:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate it. I get so nervous talking to people.

2007-08-17 11:33:21 · 25 answers · asked by jblack988 1

OK me and my ex broke up a month and a half ago and he keeps calling me and telling me he wants me back and wants another chance and by now i just hate him. I always tell him to leave me alone. i ignore his emails and his phone calls but it doesn't work he still keeps calling me. I told him all i want is for him to stop calling me and to leave me alone. anyone got any suggestions on how i can deal with it?

2007-08-17 11:33:18 · 29 answers · asked by Mila 2

Ok, so I was outside playing baseball with my niece on those little fisher price baseball kits, that comes with the little softball attached to string when you hit. So I go up to my 11yr old niece and say...keep your eye on the ball, and Swing! well she swung alright and the softball nailed me square in the groin! Obvisouly I fell down in pain and she started laughing and said, HOMERUN! ugh girls...y do u find it so humerous?

2007-08-17 11:26:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

and my boyfriend saw me!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-17 11:24:13 · 30 answers · asked by Leah 1

Ok, so I was outside playing baseball with my niece on those little fisher price baseball kits, that comes with the little softball attached to string when you hit. So I go up to my 11yr old niece and say...keep your eye on the ball, and Swing! well she swung alright and the softball nailed me square in the groin! Obvisouly I fell down in pain and she started laughing and said, HOMERUN! ugh girls...y do u find it so humerous?

2007-08-17 11:23:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I asked a question previously about sex. Many people suggested that I 'teach' him to do what I like and tell him what I don't like. How can't I tell him what I do and don't like if 'I' don't even know? I don't masterbate or anything. I have a mental block about it. I just can't do it. I WON'T do it. So how can I teach a man to give me what I want when I don't even know?

2007-08-17 11:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by Skyy L 1

what do you do if your man accused you of cheating but you have never cheated?
We are broken up now because he just doesn't trust me. I don't understand why he would think such things of me. I have two kids and he is not there father. I don't have time to cheat.
What should i do, I really care about this guy and maybe even love him but he can't trust me.

2007-08-17 11:21:27 · 30 answers · asked by mzting 1

I am majorly in love with this guy and we were talking for hours last night. when i had to go he said that i put the beauty in beautiful. He knows i like him and he said he liked me too. but when i logged on this morning he was on so i said hi. it has been 5 hours since i sent it and he hasnt responded yet. i dont know what to do i want to still like him but i dont know if i can anymore. please HELP!!!!!

2007-08-17 11:20:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I swear If I see or hear one more woman over the age of 21 whining about how she was "used" or "got played" I'm gonna scream!!!! Why can't these women admit they wanted to have sex, or they tried to use sex to get a man to commit? Sure, there are men who are dogs, but in so many cases it seems like the woman is using the man as much as he's using her. It's like if the guy calls, it was a "spiritual experience" but if the guy doesn't then she was "played" and she tries to put all the blame on the man instead of seeing that she made a personal choice to be sexually active. I am sick of seeing women who put themselves out there as victims. It reflects badly on women as a whole, it gives the message adult women can't make reasonable decisions about our sexuality without turning it into some dramafest! This is 2007... are there any women out there who don't have 1957 mentalities regarding choosing to be a sexual person whether or not it end up with happily ever after?

2007-08-17 11:11:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this is killing me.
i REALLY REALLY like this guy. l mean for like months. last year was good and we connected. and its the first week of school and all we have done was said hi.
but it feels like hes lookin @ me but then he looks away. hes an introverted guy but he talks alot when u talk about a subject he likes.
how do i take it to the next level?
ik it sounds gay but i want him to be my boyfriend!

2007-08-17 11:06:06 · 11 answers · asked by oohthe summer 2

How easy is it for a guy to get aroused by visual stimulation only ... I mean when seeing a girl in public? Does it happen often? Can any girl cause it or is it just the girl friend/wife?

Thanks in advance for answering.

2007-08-17 11:05:18 · 18 answers · asked by applegoogle 1

I'm your typical white guy and I have been dating this chick from the Philippines for about 6 months now. And the thing is that I feel something is wrong. She don't seem too much into me and the thing is I'm not exactly a Brad Pitt( I'm UGLY ) hehe. But she is VERY HOT. I don't even know how I hooked up with her. The thing is that she now is talking about getting married. For me this is way too fast. And now I feel that she's using me to get her green card. She keeps talking about how she wants to go visit her family in the Philippines ( She currently can't since she doesn't have papers ).

I mean our relationship is fine and the sex is great but I'm starting to feel used. She says she loves me but I mean I don't believe it. If we break up I am going to be very sad and I will miss her. Things just won't be the same without her. I will sure miss stuffing THAT turkey. I am an Aeronautical Engineer. She just takes ESL classes at a community college.

Is she using me???

2007-08-17 11:02:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im A Shy Bloke But Yeah Im Polite And I Love To Talk Any Enjoy Myself

2007-08-17 11:02:02 · 2 answers · asked by sunnyb4u 1

and I think he feels the same way about me.
Trouble is hes got a fiancee and they are expecting a baby.
Am I wrong to feel like this?

P.S its Sasperman.

2007-08-17 10:57:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Itallians and Irish especially!

Where can I meet white men who are attracted to black women?

I'm not interested in the guys who are into rap and that type of lifestyle, because I'm not, I want to meet nice laid back guys.

I've gone on Yahoo Personals, Match.com, and this interracial site, but I really don't want to pay to meet guys, you know.

If you have any good ideas please let me know! Or, maybe if you're an interested party =0) let me know as well and I'll give you a detailed list of what i'm looking for.

Oh, and I reside in the LA and OC area, so if you have places I should go in my area let me know.

Thanks! =0)

2007-08-17 10:56:11 · 4 answers · asked by Lovely in Cali 3

I've asked many questions about my crush in the past, and from the answers I've received, it seems like there is a pretty good chance that he likes me back. Problem is that he is leaving for college in 9 days. I know I will definitely be seeing him on Sunday, when we go out to dinner with alllll of our other coworkers, but I'm afraid that might be the last time I see him until he comes home when classes aren't in session. He's pretty shy, as am I, so he hasn't said anything to me. So I'm trying to figure out if/ when I should tell him that I like him instead of waiting for him. I don't want to do it at the dinner, cuz we are gonna be with 20 of our coworkers that have no idea that I like him. Would it be really lame for me to tell him online? Everytime I think about telling him in person, I get too nervous and am too afraid to tell him face to face. I was thinking of maybe telling him tonite online, but I dunno. Or should I not say anything at all? I think I'd regret that tho. help!

2007-08-17 10:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by dreamer55 2

2007-08-17 10:42:14 · 1 answers · asked by mouimoui 1

when my bf was breakin up with me last nite....we were talkin for a while....he explainin things to me....and one thing really jump out at me....he said "sometimes i luv u, sometimes i don't"....wht is tht suppose to mean?...

2007-08-17 10:40:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

that sh!t was too f*cken funny, yo! Jacki Chanis crazy as usual and Chris Tucker is a d@mn fool in this movie. i recommend it to everyone!

2007-08-17 10:37:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i read a lot of yahoo answers that guys always look at boobs, butt, etc. everytime i catch guys looking at me, i always see them looking at my face, not my body. are guys good at not being caught looking at the body?

2007-08-17 10:35:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Perhaps this is a stupid questions, but I've gone on three dates with a guy. I've looked stunning all three times, but he hasn't complimented me on anything--personality, shoes, car, accomplishments, food choice--nothing.

Can someone tell me what it means when a man doesn't pay a compliment? (He's still calling and asking me out...).

2007-08-17 10:26:59 · 66 answers · asked by kerber22 3

My friend's falling in love with a violent guy. He likes to take advantages on her (her body, money,....). No matter how much he abuses her, she still wanna be with him. I usually see many wounds appeared on her body. I try to tell her but she still doesn't want to listen. What can I do?

2007-08-17 10:23:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK is there any boys on here whos REAL name is Jacob???
i`m serious!!!!!!!! not kidding plz answer!!! i`m desprete or how ever u spell it!!!!! plz tell the truth

2007-08-17 10:19:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 10:16:26 · 31 answers · asked by HopeH 4

blonde or brunett women and why?

2007-08-17 10:05:41 · 1 answers · asked by Muah!!! 2

the question says it all! ideas please! and i really like him!

2007-08-17 10:01:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

women........do you think 12 is too young to young for a first kiss & YES ONLY a kiss???shes a mature 12 & her bf is 13 & it would both be there 1st they have been together on & off for years...wat do you think????

2007-08-17 10:00:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 09:57:50 · 7 answers · asked by Diana L 1