How do you accept and let go?

Answer 1

I'm not sure exactly what the issue is...

but regardless, I think the biggest part of accepting and letting go is Forgiveness.

A lot of times even if we accept, we can't let go. We hold on to resentment, or the pain. We accept it... but it's still there, fresh, and haunting us. Whatever it may be.

And that's because we don't forgive. We don't forgive them. And we don't forgive ourselves. Not only that, but people have a tendency to hold on to things that have been done to them as a way of defining their character--that this bad thing happened because of something that they did. When, oftentimes, they didn't do ANYTHING at all!

So the best thing, I say, is to smile. Say that you're not at fault. That you forgive yourself... that you forgive whomever else is involved.

Let yourself live, and be happy. Love yourself...

And then let go.

And, of course, the best way to let go is to move on~~

Just keep on moving! ^____^

Answer 2

what ever your issue is boy, girl ? But just think it is the past and you can change it. so accept it for what it is or was. By letting go just find various ways to keep yourself busy, with others and before you know it you have let it go because you did not think about the issue.

Answer 3

if you're talking about accepting something that is bothering you and letting it go; then just tell yourself that it is how it is and everything happens for a reason. letting go is really the only hard part. mainly what i do, is just keep myself busy. eventually you will quit thinking about it and move on. the best medicine would deff have to be friends. they always keep you laughing. get together with them and do something fun. you won't have time to worry. "]
hopefully that was what you meant. and hopefully i helped.
good luck!

Answer 4

It depends on if what your trying to accept is really unacceptable... If its petty then leave it as a mistake but if its not then get out of what ever it is that your in and then let it go...

Answer 5

Whatever it is isn't the center of your life, you just have to emotionally wrap your head around all that pain and push it away. find something you're passionate about and just do it. Stay away from places that remind you of that heartache and get out to do stuff that you enjoy like hanging out with friends, etc.Time is the ultimate factor. Doing new stuff, trying new things, moving away from old patterns and things will help most. Good luck.

Answer 6

How do you accept and let go? sometimes its hard to let go of someone you love sometimes if it hurts u have to tell your self that he is gone maybe its for good maybe he be back who knos just one thing he is gone just try to let go how do u? just tell yourself he gone and maybe someone better will come good luclk

Answer 7

It has to be one or the other it can't be both because when you let go you not longer accept and vice versa.

Answer 8

i am assuming you are talking about a relationship since you posted in the Family & Relationshop section...

i just lost mine of a year and half. i can tell you it is not easy but i have been told to keep myself busy with things that i enjoy and find new things as well. i know it isn't much but that is all i can offer at this time.

if i find the answer, i promise to let you in on it!

Answer 9

Just accept the things you cannot change, the courage to change the things you can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Answer 10

accept and let go