Singles & Dating - 10 August 2007

2007-08-10 20:22:50 · 27 answers · asked by SHASHI K 1

say for instance, you've been running the streets(not running the streets anymore) and this guy had been trying to talk to you for two years.YOu finally give him the number recently but he only wants to meet in the morning time, spend a couple hours and then leave.I'm not with the booty call stuff and it seems that way with him.He tells me he doesnt just want a booty call but I think otherwise.What should I do?I already told him I dont want just a bootycall.

2007-08-10 20:21:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it ever possible to have a bad break up with someone and still be sex friends? I am just curious because the relationship I was just in, for a long time, was really about sex. and not mediocre sex either.

2007-08-10 20:18:47 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa K 3

we've been close friends for years and he's always "adored"/respected me (according to our friends it was "obvious"). girls always looked at him as "just a friend" and never a boyfriend. he's a typical "shy guy"yet he's outgoing with friends but very picky on who he likes. He's never had a girlfriend or a girl like him so he's never really been the type to "make a move" or has he had experience. Once he likes someone, he's very loyal and even though girls underestimate him and he's a "latebloomer", he'd make a great boyfriend.

earlier this year, I realized that i started having deeper feelings for him and after all these yrs, he STILL felt the same way so we kinda "hooked up" (no sex, innocent just kisses). I'm the first girl and only that's ever liked him and back and is the cloeset thing he'll get to in a real relationship; and his first kiss. i was so surprised because with me, he was so COMFORTABLE and calmly confident. He adored me with sweet little affectionate expressions.

Sometimes I feel like he needs more reassurance than me - for as long as we've known each other, guys have always tried to get with me and HE was the only there for me. He's insecure about his body so sometimes i feel HE thinks that i'll leave him if there's someone who loves me more or is "better". He always makes it a point that i'm a pretty girl and he gets intimidated...

if you put all those things together: latebloomer, shy, insecure, inexperienced, loyal...does he need reassurance? am i special to him?

2007-08-10 20:17:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you say, meeting up with your boyfriend, going to the beach, going bike riding, reading together, cooking dinner and then watching a movie and then falling asleep together. OR
meeting up, going to the beach, laying out, getting margaritas, maybe have a cig or two, going home having sex then getting ready to go out to a party, then coming home and passing out.
hmmm....

2007-08-10 20:15:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my boyfriend at work. I've been with him for about 6 mos. His job requires driving all day cuz he's a tech. I just get to see him an hour in the morning, and communicate with throughout the day when he has to call the office. And then I'll get to see him after work sometimes. Sometimes I feel like he's embarrassed of me or he doesn't want to take me out anywhere. Or he's being too cheap. I'm always initiating going out. But rarely does he do. I know he's tired sometimes. But then he goes to the bar with his buddies with no hesitation, then at night he'd call me back. Which he did twice in a role when I had told him I wanted to do something. And the next day he's broke for me. I understand guys need that space. But what about me. I want to be able to be like the guys. But he says he doesn't want to take me to the bar and drink crazy. He likes me cuz I'm "innocent". What should I do w/o complaining.

2007-08-10 20:14:05 · 4 answers · asked by littleasiangirl2007 1

How do you keep a guy intrigued with you once you have had sex with him? How do you make him feel like he still has to pursue you..Cause I know guys lose interest once they think they have you totally...How can I make him think he is still chasing me?

2007-08-10 20:11:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so basically when me and my boyfriend broke up I met this guy a FRIEND guy, I never had intentions of being more than friends. He just made me laugh and we had good times drinking and he took my mind off my ex. Well me and my ex got back together and now I feel bad ever hanging out wiht him because my ex doesn't know abou thim and he keeps texting me, that other guy asking to hang out and go out, for drinks. Is it bad that I go out with this guy and have drinks if were just friends? For some reason I feel bad if i did it. I text him back just saying that Im going to sleep. But if I were to hang out with him behind my boyfriend's back.....what is this? So weird....am i bad?

2007-08-10 20:09:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this co-worker, we're good friends at work but dont see each other outside work., anyway, i think she likes me, she'll blurt out something provocative sometimes towards me. she'll call me hott once in awhile, she describes her perfect man identical to MY personality. its scary because i dont see her like that but i dont want to hurt her feelings. i hold everyones respect at work so i dont wanna screw that up by being an asshole just to accomplish this little task, any ideas?

2007-08-10 20:09:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy @work always used to make eye contact,when he walks pass..He looks at me,when he stand close by he looks deep into my eyes,he has those beautiful blue eyes that turns me on..Ive caught him looking at my hair,lips,even eyebrows lol,

2007-08-10 20:08:14 · 8 answers · asked by Cassý 1

I've been with my boyfriend about 6 mos. He knows when my birthday is, which is this coming weekend. But he's taking his vacation on the day of my birthday for a week with his mom to mexico. He had told me what he was going to do weeks back. But now he hasn't mentioned anything about my birthday at all.
What should I do? Am I being selfish? My birthday is months before his too. Should I be mad if he doesn't do anything with me, but just say Happy Birthday?

2007-08-10 19:59:43 · 2 answers · asked by littleasiangirl2007 1

I love this girl im dating in different ways shae does. Theres days i get off work and im really tired but she calls me everyday after i get home and we're on the phone for ever it feels like and its hard for me to just tell her that i had a long day. plus i have chores to do and i normally dont get them done till 10:00 every night because im talking to her for two or three hours that feels like twevle or thirtteen hours. and im getting tired of it.
we've been together for two years and i love her and dont want to break her heart. so what do i do with her???????
HURRY PLEASE ANSWER QUICK????

2007-08-10 19:59:11 · 29 answers · asked by bubbak 2

Me & my friend was just talking about my ex, & I just realized that I had nothing in common with him. He doesn't like anything I like, & I don't like anything he likes. Also, he turned out to be very fake. & throughout our 6-month relationship, I can count on my fingers the many times we've seen each other in person, & he hardly ever called me. He would text msg. me. A lot of things didn't add up in our relationship.

I've been 100% faithful to him, & now he has a new girlfriend who he writes several blogs about how wonderful she is. He never wrote a MySpace blog about me. When he was with me, he only wrote 1 blog about how everyone who broke his heart deserves the worst STD. & things I did for him, he never appreciated. Like when I would cook for him, he'd sneak behind my back & throw my food away. When I asked him why he cheated on me, he said he just wanted to see how it felt to cheat. & when I tried to dump him, he threatened to hurt me.

2007-08-10 19:57:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've only dealt with a 'few' on a really close level, and this has left me with this impression - That i cannot REALLY trust them. Can't trust them to 'trust themselves' about their own emotions.

For example, I had a g/f. She had a few issues, but mainly she wanted me to love her, be there for her, etc. Understandable. I tried to be a man about it and work with her. Eventually we broke up, both 'moved on.' But i still 'cared' about her, i just wanted to date others. But she, who was really an emotional psycho about us being together, was now acting like i was a nobody. She had a new b/f, tried to call me arrogant and selfish. WTF? I was always the same person in our whole relationship. Months later, she's telling me all the good things she used to like about me. So which one was it? But the damage had already been done. I didn't know what to believe.

And my mom, she frequently MAKES UP negative things about me that aren't even true. Then i spend time trying to argue w/her that

2007-08-10 19:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous 2

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I met a guy in school (college), that would be perfect for me. It took us forever to finally speak our first words to each other. We are both extremely shy,atleast I THINK HE is. Anyways, I always noticed him looking over at me, and we would exchange smiles sometimes, but oonly a word or so every once in a while. The worst part is, we have all the same friends, but even if we are standing right next to each other, we don't talk. He is always on my mind. I can't help how I feel. I finally got courage to email him 2 days ago, cause he is extremely proficient with computers and I neededhelp. He called my phone as soon as he got it, and then offered to come over, which was today. While he was here, he mentioned that he was affraid I was mad at him for not calling till late in the evening.Then i asked when he was getting married, and he shyly replied with not any time soon.Does he like me?

2007-08-10 19:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in 7th grade if that helps

2007-08-10 19:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by akash_singh95 1

2007-08-10 19:52:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay this is really serious and I need help. There is this guy I like. I have known him since high school, we graduated this year and well there are times where he calls me and talks to me and then there are times when I call him and talk to him. Are conversations dont last very long, the longest we have ever talked is about 10mins on the phone. I have told some of my friends about me liking him and they say that I am to good for him that he isnt good enough and that I can do better. Well I have known him for a year and a 1/2 and I feel that I know him pretty well. He has no Idea that I like him and I want to tell him but I dont know how. I dont want to be straight up and tell him "I like you" I want to kind of give him hints rather than just tell him. What kind of hints would you give a guy/girl.
P.S. he is a class clown and he might not take it seriously I want him to take it seriously though.
The reason my friends say that im to good for him is cuz of looks and how he is a clown

2007-08-10 19:51:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my clear question is that after the discarge man feels satisfied and he goes to sleep but what a female thinks immediately after after sex , i mean what type of feeling emerges in her mind , such as , not satisfied today , today had lot of fun , i needed more but my man has withdrawn, it was noremal today , sex is best thing or what else she thinks right after sex

2007-08-10 19:43:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i hang out with these group guys who i known since forever.and they always known me as one of the guys which i don't mind. and recently my sister came in to town and she a complete girly girl and she always wants me to be girly girl and dress up and all that stuff. so i decide since i rarely see her i'd cave in .so she gave me a total make over.so to celebrate she took me to a club and it just so happens the guys that i hang with r there. and they actually hit on me with out realizing who i was. i thought it was funny.anyways to make a long story short they came to realize it was me. and since then they haven't talk to me. its been 2 months and i don't know what happen. so can u explain. if they don't quit acting stupid i'm gonna have find a new group guys to hang with.

2007-08-10 19:41:37 · 20 answers · asked by lashalle 2

i remember my first time i thought maybe it was because ive never done it before and i thought also that maybe the guy i was with was well...not so endoud. but after i had been with a few other men i just do not understand why it doesnt feel good. we've tried different positions and other things and nothing works. i dont know, its just really frusterating because i am 27 and i have never had an orgasm. i am currently with someone and i havnt told him about it with a fear of hurting his ego. i dont know what to do.
what is wrong and how can i fix it?!?!?!?!

and please i dont appriciate smart remarks or people against premarital sex. those topics are not relivant.

2007-08-10 19:37:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Gfriend and I have been together for 6 years. I have not been to Disneyland for over 20 years and she has never been. We are both in our 20s n without kids is this a good fun weekend or will she laugh at me? Do girls think its fun and want to do that?

2007-08-10 19:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by C A 2

2007-08-10 19:30:25 · 35 answers · asked by Jethro T 1

I am 19 years old and have never had sex and I do not want to until I am married. However, a guy that I am in a relationship makes me feel bad and calls me frigid.My family brought me up to not have sex until marriage, but most people my age don't understand that. I know that if I were to lose my virginity that I would feel extremely sorrowful and guilty if it was not to the person I was married to. I also feel like I need to be a positive role model for my sister. I feel as if I did that, then I could no longer giver her advice bc I would be living a lie.

Your thoughts please.

2007-08-10 19:26:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this huge crush on a guy i've known for a year, everyone tells me that he likes me back....but i'm too scared to find out.....what should i do?

2007-08-10 19:25:33 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

Currently, I am in a long distance relationship. However, I am gradually not wanting to allow him to visit. Now, I am 19 and I am a virgin and he is 20 and had been in a sexually relationship before. In the past, we talked about sex and he respected my decision to not do anything until marriage. However, now he is saying that I am frigid etc. I am worried bc he seems like he is becoming more and more aggressive/ aggravated w/o sex. Now, I am just curious to now if all men get upset when they are not getting any sex. I do not want to go and visit him and then he attempts to do something. He keeps telling me that men and women have urges that they just can't suppress. I know to an extent he is truthful, but that does not mean that a person can't control his/her sexual desires. I also feel that he is trying to persuade me to have sex. My question is.. do men typically get more upset and angry without sex?

2007-08-10 19:19:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-10 19:16:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-10 19:16:19 · 2 answers · asked by matthewweiss2006 1

Pick your favourite from each pair
tall or short
skinny or curvy (not necessarily fat)
brunette(red and black here to) or blonde
pale or tan
hyper or chill
warm body temp or cold

2007-08-10 19:02:48 · 6 answers · asked by Pandora 3

young people online, just to chat with. seems like everyone (men) is always after the same thing.

i just want a good, healthy conversation once in a while. sometimes its easier to talk to strangers (sometimes, you have to be careful) because they wont judge or criticize you.

2007-08-10 19:02:03 · 6 answers · asked by maya 2