N is a guy who ive tried to be friends with for years, but one of us is always taken. Now were both divorced, so we started txting, and hangin out. After i started to fall hard for him, he tells me theres a gf of a few months. So i lightly pry, and she lives w him. I was ticked! He sez he cant return her love, but doesnt wanna throw her out on her butt. He sez when shes gone, hes mine. Yada yada. I sed i dont want a heavy relationship, fine being friends w bennies. (If she were respectable id back off) He doesnt make empty promises, doesnt tell me what i want to hear. He treats me like a goddess. He has compassion and weve both admitted a strong connection. Hes totally honest about his personal junk, but i know hes a liar and cheat. (he's admitted it to me!) I want to say call me when shes gone, but if were just friends w bennies, do i just ignore the passion and feelings? Or is there a potential for something real? Or, is he just a playa? Hes in no hurry to get rid of her. (it seems)
2007-08-03
08:51:35
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