My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 4 months, and lately I feel like we act more like roomates than significant others. When we get home from work, we're tired. I'll make dinner, and we used to make an effort to eat at the table, but now it's just easier to sit in front of the tv. The rest of the night is spent in front of the tv, him watching, me reading. I miss talking and chatting with him, but he always complains that since he talks all day at work, the last think he wants to do at home is talk. He also plans times to hang out with his friends during the week. I don't mind that at all, in fact, I relish my time at home alone. I just wish we could make more of an effort doing special things together too. It's like now that we live together, we don't have to make an effort to do anything fun or different. We're in a rut, and I've tried talking to him about it, but he just thinks I'm being a nag. Help! What do I do?
2007-08-03
04:49:02
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missy
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