2007-08-03 05:53:10 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think HIS friend will dump HIM if you refuse
2007-08-03 05:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Beat him to the punch and dump him first.
Seriously, unless your boyfriend has expressed an interest in watching you with other people, in an honest open way, there's no reason to try and insist on it now. If he has expressed an interest in this, consider what his interest is. Is it to humiliate you or is it because it turns him on? How do either of those make you feel?
Most people don't like to be humiliated, but some do. If you are one of those, then maybe this will work for you. If you're not, and you think your boyfriend is trying to humiliate you, then you should leave him.
If it's not about humiliation, and you're interested in having an "open" relationship then consider it and find out more about the motivations.
2007-08-03 06:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by J P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that happened to............
1. Do you really want to be with someone who would let the thing he should treasure most be had by any one else (I don't care how close friends they are !!!!!)
2. If you do he will throw it up in your face if you ever have a fight or problems.(for ever.)
3. Even if he says it's ok He will never forget.
4. Find someone who will respect you more than that.
5. If he would dump his girlfriend over not letting his friend screw her he was a sorry s.o.b. anyway and you are better off without anyway.
2007-08-03 06:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by jmg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to disagree with most folks here. This isn't a matter of "honor amongst gamblers" or any other such nonsense. A marriage can be a fragile thing. Just ask yourself this - "Can my marriage be just fine, and can I be just fine, if I allow this to happen?" If the answer is "no", then it shouldn't happen. If your husband truly wants to go through with this, knowing that you are strongly against this, then your marriage is already in trouble anyway. "A bet is a bet." That's nonsense. Teenagers have been here before asking similar questions. The bet one time was that they allow themselves to be video-recorded performing some sort of lewd act. Should they honor that bet? Of course not! That would ruin their life if that got onto the internet. Some things are more important than "honor" amongst gamblers. I think your marriage would qualify as one of those things.
2016-04-01 16:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump your boyfriend for insisting that you sleep with his friend....if you do it then he'll insist you do ALL other sorts of things that you probably wont want to do and then you will be in a mental mess. Move on from this guy
2007-08-03 05:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by kakeydec 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need more self esteem. Who cares what he does? He is a LOSER. See him for what he is and move on. You will never be important to him so you may as well quit now before the next stunt. With an idiot like this, there will always be more stunts, you can count on that. You need a new group of friend who RESPECT you. Don't settle for less. You are dating down from your own quality and if you don't set those standards, no one will do it for you. Always date up in quality. Surround yourself with quality and you will be moving up in the world.
2007-08-03 06:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by 84purpleshovel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's your boyfriend, why the hell firstly, would he want you to sleep with his friend? Maybe him, that's more logical. And you should refuse, if he dumps you over something so stupid it shows that this isnt a real relationship and he isnt worth the bother tbh.
Hope all goes well
~Dont do it!
Love
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2007-08-03 05:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by <3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this a real question!? Tell him to go to hell. If you want to be with someone like that you're a moron. Any guy that insists you sleep with his friend doesn't care about you anyway.
2007-08-03 05:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by carna69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him and need to be treated with respect. I wouldn't share my girl with anyone else. If he dumps you then it means he don't care about you or the relationship. Say no to him, have self-respect for yourself and not let him take advantage of you.
2007-08-03 05:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go double or nothing and if he loses he has to sleep with his friend too. Sounds like you are dating a loser and need to find someone who won't use you for trading purposes. You could always stay with him and maybe he could trade you in on a new car in the future. Respect yourself, and say good bye.
2007-08-03 05:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by John 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you get a share when he wins? Dump him for gd. You are a human not a pawn!
Insane of you to ask will he dump you. Where is ur pride?
2007-08-03 06:00:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋