ok so im am still dating the same guy sense like october and some ppl say that the whole grade hates me because i am still with him and that i should try going out with other ppl. What should i do i really need some help in this.PLEASE
2007-08-03 05:17:35 · 17 answers · asked by basketball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does it matter what other people think? If your happy then just be happy. Friends don't ask you to leave a good thing, well real friends don't.
2007-08-03 05:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mark R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you mean that you need SERIOUS help concerning a boy you have been dating SINCE October
I doubt that the whole grade hates you. Many probably don't care one way or the other. Do the "some ppl" mention faults that they think your guy has? Are they right? Does he treat you right, and make you happy? Why would anyone hate someone for being in a relationship? Do what is best for you.
2007-08-03 12:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by avnurd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole grade thinks you should go with someone else ?? Jealousy will get them everywhere...In fact it is a compliment of sorts because out of their own jealousy you've got the best guy to be with. If you are happy and get along well together then why change a working formula? Don't re-invent the wheel its too complicated as it is. Stick to what you know and who you know let the others not judge you unless they judge themselves.
2007-08-03 12:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like 'some people' are probably jealous. Maybe your boyfriend is quite a catch, and somebody would like to date him, OR, someone wants to date you and you aren't giving them that option.
OR, maybe you have changed who you are to suit your boyfriend or the relationship and 'some people' don't like it. If they are saying other people hate you, then maybe you should take one minute to think about how you are treating 'some people'. Ask yourself if you want to be treated the way you are treating them. They may also be saying that just to shake your confidence and be hurtful.
Honestly, if you are posing this question to a group of strangers, looking for guidance, than maybe your boyfriend isn't as important to you as you think. Maybe you are just looking for a reason to break up with him. Relationships are complicated enough for the people involved in them, they get far more complicated when there is outside influence.
2007-08-03 12:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what's best for you. Once you're out of high school no one will care whether or not you're with someone from October until now. If you like this person and he likes you and you enjoy each other's company, who cares what other people think.
2007-08-03 12:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by Girlie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay if people hate you because of you choose to be with then they are not worth knowing in the first place that is so stupid. you be with whomever you choose to, don't ever change yourself because others have a problem with you, if you do you will constantly be changing because their is always someone out there that has a problem that is just the way the world works you tell ALL those people to grow up
2007-08-03 12:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Reyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because some one said that the whole grade hates you it doesn't mean that it is ture i think that who ever said that wants to broke you two up for some reason
but if you love him you wouldn't care about what the grade thinks
2007-08-03 12:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the people who hate you actually fancy that guy but just stay with him because i ahd the same problem and it worked out fine in the end
2007-08-03 12:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would people hate you because you have a boyfriend?
this is silly..... i'm sure that no one "hates" you.. make your own choices and let the rest of the world make theirs.
take care and enjoy being young... too much drama hon.
2007-08-03 12:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares what people say dont be a slut n go out with other people just go out with who you want if you really like him you will stay with him'**** the haterz there nothing 2 me && they should be nothing 2 u
2007-08-03 12:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋