Is it normal to be a wee bit jealous that your ex g/f can easily sleep w/guys?

Question

Especially if you two were in love at one point. Would you be a wee bit jealous that dozens of guys are hitting on your ex daily. I mean, it was cute when i was with her, but she was all mine. In my opinion, girls sleep with any guy who they like, so i imagine she's slept with lots of guys.

Lol, this is a little funny to me. just my random thoughts. I know someone will say just move on.

I am moved on by the way. She was my 1st love though. I somewhat care about her and wouldn't want her to get hitted and quitted.

Answer 1

Yea expect that "Move On" BS from someone who isn't a relationship councillor, or is just a tad bit.... ignorant to the nature of the human heart... ether way. No its NATURAL to be jealous of such a thing because your mind is constantly searching for meaning behind any behaviors. Espacially one that means so much to you. Your handling it health because 1 your requinize it, and 2 you requinze how it isn't extremely important to act on this feeling. Its there to sort of... push you towards the only thing you can do, leting go of the hope. You can't move on from love, relationships don't disappear, and neither does are hearts. But we can come to terms with them, by understanding what happened. I have no clue what all went down in that relationship, nor if she is in to things the way you say. But realize in the end your dealing with that feeling of possibilities, of what could be, letting go of that is how you let go and do that horrible thing they call "move on" which basically means opening your heart to another. You can never forget a person enough to truly move on.... so as long as you hold on to hope, your minds going to smack your heart with jeaously in hopes that it well excite you to solve that problem.... ether that are you still blame you for the breck up... let go of that... or else the same thing happens..... jealousy....