Singles & Dating - 3 August 2007

My girlfriend is living with her ex-hubby and i just know why, she says she loves me but i think i'm losing her and i don't know what to about it, so if you have an answer for me please let me know ok, I would appreciate it.

2007-08-03 14:41:17 · 5 answers · asked by djmixmastern2 1

i made a promise to my self that i wont have sex till im married or in college so Technically im selabit (is that how you spell it?). do you agree with my desition?

2007-08-03 14:36:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

got any advise on having sex at 15? what do you think I should do?

2007-08-03 14:36:07 · 22 answers · asked by mark 1

In other words, is it more for her enjoyment of wearing it and turning him on.

OR is it for himself, so that seeing her wearing it, he gets turned on.

I, as a man, want to please all parties. If she enjoys it then I enjoy it. Its a win-win situation.

What does anyone else think?

2007-08-03 14:31:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-03 14:30:59 · 35 answers · asked by Lola R 2

I pretty much fit all the symptoms, but not entirely. I like to think i am a good person, but a lot of the times I just dont care about other people's feelings and find them boring. I am planning on becoming a model soon(as soon as im done with my portfolio). I think I am unique, very good looking, and very intelligent(my test scores prove that). I am not very shallow, yet I crave designer clothes, and pretty much the best of everything. I am a white male. I love looking in the mirror constantly just to make sure tha I look perfect. When I help out the homeless people or give money to charity I expect to be thanked/complimented/applauded for my generosity. I dream big, kinda living in my own world. I also need to be constantly complimented and have to be the best at everything. I feel that I am superior to everyone else, and can always find flaws in others.

I am a nice person though, once you get to know me. What do you think?

2007-08-03 14:19:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I fell hard for this girl, and I know she has fallen hard for me also. I had a crush on her a lot of the summer and she has to. The thing is that she is 21 and I am 19, not a huge difference but enough for me or her to act on our "hidden" feelings.
Anyways... we finally found out how we felt toward each other and started to hang out after work and such. The first night we spent 4-5 hours sitting in a parking lot talking, the next nights was also 4-5 hours. After a couple of days of late night talking and a few days of meeting a couple hours before work we both realize that we fell hard for each other.
The first time we hugged we hugged for 45 mins straight because neither one of us wanted to leave. We both say its a feeling that we never had before. ( I been in many long relationships (2 or more years) ) The feeling is intense.
I go to purdue university and she goes to western kentucky and we are going to try and make this work.

2007-08-03 14:13:20 · 8 answers · asked by Kmaldona 2

Would u rather have a girl thats thin with a big a$s or a girl thats a little overweight, with a big chest??
Plz answer...

2007-08-03 14:05:15 · 22 answers · asked by Lala 4

in a relationship do you use the three stirkes your out? like i know some people are like you mess up once its done but i've heard people say three stirkes your out and nothing can change that. What do you think?

2007-08-03 13:49:01 · 12 answers · asked by Rayray 5

I ve lent my b/f money several times over our 1year realtionship and Im afraid he will not pay me back what do u suggest I do.

2007-08-03 13:45:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay long story short....so like I have this "bf" but really its just about hooking up, we went on a trip with a friend of mine, and I had told her about some of his "features" well anyway I basically tell her that I dont care if she wants to get with him cos he aint like gonna be my long term man (hes the second man Ive been with) just a good time...well I couldnt do anything sexually when we were gone (time of the month, no thanks) and they ended up hooking up (and I gave him permission before that I am not his girl, and all that stuff)

So why am I kinda mad now? What is wrong with me?

2007-08-03 13:38:34 · 17 answers · asked by Ms. V. 1

IM me on AIM...My screen name is johnthegrungekid

2007-08-03 13:36:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my boyfriend and I are both using eachother. We fight all of the time but stay with eachother cause we need to. Everytime we fight, I cant help but want another man... none in particular, I just want to cheat on him really bad at times and I am scared I just might do it oneday out of rage. We have good times too but I will be the first to say that I do not love him. If I cheat on him, I know id feel bad. Why do I think that way when I am mad?

2007-08-03 13:30:49 · 5 answers · asked by blah 3

i mean sex might be good...but gosh why not think of something else for a change...like having fun in other ways...making girls happy....for a change..in stead of trying to persuade them to screw u...ughhh

2007-08-03 13:26:37 · 36 answers · asked by Chelsey C 2

what does it mean if you seduce somebody?

2007-08-03 13:25:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my question is, i am 25 and have been with around 40 men, but i am wanting something more serious now. so, i guess i am asking, is something like that important to men? is it truely possible to find a man, who doesnt care that i have been with that many other men in my past, and will be able to overlook that or no, will no man ever accept that? im beginning to think that i wont ever find that special someone due to my past

2007-08-03 13:19:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m seein this guy okay. We are both 18. I love him! I really do! I haven’t told him yet cuz I think it’s too soon. Thing is I’m wondering if I should end this “relationship.” He told me about how he had an abusive father and of the cruel things his dad did to him. My guy told me of the times he wanted to kill his father...he’s also talked of how protective he is of his friends. He told me of one specific incident, when a guy he knew got outta hand with some girl and tried to force a kiss on her. He told me that he just snapped and attacked the guy and beat him up pretty good (it’s true, it’s not a bluff)...he said that if his friends hadn’t yanked him off the guy that he prolly would have killed him. I can understand wanting to protect the people who are dear to you but at what cost? Am I in a doomed relationship? I’m wondering now if I should be with this guy. He promised me with all his heart that he would never ever hurt me...but how can I be sure now? My mom just filled me in on another horror story of a 19 year old girl who was found brutally murdered most likely by her bf....and obviously that’s not the only story....am I with the sort of person who will snap and end up hurting me or (perhaps) our future children? He’s the kindest and most sincere and honest guy I know, but what should I do? I’m getting kinda scared now.

2007-08-03 13:14:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was working and the day was going fine. I guess I was being a bitty but not actually realizing I was.

Well by the time these guys came up to me, they were talking to get me to let them go. The one guy out of the blue asked me if I needed a hug and the other one told him under his breath something like "she just needs to be screwed. That's fix her attitude" LOL!! I couldn't believe it.

So does not having sex for a while change your attitude or something. Make you more like a b**ch?

2007-08-03 13:13:35 · 11 answers · asked by Sam 1

i like this 1 guy, but we dont have any classes together so i dont have a reason to tlak to him. but i want to get to know him and him to get to know me so maby he wil like me.but idk what to say to him... we only have lunch together. i dont want to say something stupid infront of him

2007-08-03 13:10:57 · 2 answers · asked by fuzzles! 4

We've been together for 8 months and recently had sex. But I'm not sure how often is normal for a teenage relationship.

2007-08-03 13:08:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i whant to give a present to my girlfriend
today it is our anniversary (if i can call it like that)
she is a rich girl she has everything,she does not need anything



any idea what to give her as gift?
----i have some flowers for her but any other ideas?

alll asnwers accepted

thanks

2007-08-03 13:01:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been with my on off boyfriend for3 years now but the age gap is concerning me. he is 33 and im 19 and we have been together since i was 16. i always thought that we would be judged on our age gap and not on our love for each other. i no its not exactly normal but the way i look at it u cant help who u fall in love with. i would just like to kno somebody elses opinion. please understand that i kno it doesnt generally happn but we do love each other.

2007-08-03 12:58:04 · 17 answers · asked by Sexy English Blonde 2

I have met a great older guy. I am 23 and he is 45. I really like him and think that he likes me too. We attend school together and whenever we have our breaks I catch him staring at me alot, he'll come up to talk to me, and I think that he wanted me to go to lunch with him today because I was by my car on my phone and he was in his car, which was right next to mine and he waited for a good few minutes before leaving. I feel a little juvenile for asking this question, but what is your opinion? Should I make a move or just get over it? Thanks for your advice!

2007-08-03 12:55:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy from another country (usa for me) is saying he "needs" me. he already asked me to be his girl. he asked me to forget my friends and i can't do that. i won't lose friendships for any man. if a man wants me he has to accept me having friends. i feel that it's selfish of him to ask me that. and yet he still says he "needs" me. he also called a good friend of mine selfish and she is far from that. he accused my friends and me of being all a like because we share what other people say about us. the question i want answered here is why does he say he "needs" me and if he does why does he "need" me. i have no interest in long distance.

2007-08-03 12:54:36 · 20 answers · asked by Princess LovAngel 4

2007-08-03 12:50:09 · 43 answers · asked by vball948 1

Just any random person. What are some signs that someone is cheating, or cheating on you?

2007-08-03 12:45:35 · 20 answers · asked by jme19914fun 3

We just had a movie date like a few days back. Everything was great and wonderful. We ended the thing on a high note. Then we continued text messaging. All of a sudden, yesterday, she completely ignores me. Acts as if i never existed and nothing happened between us. She also didn't even bother text messaging back. I'm thinking of calling her up and ask if i did anything wrong. But I don't want to sound desperate. What should i do?? Serious answers please dudes.

2007-08-03 12:43:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i will shortly be going to university and my bf , thinks that we should have an open realtionship(only me seeing other ppl and with his knowledge). he says that he thinks that i need to experiance life a bit more before our reationship gets really serious(moving into together, which i pretty huge step as we live in different coutries, and maybe marriage n family etc later on)which i agree, but the thing is i dont want to see other guys as i love the one ive got already, and he says hes falling in love with me. i think that if i do anything with another guy, i feel like i was cheating

i know hes worried that if we do get to that serious stage and that i meet some one that i fancy i might leave him, for a younger guy(my bf is 30 and im 18)which i wouldnt do.

so should i have fun at uni and experiance life a bit more( and thats NOT sleeping with every guy i meet) or be fully loyal to my bf?

please help

p.s sorry if its rather confusing,, but things are'nt quite clear to me

2007-08-03 12:37:04 · 16 answers · asked by darkness_says_hi 3

im really crushing on this guy, wot do you girls think of him
http://www.myspace.com/tomma8791

2007-08-03 12:35:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-03 12:30:14 · 1 answers · asked by laurie d 2