I’m seein this guy okay. We are both 18. I love him! I really do! I haven’t told him yet cuz I think it’s too soon. Thing is I’m wondering if I should end this “relationship.” He told me about how he had an abusive father and of the cruel things his dad did to him. My guy told me of the times he wanted to kill his father...he’s also talked of how protective he is of his friends. He told me of one specific incident, when a guy he knew got outta hand with some girl and tried to force a kiss on her. He told me that he just snapped and attacked the guy and beat him up pretty good (it’s true, it’s not a bluff)...he said that if his friends hadn’t yanked him off the guy that he prolly would have killed him. I can understand wanting to protect the people who are dear to you but at what cost? Am I in a doomed relationship? I’m wondering now if I should be with this guy. He promised me with all his heart that he would never ever hurt me...but how can I be sure now? My mom just filled me in on another horror story of a 19 year old girl who was found brutally murdered most likely by her bf....and obviously that’s not the only story....am I with the sort of person who will snap and end up hurting me or (perhaps) our future children? He’s the kindest and most sincere and honest guy I know, but what should I do? I’m getting kinda scared now.
2007-08-03
13:14:52
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