We just had a movie date like a few days back. Everything was great and wonderful. We ended the thing on a high note. Then we continued text messaging. All of a sudden, yesterday, she completely ignores me. Acts as if i never existed and nothing happened between us. She also didn't even bother text messaging back. I'm thinking of calling her up and ask if i did anything wrong. But I don't want to sound desperate. What should i do?? Serious answers please dudes.
2007-08-03 12:43:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The weird thing is, she was so into this date thing... She talked to me about her girl problems. I was her listening ear. I mean i did everything i could. I gave her a treat, I listened to her problems. I just don't understand what i did wrong... My friends have been telling me, go call her and settle this thing once and for all. I just don't know
2007-08-03 12:58:38 · update #1
You should just call her and ask her what the deal is? You should just intiate the conversation now so if she is done with you, you know now and can move on with your life. YOu have the right to know what she is feeling.
2007-08-03 12:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few days? give her a chance to come around. Since you guys are not in a relationhsip she is not obligated to respond to every text message or phone call. Its doesnt mean she lost interest. I'll be honest if I go out on a date and a guy continually calls me and texts me everyday before we go on another date, it comes off as clingy even if that was not his intentions.
My advice to you is to date a few other girls. It helps you from being attached too easily too quicklly just in case things dont work out in your favor. It gives you the benefits of finding different traits in girls that you may not have noticed about in just one girl, so when SHE finally comes along, you know she is exactly what you want :) If you feel the need to call, do so in a few days. If she doesnt answer leave a short and simple message. If she doesnt call back, then you know what the deal is. Dont panic just yet :)
2007-08-03 12:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Ayeshia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I'm sorry but just let it go dude if shes straight up ignoring you ,means she's just not interested that's what it sounds like to me, i mean I've done that before to many guys.
2007-08-03 12:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it is very important to you to know why. She could care less. Even if you asked her she would more than less lie, so I would forget about this girl and move on. She is not interested in you for some reason.
2007-08-03 12:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by regina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably figured, i mean, u never actually set another date, so u weren't really dating. So she probably went out w/some1 else, & thought it would be weird 2 continue txting u after that.
2007-08-03 12:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is chances that her cell phone died, had get a new one...or the worst thing that counld of happend was that she found someone that she likes better...but u seem like a nice guy so don't worry.
2007-08-03 12:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by rkk_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say the possibility is high you could be just overthinking things.
at the same time though, something may have happened to her, or something.
so if you really care about her, i would suggest calling her and making sure shes alright.
2007-08-11 12:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by poets_loss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. If he doen't come up with a decent reason for behaving like this then forget about her. You deserve better.
2007-08-11 02:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few reasons why she may have ignored your text messages.
1. her phone is dead
2. she didn't pay her bill
3. she's out with someone else
4. she's not feeling u.
2007-08-03 12:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by cutensweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her and get you some answers someone might have said something to her about you that was negative, or you could have just been a pit stop until someone better came along.
2007-08-11 10:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋