he wears the cross chain he gave her. claims hes religious thats y he never removed it. said if i wanted him to stop wearing it, he would. but i didnt want to be a natzi. i just found both of their baby pictures paired up in a family album! its driving me crazy. he doesnt want to talk about her. shes in the phillipines. he has said long distance relationships dont work. i want to know y they broke up but he rather not say. i just dont want to be second best. or have her be in his life in one way or antother for the rest of our lives or if we get married. hes so great and commited to me tho. ppl tell me i have a great guy who is so committed to me that i should forget about his past. i dont know if i should forget about it cuz hes so great to me. or maybe he just knows how to to be a great boyfreind. should i ask him to tell me and if he doesnt i think i will break up with him. i dont want to be living in her shadow 4 the rest of our relationship but i love him.
2007-08-03 05:50:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really need to let it go everyone has a past and maybe he is just not comfortable talking about the past. you should concentrate more on the here and now he sounds like a great guy and i think you would be foolish to let him go over something so trivial
2007-08-10 07:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is great, committed, and loves you, then you need to let it go. Why dig up something that only causes someone pain? He told you he would take the cross off if you asked him to. You are making yourself a martyr over a woman who is no longer with the man you are with. If you break up with him over him not wanting to talk to you over this, it would be better for him to move on because you do not sound mature enough to be in a relationship. You are making yourself live in her shadow and nobody else.
2007-08-03 05:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe this is bad but snoop theres bound to something that will give you answers just remember whatever you find it is his past and you can judge him or get mad cuz you get hurt seeing how it was with them. his stuff will only give you some ideas but he will have to give you the rest. if u love him & know he loves you then find out what you can on your own then leave it alone
2007-08-03 05:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by n.s. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you making a problem out of nothing? he is with you and he will talk about these things when he is ready too, don't push for details, leave it be
2007-08-10 10:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still cares for her in some way.You can't control him.The more you persist on wanting to know so much about her,the more you are mak.ng him think of her.
2007-08-03 05:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try talking to him instead of random internets people
2007-08-03 05:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋