ok so this is the story.........
i have been with my boy for 2 and a half years now, we had a massive arguement the other week over something stupid the other day and it got out of hand verbally (which it always does) but basically i was in the pub with my cousin and by bf walked past and saw me chatting to some guy which was my cousins mate (but is in long term relationship with someone who was sat inside!)
i sed some horrible things and he did too but one comment is playing on my mind over and over again - he sed he has slept with my my mate???? i was like WHAT and he sed yeh ive slept with her and ive always sed she is ugly but she was just a good shag. i asked him which mate it was but he never sed
i burst into tears flooding my bedroom with my tears and feeling my heart braking into half thinking how could he do this??? then i text my two best mates saying you slept with my boyfriend and they both immediately rang me saying what are you talking about? .....
2007-08-03 05:09:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one text me sayin 'what??' and then rang me 10 mins later sayin she was well upset when she got that text n do i really think she would do that.
and the other friend rang me immediately and sed wtf is all this about!!?! askin me what my bf is going on about n that her bf is gettin sketchy now!
later on when everytihng calmed down he sed he only sed it coz it hurt him that he saw me with another bloke but i cant stop thinking that he has shagged one of them and they are both keeping it a big secret from me??????
2007-08-03 05:11:37 · update #1
Sounds like WAY too much drama Darlin... I'd stay single if I were you until you can get past all the issues you seem to be dealing with now.
2007-08-07 09:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Rav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a healthy relationship. There is no respect. Get out of it, stay single and get healthy mentally and physically. If you think this is the way relationships are suppose to be...you need help.
I am not trying to be offensive or piss you off...this is honesty girlfriend.
Men only do what women allow them to do.
Walk away and stay away from him.
2007-08-11 11:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay just to let you know it is quite possable that he just said that to hurt you. a lot of guys are vendictive like that when they are mad, they just say things to hurt you. however there is a chance that it could be true. in my opinion it is not true, if he had told you that under different circumstances yeah but in the midst of a fight it was probably made up. it is not right that he would say that to hurt you but your about 85% guarenteed that it didn't happen
2007-08-03 12:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Reyna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even if he didnt sleep with your mate, it was so wrong of him to have said such awful thing to you. A sorry is not enough. I feel that this guy won't make you feel happy.
2007-08-11 05:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he definitely slept with one of them, nobody don't really say things like that unless they actually happened.
2007-08-11 02:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your ex bf is a jerk and you should look elsewhere. He succeeded in hurting you and you are letting him do it.
2007-08-11 10:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does you tummy tell you? come on your a lady. You already know. if your tummy is feeling kind of funny. you have your answer.beleive in your feelings. {gut} all women was blessed with that.
2007-08-11 01:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dee b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he has and i think it's the one that kept on calling you. they are trying to act dumb about now but that's why you don't let ur friends and ur bf be around each other when u r not there. idk you guys should really just talk it over all four of you.
2007-08-11 11:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by lil bad azz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether its true or not, why would you want to stay with a guy that would want to hurt you that bad???
2007-08-11 10:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by arnery_dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he just said it to hurt you
2007-08-11 08:52:32 · answer #10 · answered by miss jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋