do u think its bad to be 24 and had 18 sexual partners?

Question

lost my virginity at 23 and in the last yur slept with 18 people..is this bad? i mean some girls sleep with 18 ppl from when they are 18 til 24..

Ha ha, loving the answers guys...its all good now though as i have met someone and am settled with him..hopefully there will be no more and 18 will stay as my number!

the guy im with knows my past..and hwy i acted the way i did...also got tested and im all clear as i did use protection with every guy

Answer 1

Natasha, I think you are lonely. 18 sexual partners is just another way of looking for someone that actually cares about you. I challenge you not to sleep with anyone, just take a break. When you meet a guy, observe him. Try to discover if he likes YOU not the SEX. You will be more satisfied from a person that loves you for all of you because sex is not always fulfilling. People may call you a whore, ignore them. You can change, I just think you are a bit lonely. Try other activities that give you the same rush sex might give. Ride a roller coaster, go on an unexpected road trip. Anything! Good luck!

Answer 2

You know, that is pretty skanky. If you are a 24 years old and lost your virginity at 23 it's like a child with a new toy. You need to take control. Hopefully you have been taking birth control because, well if your pregnant than you don't know who the dad is than you'll be a single mother and won't have time to find a life partner. My sister is getting married and she is 22. Now that is probably what you should do is find a life partner.

Answer 3

You are very correct Natashia Starr that others have slept with that many or more during the six years that you've mentioned. But that is them and not you. It is not my place in life to judge you on your sexual preferences and activity but would suggest that having this many partners in a year may certainly affect how others view you. In addition the chances of contacting an STI would be increased dramatically with so many partners also, so I would say please be careful. I know how difficult it is being young and wanting to be loved and accepted but to be honest with you if you continue to sleep so freely with males you will certainly gain a reputation and may indeed have problems finding someone to have a meaningful relationship as guys will just use you for what they know they can get for free.

Answer 4

So you are 24 and had sex for the first time at 23. And you have had 18 people since than. Yea, thats alot of partners to have in about a years time. Slow down and I hope that all the times you used protection.

Answer 5

I'm not saying it is but you do seem to be overdoing it a bit. At 24, many people begin to aim for quality rather than quantity. That having been said, there is nothing wrong with you having fun while you are still young -- unless you are a really religious person (they have rules for this sort of thing). However, sleeping with 18 people in a calendar year seems excessive because it seems as though you are simply having mechanical sex just to give yourself pleasure.

Answer 6

i dont think it is necessarily a bad thing but not good either. just means you have a normal sex drive but i would consider trying to hold off till you can get just one guy regularly in your life and do him. you are right though. it sounds worse because you have had sex with 1.5 guys a month for a year. but i know a guy who lost his v at 22 and did 14 girls in a year, it kinda like that coke commercial where the old guy in the nursing home has never tried a coke before and when he does he realizes what he had been missing out on and cant get enough.

Answer 7

No sounds like you were making up for lost time and all the teen years you missed out on... good on you thats a lot of pent up energy.


May 24 year olds have slept with more people you just had a party.

Bad is mugging and bullying people, getting involved in gangs, dealing crack to children, terrorisim, raping people stuff like that.


You just being affectionate whilst looking for somoen specail.

s long as you practice safe sex thats all that matters.

Answer 8

It's not bad. The truth is I think everyone has their own view of what they think is acceptable and differs greatly from person to person. I personally prefer a guy who has not had very many sexual partners and actually would prefer if he was a virgin due to the risk of hpv which condoms don't protect against. Most people however aren't concerned with hpv and don't know what it is.

Answer 9

Yes...it is not a good thing. You have to ask yourself what are you missing in life that you had to have sex with 18 men in the course of one year. Some people dont have sex with that many people in a lifetime. We all have issues that we try to mask with other things. So obviously you have some underlining issues that you need to deal with before you make18 more mistakes. You need to look closely at yourself and try to find the real issues. It may be low self esteem, a desire to relive your teen years, or maybe you dont understand your true value as a beautiful young woman. Spend more time getting to know the real you...and spend more time with young women who you aspire to be like. Life is too short to give yourself away to people who may or may not have a true desire to love or care for you.

Answer 10

18 in a year what took so long to get laid the first time, actually not bad but gotta ask was it with 18 guys or a few gals involved all at once or just whenever dont keep us waiting.