do you or would practice abstinence or not, why?
2007-08-03 08:37:25 · 19 answers · asked by jonkristoffer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES. Abstinence definately. Statistics (not stories, actual numbers) show that there is less divorce where there is abstinance first. A strong relationship should be in place befre adding the physical passions that become so hard to control. and to sort out. Sex only screws up relationships that aren't ready for it, so why not wait until you are sure. THen it becomes much more sacred to bothof you. Together. Plus, no comparisons means less dissappointment. Explore together and grow together, it will strengthen your marriage even more.
2007-08-03 08:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysa(ducky)bridesmaid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't practice abstinence. I think to marry someone that you have to have a physical chemistry with them, it's almost as important as the emotional chemistry. If you don't have it, the relationship won't work. I'm not advocating sleeping around but I think if you're in a monogamous relationship, sex is healthy and good.
2007-08-03 08:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sex should be done to show the person you love how much they mean to you. first mentally stimulated then.. physically.
i think abstinence is good.
how else are you going to show your husband or wife how you love them.. in the most physical way?
but its really what ever you want.
i know i might not stay abstinent. i haven't made my mind. but I'm not going to just give my virginity to a boy I've been with for only a few months.
2007-08-03 08:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it depends on your religious beliefs I dont have any so I say because I prefer to enjoy all the pleasures in life and if you really care for someone I dont think marriage is the root you would need to wait for. Besides the fact what if you were not compatible? You would never know until you got married and when would you plan on that happening it might not be til you are 40!!!!!!!!
2007-08-03 08:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by Alice In Wonderland 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me, it depends on the type of person. I personally did not and am not waiting till marriage. Sex is about exploration not just "showing your love" for another person. Yes your sexual identity is important and some people dont want to reveal that identity until marriage. But if you think about it, you dont (with 100% knowledge) know that you will spend the rest of your life with that person. You want to but it just might not play out that way.
2007-08-03 08:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by ashsayswhat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. Do you know exactly how many dangers are in this world because of people not practicing abstinence?
2007-08-03 08:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Cain Bloodfang 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would not. because physical intamacy with your partner is a reflection of the love you have for that person in a physical intimate way...i dont need a piece of paper to tell me that its ok now...i want it to come from the heart so why push back those emotions until marriage. besides many people end up divorced because their sex life faulters, the passion dies, and the committment to each other is not there....thats crap but thats what happens....to me when i have those feelings i want to know that she feels the same way and has no problem expressing them as well...
2007-08-03 08:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....if you don't sleep with your partner before you commit the rest of your life to them then you take the chance they're bad in bed. Do you go the rest of your life without a sex life? What if he has a small pee pee or vise versa she may have a stinky pee pee. I know I would want to know what I was getting into before I was to make the big decision.
2007-08-03 08:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I always practice absitence. I will be a virgin until marriage. If I love a guy and he wants to have sex, I still wont have sex with him even if he threatens to leave me. If he loves me, he will learn to wait.
2007-08-03 08:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Nena (: 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Jonas Brothers might desire to be your idols, gay and abstinent! Do what you think of is nice, its a private determination. additionally dont seem down on others for his or her ideals in this subject, and dont attempt to impose your perspectives on somebody. tell them, dont tension them and be severe. For me in my view i think which you will possibly desire to attend till you're in love, no meaningless intercourse. in the olden days to procure married youthful, so it became straightforward to hold out and you maximum possibly married the 1st guy or woman you fell in love with. Relationships are diverse and you date a lot of human beings now and can fall in love many situations and persons marry later. i think of thats the way it became in basic terms to make human beings calm down in the top of their lives/healthiest to create possible offspring.
2016-10-09 03:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by jochim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋