Singles & Dating - 2 August 2007

I'd like to try some "back door" stuff, but he said he doesn't like the idea of it and says it's unsanitary. I thought that guys would jump at the chance? Is he abnormal?

2007-08-02 04:37:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a lovely looking female in my mid thirtees,and mother of 2 sons ,happily married i my life. very recently i found a coworker of mine who is about 4-5 years elder to me al the time noticing me and staring me very strangely s a boy looks at a girl.she even once told me that she loves me and that i am very lovely.she keeps staring at my bare body parts also. now i don't talk much to her but the way she looks at me and seems sad many times i feel i should talk to her,once i tried and she was just trying to make me say this to her that i love her too, however i have stopped talking to hr now. but still she stares at me and tries to look into my eyes . she once told me that i have beautiful eyes.i kept talking to her about my husband and kids once when i was with her i noticed that she was trying to touch me and did so. She is also married and had two kids. her husband is living in some other city due to his job.then i came to know that her husband has some problems in his eyes too.

2007-08-02 04:36:39 · 5 answers · asked by simpleveera 1

you had your first boyfriend./girlfriend, for the older ladies/men do you remember their names?

2007-08-02 04:27:39 · 21 answers · asked by welcome to my world 3

I have knowen this one girls for a while ,i really fancy her alot ,we started dating but things turned sour when she told this 1 friend of hers bout me, that friend stole her from me and soon we broke up but stayed friends, she however still says she has feelings for me and i responded by saying why cant u come back to me, she then said that she would like too but she thinks that she loves this guy, but i persevered and soon i was heart broken to find out they slept together and broke up cuz her bf said she was a bad lover, i gt her back in pieces but built her confidens up again and soon desided to start dating again but it wasnt long before she left me hanging to run back to her ex, i was destroyed but i am still trying to get her back!, that bf of hers is a loser and a bad influince to top, i think the fact that she lost her virginity to him was to blame cuz she thinks she loves him now cuz of that moment. Please Help Me , how is her gonna feel when he leaves her? im so confused.

2007-08-02 04:27:31 · 7 answers · asked by Xnite 1

I feel really stupid about sending this text message to this girl I like a lot. I said "Hey, If you want to chill or if you get kicked out again and need a place to stay for the night, I have my dads house to myself tommorrow night! Just let me know. Bye" I was just trying to be nice, it wasn't meant to sound bad. I feel really bad about sending it now because I have a feeling she might take it bad. We did hang out last night and it was fun and we talked and laughed. We are good friends (we have been friends for about a year now) She knows I'm a nice guy, My intentions were good when I sent that text it wasn't meant to sound bad. I hate myself right now for sending it! If I screwed up should I just move on? I really like her, but I don't think she will ever like me more than a friend.

thanks

BTW she is 17 soon to be 18 years old, and I'm 19 years old.

2007-08-02 04:26:40 · 22 answers · asked by BAS 2

2007-08-02 04:23:47 · 24 answers · asked by Daniel R 2

So i have been going out with this guy for 5 months and i am wondering why he hasnt called me back after he said he would call me back on monday and hasnt been answering my phone calls Or text whats goin on? and what should i do?

2007-08-02 04:18:44 · 14 answers · asked by JoJo 1

i wouldnt personally but just wondered what you girls think?
i'd be thinking well 'whys he still there/or why did he go back home? mmmmm tooo much baggage perhaps

2007-08-02 04:18:43 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl i was seein just said she doesnt want a relationship, she has been hurt before and isnt ready ect. i said that im different but she heard that before too. i then said all she would need is a bit of trust to find out and she said she isnt ready. i left it with 'you know where i am', what do you think will happen if anything? i always was nice to her and wont call her again unless she calls first?

2007-08-02 04:17:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy looks like a nice person and all and the girl really likes him but is afraid of what might people say about them of the age difference...

2007-08-02 04:17:26 · 26 answers · asked by ♥Complicated-World♥ 3

2007-08-02 04:14:40 · 17 answers · asked by Toves 1

Ok im going to the 9th grade! How can I make the guy I like ask me out??? what do u guys like in a girl at the age of 14???

Mosty Guys but girls welcome!

2007-08-02 04:14:26 · 10 answers · asked by 101lulu101 1

I am nearly head over heels for a guy I work with. He looks at me, stares at me, laughs at my jokes, asks me silly things just to speak to me. He smiles at me a lot and we keep catching each other looking at each other. Yesterday we could not keep from smiling at each other but today he said morning and that was that. Why would a man behave like this.

2007-08-02 04:09:37 · 17 answers · asked by KT 3

i cant understand how can it happen when the other person doesnt love them back equally?

2007-08-02 04:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by Sophia 4

so long story short, i'm looking for opinions as to what really happend. My sisters bf says he went over to a girls house who is known for getting around. He said they talked about this and that and that it was on a monday and they didn't have sex.
Now, when i talk to the tramp she says they talked about different things, it was a thrusday night, and they didn't have sex.
What i'm getting at is that there were two different nights of him going over there and they just are talking about different times.
The weirdest part of it all is that the tramp said my sisters bf just showed up at her appartment... when he doesn't even know where she lives... not to mention theres like 4 complexes and like 20 appartments to each one...
what are your thoughts?

2007-08-02 04:04:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and i have been together a few months, he and i were friends before that for a year or so. Yesterday we were together and just watching tv and hanging out and he seemed kind of bothered by something, so i asked him what was wrong and then he told me he was feeling depressed and then he was saying he didn't know why and then he got upset and started to cry. I just sort of listened and rubbed his back and stuff. He was treated for depression before, but i don't know what to do about it. I feel like there really isn't anything i can say because i have limited experience with this sort of thing and i'm not sure what else to do to be supportive. He also says he likes when we spend time together,and it makes him happy. but i don't want him to use me a crutch for his problem, i'm just not sure what to do.

2007-08-02 04:01:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my female friend needs advice bcoz of her situation. See, she has a boyfriend. Before, they were classmates, but now they aren't, so they don't spend much time together now. The girl feels that her boyfriend lacks affection that she needs & lacks time for her (since this guy is a studious type who'd prefer to study more than anything else!)..But the confusing part is this: the couple had a male friend (all three of them are friends)..Since the boyfriend couldn't provide the girls need, the girla lways turns to the male friend to share her problems w/o knowing that they'd already fallen 4 each other! Then the male friend admitted to the boyfriend that he likes her w/c ruined the 3's friendship &resulted to the couple's break-up..Now my friend's feeling so depressed, what should i advise her? pls judge who do you think is right? Even i myself was confused w/ their situation!

2007-08-02 03:57:14 · 3 answers · asked by 'd campus Hearthrob 1

2007-08-02 03:54:45 · 1 answers · asked by Lilian 2

Okay, so my ex-boyfriend and I had a sort of tumultuous relationship. We broke up because we both have depression and, let's face it, two miserable people together doesn't make anyone happy. Last time we talked (we were just friends then), we got in a big fight and he called me a selfish, mean *****.

Now, he comes back and says:
"im just going to come out and say it
i love you
everyone has told me not to tell u it. dont even consider loving her anymore. but its hard.
its hard when the person you love doesnt like u anymore.
its hard to stop loving someone when the person u love is the last thing u think about b4 you go to sleep.
its tough"

I still have leftover feelings for him, but I think it's just because I'm lonely.
I REALLY don't want to get back together with him.
What am I supposed to say?

2007-08-02 03:50:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want true answers here!

and i mean if it was a serious girlfriend

how would u feel?
would it kill u?

thankyou

:D

beijinhos♥♥♥

2007-08-02 03:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by . 3

so I have been with the same guy for 2 years. We became each others lives. His friends were into the wrong things and if he followed them he would have just gotten into alot of trouble. So within the two years he realized I was the only one that was truely there for him. We were each others lives and were with each other all the time. It got to the point where we needed space and were arguing all the time (we were in high school) so, 8 months passed, and we just got back together. During those eight months he got into some really bad things, (DUI, tickets,drinking,drugs) but he claims he missed me so much. So I agreed to try again with him, but we both are going to make sure we dont ditch our friends this time.When he is with his friends,he does things I think are not smart(drinking,drugs)and hes just going to get into trouble.He will not do any of it around me,and he wont even mention it because he knows it bothers me.Should I just let it go? I do kno I do love him when were together.

2007-08-02 03:49:10 · 10 answers · asked by Lindsay 1

I'm a really nice guy, and I really like this girl, but everytime I hang out with her when I drop her off I think about what I could have done differently or better or what I did wrong, and the next day I'm just a little depressed because it feels as though when we hang out we could have had more fun. I'm kind of shy, and it really bugs me that I can't open up more and be more outgoing around her. I know I think too much, but its hard not too because I don't want to screw up when I'm around her, because I feel as though If I do then she won't want to hang out with me anymore/as much. Last night I hung out with her and we had a good time, but this morning I sent her text, a dumb move by me, saying that Tommorrow night I will have my dads house to myself (He is going out of town), so if she wanted to chill or if she got kicked out again and needed a place to stay for the night to let me know. Now that I think about that text the more I hate myself for sending it because it sounds bad.

2007-08-02 03:48:55 · 1 answers · asked by BAS 2

me and my girlfriend work for the same company, on several ocasion i go suspicious of her going to his office and staying for long periods, when i confronted her on the matter she denied that anything ever happened, and that they were just talking. anyway she didnt work yesterday she came to the workplace with our son who is like 1year and 3 month old so i could see him. i dont live with her, and i hadnt seen my son from the day before. anyway she then went on to tell me that the day before my boss came to her work site and was making advances at her, and she told him no. ,then she said she didnt want what happened befor to happen again. then she went dumb, she realized that she had just opened up a can of worms. i then asked her what happened before. thats when she had no choice but to explain to me what had happen. she was in his office and he came up behind her started kissing her on the neck and she liked it. then she turned around and started kissing him back, then i was shocked.

2007-08-02 03:48:29 · 31 answers · asked by lonely 1

I am an attractive woman,and i am scared to go out and meet people. Whenever i get close to being with someone i run fast. i like safe attraction where i know that nothing will ever happen. I am shy and really anxious around people i don't know.especially men. I am scared that i am going to be alone forever. what can i do.

2007-08-02 03:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

feels a bit rubbish cos i liked the girl, what should i do?

2007-08-02 03:32:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I dated this girl for about a year. Then I find out she is cheating on me so I say forget it and I dont talk to her for a couple of weeks. Nothing no phone calls emails ims what soever. Well it turns out that she is like stalking me. I live in an apartment building and this other college age girl need help moving in and I helped her bring up a tv. Well I guess she saw this and threatened the girl to stay away from me. Now it turns out that the girl has a crush on me. My first question is does this girl just have a crush on me because she sees that my ex wants me back or would she of had a crush on me no matter what? Second this crazy B#$% EX was waiting at my door when I got home from work so I thought it would be immature but funny to just walk by her open up my door then lock it and not say a word. But she wouldnt let me unlock it and started screaming in the hall for me to talk to her so I finally said sure leave me the hell alone. I see her like watching me

2007-08-02 03:19:59 · 24 answers · asked by Mr. Martini 3

2007-08-02 03:13:10 · 13 answers · asked by AO 4 Yayo 4

Me and this girl have been friends ever since we started high school (I am currently in year 10). Lately I have been getting sexual feelings for her, the other day when she was over my place we just started kissing out of the blue, so I know she feels that way about me too. A couple of days later we went further just foreplay no sex. I don't know what do to, I don't know whether I want to start 'going out' with her or just stay friends or 'friends with priviledges'.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-08-02 03:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by justin_k007 2

2007-08-02 03:08:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

im going on a date with a lady thats 43 that has a super nice body. what are my chances of ending up having sex with her.
she flirts with me a little. should i just try to kiss her?

2007-08-02 03:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous