I have knowen this one girls for a while ,i really fancy her alot ,we started dating but things turned sour when she told this 1 friend of hers bout me, that friend stole her from me and soon we broke up but stayed friends, she however still says she has feelings for me and i responded by saying why cant u come back to me, she then said that she would like too but she thinks that she loves this guy, but i persevered and soon i was heart broken to find out they slept together and broke up cuz her bf said she was a bad lover, i gt her back in pieces but built her confidens up again and soon desided to start dating again but it wasnt long before she left me hanging to run back to her ex, i was destroyed but i am still trying to get her back!, that bf of hers is a loser and a bad influince to top, i think the fact that she lost her virginity to him was to blame cuz she thinks she loves him now cuz of that moment. Please Help Me , how is her gonna feel when he leaves her? im so confused.
2007-08-02 04:27:31 · 7 answers · asked by Xnite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl doesn't sound very smart. If any guy did that to me I would dump his a.ss in two seconds flat. Well, since it seems like you really like her, I would just stick around & wait. Don't pick her up the moment she gets dumped though. This makes you 'the rebound guy'. Eventually she'll realize this other guy is just using her & when she does, she'll come back to you.
2007-08-02 04:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey what the heck are you doing? This girl is using you as an emotional crutch and when her lover calls her name she leaves YOU fast. You're feeling confused because you don't want to hear or see the truth of this matter. Leave her alone and hang out with people who love and care about you. Get to know yourself better, Relationships are a lot of work, they are not just about Sex and Romance.
Good Luck
2007-08-02 11:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by JillardG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he leaves her you mean. There's no telling what he might do. (But naturally she'd be heartbroken if he did and would no doubt come running back to you for support).
I know you've probably heard this before but I honestly think you'd be better off just moving on. I can see how much this girl means to you, but she's treating you like dirt and is completely disregarding your feelings; is that the kind of girl you want to be with? At the end of the day she has to make her own mistakes and learn from them.
2007-08-02 11:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women truly believe that the man they lose their virginity to will always have their heart. Unfortunately, she is probably just going to have to learn the hard way that he is no good. All you can really do is be a good friend to her, be there for her. It is unfair to you though, to put your life on hold waiting for her.
2007-08-02 11:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"but i persevered "
your british, right ?
is there anything big and heavy near you right now? a baseball bat ? you need something to hit yourself in the head with until you stop thinking like this.
either that, or start picking fights with guys bigger then you, it will hurt less then what she is doing to you, and you can still enjoy the pain.
2007-08-02 11:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow well there isnt too much u can do right now, but if your so confident that he'll break uo w/ her be sure ur there 4 her wen he does. And let her know that ull always be there and u care about her alot
2007-08-02 11:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her get hurt by him.. again and again
and eventually she'll realize hes a looser and wont go back..
OR just try and stop talking to her completely.. start avoiding her.. and IM ABSOLUTELY sure.. that they'll break up soon... and she'll try to come runnin back to u.. n then just avoid her n stuff.. for a while.. n if u still want her back then.. talk to her but keep it short.. dont be extra nice.. let her know that wat she has done is wrong.. she hurt u... n went to her ex.. make sure she realizes it n then get back with her..but make it clear that u dont want her talkin to him.. and u dont want it to repeat
GOOD LUCK
2007-08-02 11:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋